Why do I feel very tired and distressed after graduating from college, and I really want to go back

Everyone is at this stage Adjust your mentality Whether to continue to study or participate in work Don't put too much pressure on yourself Find a simple and easy first job Mainly used to adapt to the rhythm of work and colleagues Environment Come on!

Not everything you learn in school can be used to deal with social things, and your inner self-protection mechanism leads you to want to escape from society and go back to a school that is relatively simple and less stressful to survive.

I also have this feeling, graduated this year, came to an automobile factory, workshop internship for three months, really tired, assembly line work, I don't know how much sweat, until now I am still in the workshop internship, tired when I will miss the student days, we go to the society to work for others, will find that the most free and beautiful is college life, but what can be done, the earth does not stop, time keeps moving, we always have to go through all this, I was tired at the beginning and couldn't stand it, almost quit my job and went home to take the civil service exam, But in the end, I persevered, and recently realized that people's lives are actually very short, we have not had more than 20 years, now insist, work hard, is to live the life you like in the near future, no matter how hard and tired you will always pass, time will take away everything, nostalgia for the past is useless, it will only make us more negative, I want to tell you, think clearly about what kind of life you want, what you are suitable for, what you like to do, hurry up and go in that direction, time is very fast, I have signed a three-year contract now, But I don't like my current job very much, I've been thinking about the opportunity to do something else, take exams or do a small business, I like freedom, I don't want to work for others all the time, work hard, adapt to the new environment, think long-term, be optimistic!

Because it's harder to earn money than to study,

Sympathy.. That's society. Reality.

1.Fatigue in class and inability to keep up with the teacher's rhythm. University teachers teach big lectures, and the speed is very fast, and if you don't ask questions in time, you are likely to ignore the points that you don't know, resulting in weak basic knowledge and difficulty in learning.

2.Greedy sedan makes playing lazy, and homework cannot be completed on time. Professors in college don't stare at you doing your homework, so many students are greedy for fun and don't pay attention to their studies, but if they don't complete important assignments, they can't get credits and diplomas.

3.Lack of learning resources, and there is a big information gap with others. Many materials in the university have to be consulted with the help of the library, and modern technology is so developed that you can use the Internet to make up for information checks, and you can also ask for help from seniors.

The first thing you have to do now is to calm down. I can see you're messed up right now. Everyone has just graduated, and their troubles are similar.

You have to believe that you are not alone in this problem, and thousands of college graduates are the same. The most important thing is that you really find what you like to do and plan for yourself what you want to do as your own business. Find what you love, and then think about where to start.

If you really don't want to go to the factory, don't force yourself, otherwise you will regret it in the future.

The prospects for the development of the logistics profession are not bad. If you can't afford to leave home, you can find a job in your city. You don't have to be limited to logistics either, other jobs you enjoy can also be considered.

During the interview, the examiner is more interested in your thinking skills and the ability to behave in the world that your university experience has brought to you. Don't be too pressured to think that if you study this major, you have to hang yourself from this tree.

If you want to open a point, this life is just dozens of springs and autumns, and it will be very fast. Do what you want to do.

For me, what I miss most about my university is nothing else, that is, the school cafeteria, although I have graduated for two years now, I still remember the days of eating, drinking and having fun in the university, and often hope to be able to return to the university to revisit the dishes in the school cafeteria, cheap and delicious is the biggest feature of our school canteen, which is not comparable to other universities.

When I was about to leave the first-tier city where the university is located, I was able to go to the school because of some formalities to go through, so I was able to go to the school before leaving, and the first thought I had when I went to the school was to taste whether the food in the university cafeteria was still the same taste, in fact, I did the same, because our school canteen was not open to the public, so I couldn't buy a meal ticket, so I could only borrow a card from a junior sister, which was also considered to meet a small wish after graduation. In addition to the nostalgia for the university cafeteria, our university has also undergone great changes, and the cafeteria is definitely the biggest change, not only is it more gorgeous than the decoration we had at that time, but also the dishes have increased a lot, and it is more and more able to meet the requirements of students for food.

In addition to the cafeteria that I longed for, when I went to the dormitory where I lived at the time, every road I had walked and saw new faces made me feel deeply emotional, and I also had a feeling that time would not come again. It is precisely because of the experience of returning to the university campus after graduation that I have always felt that in addition to working hard, I should also enjoy the university life, so that the university life can be truly complete.

It's full of memories! Needless to say!

Although I am now a sophomore, I will feel a sense of joy when I return to campus after the winter and summer vacations, just like the feeling of going back to your alma mater after graduating from elementary school, junior high school and high school for many years, full of memories and love!

No matter what you have experienced in school, good or bad, your alma mater will keep this memory of yours here, and if you don't come back to explore, then it will be sealed here forever.

Because there are a lot of plants, there is a particularly large banyan tree in the school, the playground is surrounded by rivers, and willow trees are planted all around, and the willow branches can be woven into various gadgets in summer, which is particularly fun, and I have been going to school with the same people when I was in elementary school, because our school is very small, not a small place, but fewer people go there, so our friendship is many years.

Our elementary school classmates are still very cordial together, but it's been so long, the school has been renovated, and I haven't even looked back to see it, because I think it has changed, and there is no more river and willow tree, and there is no more the big banyan tree that talks to me.

Now, ** is demolished and refurbished, and the equipment has indeed been updated, but that memory has also been ...... with the slumber undergroundNow that it's changed, I'm not going to go back to it, just pretend it's still the same

So my own words have the deepest impression of the beginning and the end, that is, my elementary school years and my current college years, because in these two periods, I faced it with my truest appearance, I was still the same naughty, it didn't make sense to do anything, if I was troublesome, I said I didn't know, I like my current self, and I like my current campus.

I have a senior who I know a lot in school, he has graduated, he helped me a lot when I first came to school, he answered all my questions patiently, and to be honest, I think he was really good to me (although I don't know if he did this to other people).

It's been a year and a half since he graduated, and he came back to see me occasionally, and every time he came back, he would talk to me about a lot of things, the most of which was the memories and reluctance of this time in college, and the difficulty and hypocrisy of the current society, sometimes there is really too much helplessness in the society, you can't change such a society, only let go of the bottom line.

Therefore, we should cherish all the memories during this time, and the more you experience, you will find that it is still the most real in college

After graduating from college. I think if we have the chance, we will all go back to our alma mater and walk on the campus road to reminisce about our university life. When you return to the university campus after a few years, some people will find that their alma mater has not changed at all, and it is still the same as before, but some people will find that their alma mater has changed a lot, with many more buildings and some places with a different layout.

After graduating from university, I haven't been back to my alma mater for three years, because the distance is relatively far, and the motion sickness is serious, so I don't like to run too far, but I always heard on the Internet and in the circle of friends that my alma mater has built a new building, renovated, and what more plants and so on. At the end of last year, I happened to go there to deliver a document, so I happened to go to the school on the way.

When I first walked to the gate of the school, I found that the gate of the school was still the same as before, but the inside of the gate was fenced not far away, and it was said that the road surface and the lawn inside the gate were being renovated. When I walked into the campus, I first came to the complex where I used to eat a lot, and found that the complex had been renovated, and the floors had been renovated, but the restaurants and shops inside were still the same as before, and I felt a special sense of familiarity. Then I went straight to the cafeteria, and found that the cafeteria had also been renovated, and the second floor of the cafeteria had been turned into a restaurant, where you could gather and order.

As I walked around the campus, I found that the school building was still the same as before. However, I found that there is an additional comprehensive gymnasium in the school, which looks good from the inside, and the space is so large when I go in, we used to play basketball, table tennis, and badminton only to go to the playground, but now we can also exercise in the comprehensive gymnasium, so I envy the current younger students. Finally, I came to the landmark building of the school, looking at the bell tower that we called the jumping tower at that time, the bell tower of more than ten floors was erected in the front of the school, and it could be seen from afar.

When I returned to school this time, I found that my university campus had changed a lot, and the places that used to be mounds of earth have all become beautiful buildings, and I really miss the old days when I went to school.

Because I was carefree at school, I didn't think about what parting would be like, but if it really came to the day of parting, there was too much reluctance, which is why I wanted to graduate when I went to school, and I wanted to go to school when I graduated.

Hello, university is our last transition into society. You are accustomed to the life pattern of a college student, and this pattern has been broken after entering the society, and there are many things to consider. For a moment you didn't get used to it, so you were at a loss and felt lost.

You retreat, and therefore you close yourself off to your college life. Rely on memories to support your present life. Now you have to think about it, what do you think?

What are you confused about? Why are you confused?

What you need to do now is to recognize that society and the life of college students are completely different, and you will be at a loss if you don't have a goal in life. You start by setting yourself a short-term plan, don't let your life be empty, and fill yourself. To improve your interests and hobbies, you will need to make a career plan for yourself in the long run.

to implement your step-by-step plan.

Finally, I hope you will be able to get through the period of confusion as soon as possible, break out of the haze, and stride forward towards the light.

After all, memories are memories, and they are in the past, but we also live in the present and the future. No one can change that. Memories are often the most beautiful, but our lives go on, don't they?

Wouldn't it be beautiful to free up some space in our hearts, freeze these good memories, and come out to see when we are tired, and keep an optimistic heart to find our future. Come on!

This can only be said to be your problem, people! It is inevitable that you will encounter some problems that you can't solve for the time being... Think about the future for yourself.

Don't be confused, adapt to society. It's useless to be too good to be in college.

1. You have to have an ordinary heart, there are many people like you, not you;

2. You should be proud of your diploma, which is the result of your hard work;

3. Today's society is more complicated, and it is difficult to find a good job without a certain relationship, so you need to explore and find it yourself;

4. Contact your classmates more, be generous at hand, it doesn't matter if you spend a little, some of their parents are better and have certain social relationships, and there may be unexpected help from you;

5. Do more sports, including running, climbing, playing ball, etc., because it is easy to find your partner, which can not only comfort and nourish your energy, but also improve your self-confidence;

6. Read more online recruitment information, seize the opportunity, and don't miss the opportunity;

Remember: the sky will be sunny after the rain!

Confused about what,. It's just that you didn't get rid of laziness, and first went to find a general job to do a shot.

Today is the youngest day you will have in the future, and what you have today is a tomorrow that people who passed away yesterday cannot have. Make the most of every day, and live a meaningful life!

Forget about the original learning experience! Survive with a new and fearless look!

What is so tired in college, not necessarily all day is class, if you feel tired, don't go to the student union, daily study as long as you ensure that you don't fail the course, the freedom of the university is still very high, compared with high school, it is simply heaven, after all, high school speaks with scores, not to get a 60 points to pass, but also to withstand the pressure of the college entrance examination, you feel tired in college, how did you survive high school? In the future, when you work in the society, every day is pressure, how will you survive in the future? You have to climb up the ladder at work, right?

How can you earn a high salary if you don't climb high? Heap by time? If you want to climb up, you have to work hard and learn how to deal with your boss, right?

You're not the only one who wants to climb, right? So you have to guard against people's hearts, these things are tiring to think about, let alone do it? What do you feel tired about?

Tell me, we can talk.