Sticky love won t last long

First of all, everyone's view of love is different, some people like to cook ** porridge every day, but some of them like to go with the flow, but everyone's love is quite enthusiastic at the very beginning, so it's called hot love. Hehe, but this gentleman, I'm still going to tell you, oh, don't be too sticky. This way, the other person will feel like a child and need to be taken care of anytime and anywhere.

Being too sticky will make people feel unfree, and if it's serious, it will make the other party think that you don't trust them, are you worried about whether she has split her legs, so she keeps contacting her excessively. However, sir, your approach also cares about hers, but you must have a quantity, so as not to make the other party feel uncomfortable.

Everyone needs a certain amount of personal space, so be careful.

Give each other a little free space, don't be centered on who and who all the time, and think about whether you have completed what you should do today, it is always bad to rely too much on one person, and besides, there is no one in this world who can make you rely on for a lifetime.

Stickiness is gradual, as long as the other party can accept it, it should not be a problem if it does not affect the other party's life.

Also, some people are clingy because they don't have confidence in themselves, and they are afraid that they will run away if they let go of each other.

It won't be a long time before anyone can tell you, as long as you grasp the "degree".

Purely a personal opinion, I personally think that love is divided into three levels, the hot love period, the run-in period, and the coexistence period. During the love period, you will want to be with each other for 24 hours, and after this period of time, you will begin to quarrel and run-in, and you will reach a period of coexistence, and the two people will depend on each other and rely on each other. You are still in love, and she may be more mature, you can try to communicate with her, tell her what you think, and communication can solve the problem.

A psychologist once wrote, "There are four stages to a mature love that can be called true love."

The time required to transition between coexistence, anti-dependence, independence, and symbiosis is not necessarily the case, and it varies from person to person.

Phase 1: Coexistence.

This is a time of passionate love, and I always hope to be tired of being together whenever and wherever I want.

Phase 2: Anti-dependency.

When the emotional stability is stable, one party wants to have more time to do what they want to do, and then the other party will feel left out.

The third stage: independence.

The fourth stage: symbiosis.

At this time, a new way of getting along takes shape, and you have become the closest people.

Together, you support each other and create your own life together.

Together, you will not be tied to each other, but you will grow with each other.

He or she is like a relative to you.

However, many people can't get through the second or third stage and choose to break up.

In fact, many things will be fine as long as you communicate well, but thinking too much and being willful is unavoidable.

How difficult it is to meet the only you in the world, can you not give up easily.

Did you find out?

You don't have anything in common, you don't look alike on the outside, your personalities are very different, but you love each other and then stay together, day after day, year after year, and you will be surprised that your eyes are a bit like his.

His smile is a bit like yours.

You walk at a similar pace.

And the tone of your voice is becoming more and more similar.

You love the same drink.

Your mantra has become the same.

You can always guess what each other's next sentence will be.

It turns out that we will become the ones we love.

You unknowingly get him to break his bad habit of frowning.

This change may not even be noticed by himself.

He unknowingly makes you become less so-so.

You almost don't recognize yourself.

will gradually become the ideal person of the other party unconsciously, and this change is definitely not deliberate.

The longer two people get along, the more similar their temperaments become, and one day, you are surprised to find out how tacit you are in this way.

Maybe you will never encounter such feelings again.

When you love someone deeply, you really lose yourself little by little.

no.It is right that distance produces beauty. That too much distance will only make the feelings fade.

Sticky feelings make us quickly tired of it.

The taste of happiness is quickly gone.

So, learn to master.

Don't clingy often, or often. There has been a long distance.

The clingy feeling is sweet, but too much sweetness can be burdensome.

If you want to go the long way, you should keep some mysterious distance from each other, have your own space, and do what you want.

No, my boyfriend and I have been sticking to each other for 6 years, and we continue to stick to each other

It depends on the thoughts of the sticky party. If he or she loves you and cares about you, he or she will indulge you and do things considering your clingy habits. If it is secondary, it will naturally be difficult to last long.

Another possibility is that because of clinginess, the other party's independent life will be subverted, and eventually cause the untimely death of love. Vary.

In my opinion, the love of lovers will not last long, love is not everything, both parties need space and freedom. Love needs to be renewed, it needs to be fresh. This is just my opinion and is just for reference.

This....I think there is always one party in love who pays more, that is, weaker, even if the other party doesn't understand, he always loves to revolve around him, just because he loves him... You have to tolerate your girlfriend, she doesn't like to stick, so don't bother.

As far as I am concerned, I think that women must understand their independent life to understand how to love others, and those who rely on others will one day have to face everything by themselves, as for separation is love, I can only think that distance produces beauty, if you love her enough and can tolerate everything about her, then nothing is a problem, and whether it is worth it is only you know.

If you are too clingy, the other party will think that you can't do without him, and it will make the other party feel that they are too important, so it is best to be reserved when you are in love.

I think it's a good thing to be clingy! Sticky people have to divide the time, for example, when your friend is doing the right thing, you and he will think you are unreasonable last year, so even sticky for a while.

To leave some personal space for each other, sticky means that you have a good relationship, sticky all day long, this situation depends on the other party's attitude, some people are not particularly suitable for sticky people.

Personally, I don't think it's good, you have to give each other enough space, it's too clingy, and it will make the other party feel very depressed. In some aspects you have to be yourself, don't just think about the other person, he is not your property.

I don't think it's good, being too clingy will make people feel annoying, it will make people think that you are monitoring each other, and you don't give enough trust to each other, so we have to give each other independent space when we are in love.

Yes, being too clingy will make the other person feel that they are not good at all, so that the other person will not have free space, and slowly your relationship will become very bad.

Yes, it's too clingy, the other party doesn't have personal space, and others will get bored after a long time, which is not conducive to the development of feelings.

Don't be too clingy, moderation is good, I believe that as long as it can be controlled, it will help to promote feelings.

When you're in love, isn't it bad to be too clingy?

Hello, this question is answered by me. When you're in love, don't be too clingy! As the saying goes, love is like sand in your hands, the tighter you pinch it, the faster it will drain away.

During the relationship, you must learn to give each other some free self-space, and keep your distance to find more beauty! Of course, you can't just give each other free space, this kind of irresponsibility for feelings is not advisable. Hope this helps! 