What should I do if my freshman year is depressed? 20, What should I do if I am depressed in my fres

You may be a little uncomfortable when you first enter college, try to meet some new people, play together more, and wait until everyone gets to know each other. Or if you want to enter a club you like, don't have any utilitarian thoughts, just simply go in to give full play to your strengths. The main thing is that the environment is unfamiliar.

But don't shut yourself off, and don't go to an Internet café every day because of depression.

Most of the people who have just entered college are like this, just participate in club activities and find something to do.

Actually, it was like this at first.

When I first arrived at school, I wanted to go home and repeat my studies.

But now that I've graduated, I can't go back to the city I love so much.

It's good to get used to university life, and having time to learn more English will be good for you in the future.

Hehe, does it feel disconnected from what you imagined? At first, there will be a sense of loss, if you have any interest, continue to develop, and then add 1 or 2 departments and associations to play.

I didn't find my own fun, college life is very short and precious, if you miss it, you won't have it, cherish it.

Tell me and I'll share it with you.

Hello, read what you said, very sympathetic, in fact, I am also a college student, some of your situations are also a little similar to me, college is indeed very different from high school, a bit like a small society, in fact, college is half of the society, before stepping out of the society, you need to learn some knowledge in a small social economy, some skills, is to prepare for your future employment, into the university, changed to a free environment, so gradually become lax, become inadequate, A lot of things you want to do will just stop thinking and not acting. In fact, people who really know how to read, will know how to arrange their own lives, your parents work hard, you have also entered a key school, this is an opportunity, should be cherished, high school is not used to residential life, but when it comes to college it is different, we need to learn to be independent, we need to get along with them, learning to get along with them is also a science, because everyone comes from different places, different personalities, sometimes there will inevitably be contradictions, which requires us to know how to be tolerant.

From the moment you first entered the university, you have the idea to study seriously and build yourself into a high-quality compound talent, which shows that you are very self-motivated, but then because of participating in some activities, your grades began to be bad, resulting in an inferiority complex, in fact, you don't need to be like this, you know that your grades are not good, then you have to find the reason, why you will go down, is the first problem, find the root of the problem and solve it. You want to take the civil service exam, join the party, it means that you have always been very motivated, but it is not easy to learn about your parents, and you have complained about the society, the society is very realistic, some things have to be faced, you know that it is not easy for your parents, you should not indulge yourself, you have to work harder, just imagine that your parents know that you are free in school, that is not to make them very disappointed, then their hard work is not in vain, the dormitory gets along with the problem, more from the perspective of others, try to integrate with everyone, Everything is not as difficult as you imagined, in fact, how you treat others, others will repay you. Give yourself a chance, try to get along with everyone, okay, as for the college is very confused is very normal, you can't just because your school is the focus of not worrying about your future, the future is to rely on your own efforts, you need to pay, try to find your own direction, life goals, you can develop in your own interests, the school you go to is the best in your province, but think about how many people go to the general school, so, cherish such a good opportunity, university, It is the most beautiful journey in life, it is a time to test self-independence, you can learn a lot, it depends on how you look at it, the ideological value of this period is very unstable, and it is also slowly formed, and it will make people grow after experiencing it, as for falling in love, it is actually very good, but you still have to grasp your academic and emotional relationships. Grades can catch up, in college, in fact, as long as you work harder than others, you will definitely be able to do well, okay, I hope you can cheer up after seeing it, give yourself some space to think, believe in yourself, and it is not in vain that your parents expect you to do so, come on, bless you.

China's current national conditions.

After college, you need to re-understand society and yourself.

When you were a child, your parents were your pride.

When I became more sensible, I found that society was not so pure.

It's normal in this society, it's hard and tiring to be an upright person, but I'm doing it...

Seeing your description, it turns out that China's future can still be saved, at least you know right and wrong, at least for now.

I have wanted to go abroad countless times, and I now define China as "hell on earth".

But when I'm gone, China will lose its integrity.

It's not that I'm great, it's that I don't want my soul to get dirty.

I graduated in '11, and now I've been working for a year. As far as I'm a person who has come over, let me tell you what I think, maybe I don't think the same as others, so you can consider it.

Personally, I think that university is a miniature version of society, and as a society, the test is not how well you do your homework and how high your score is in the test, but it focuses on your practical ability, communication ability and so on.

You say you don't do well in your studies, what is it good for? I don't think what's the use of learning how good it is if you can't even do basic communication? If you say it's good, you'll be called a reader, and if you don't hear it, you'll be a nerd. Nothing is said by the results.

You are studying mechanics, right, so I think you should focus on your practical ability, then theory, and also communicate with people more to develop your communication skills.

As for accommodation, it should be because you have been too dependent on people since you were a child. Don't think too much, sometimes listen to songs, watch**, just relax. If you want to find a soulmate, you must first be good to people, at least be honest and sincere.

Anyway, you also said that people call you the boss, don't be so pessimistic as the boss, so how do you look at the small ones, anyway, we are "less than the top, more than the bottom", it doesn't matter, the environment and interests are to make people slowly adapt and cultivate, and now there is no adaptation and no interest, so take your time. Gloomy! That's what it is.

That's garbage, don't do it!

I would like to ask you: 1: What do you want to do in college? Do you give yourself a choice (either study seriously or drop out)?

2: You spent your parents' hard-earned money in college, but you skipped classes but didn't study seriously, is this what your parents want? Do you want your child to do the same?

3: If you just get a diploma in college and don't know anything, what will you do when you graduate? Have you been so confused, are you a gnawing old man?

4: Will Your Parents Get Old? You don't need to raise your parents in the future?

5: Today's girls are very realistic, if you are not good at anything and cannot afford to buy a house or a car, can you fall in love and get married?

You're already an undergraduate, much better than many others, like me in college, but I haven't given up on moving forward.

Maybe I'm a little talker, but I hope you think about it.

I can understand your feelings, it's Tsinghua, right? If you fail the course, you will not be guaranteed to study once, and you will drop out of school three times, and you will have very strict rules. It's useless to be depressed now, hurry up and review well, take a make-up exam, and ask the professor if he can help you delete the record of failing the course Find a relationship or something, you must study hard in college Xueba should also study hard, take it as a lesson, it's okay, the proportion of freshman grades is small, and you must study hard from the sophomore year Come on, if you are from Tsinghua University, you can ask me if you don't know anything!

Good luck with your studies and all the best.

Review well and strive to pass the exam, it's okay to be in a bad mood, and I can't let you pass. I'll have to work on my own.

Seeing that you are in such a hurry, is it because you are studying for a bachelor's and master's degree and are afraid of losing classes and lowering your degree?

Retake the exam or retake it, there's no way, just fall in love.

Then work hard to make sure you don't do it again next time.

What's the point of not failing a course in college? It's like going to college and not falling in love.

No university is complete without failing a course.

If you fail the course, you will take the retake or retake it, which is very troublesome. So, spend more time studying. Even if you don't study hard, don't worry.

There is still a month left until the exam. According to the teacher's review lesson, review well. Ask the seniors or seniors to borrow the exam papers from the previous session to take a look.

The general question types are similar.

I hung 15 credits in my freshman year, and I don't think it's okay to get back on my feet, do you need to make such a fuss.

If you have the heart to work hard, work hard.

Otherwise, it's useless to cry your nose here.

Nonsense, make-up exams, that's all.

Khan died, Nako can't do Tinak.

There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the boat is naturally straight to the bridge, so it is good to go with the flow. Time can't stand still, so there's no need to be sad. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles. Adjust your mindset. There is no straight road in life, and there are ups and downs in life.

Life is immeasurable, and there are countless troubles. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past. Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back.

Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed. After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear.

As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.

As long as you can actively participate and do something, you will definitely become more and more capable...

Before coming to college, every child imagines college as the ivory tower of their dreams, but when they actually come to university, it feels completely different from what they imagined. What exactly is a university? What do you do when you come to university?

This is all the confusion when I first arrived at university, in fact, as long as I adjust my mentality, I won't feel so bored when I find my goal. For example, you can join some clubs that you like, but not too much, that will be overwhelming; Secondly, you must study hard, university is still a school, and learning is still the most important thing.

I usually have nothing to do with going to the library to read books, but I can also enrich myself, so I don't need to be depressed.

After listening to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets", you will not be depressed.

We must learn to play and enjoy, we must learn to communicate and cooperate, and we must be able to not fail the subject

Learn English, find a partner, and exercise.

I feel that there is something to say, and I can't solve the problem without communication. I don't know what kind of personality you are, or if your performance in the company makes people feel like they are being bullied. In short, I think everyone has job responsibilities, unless every position in your company is gibberish and everything is done, otherwise you can talk to your leader and say that your work is saturated, and doing it will affect the quality of work, etc., this kind of listening is not wanting to take the job, in fact, it is terrible not to know how to refuse, if you are already under pressure, why not refuse.

When I heard you talk like this, I felt that the feelings you usually show are that you can't do without this job, in fact, take it easy, it's easy for a leader like you to bully you to work harder. And to measure whether the job is technical, or messy, if there is technical content, you can understand that the leader cultivates you. If it's just a very ordinary work that consumes time and energy, I think your leader is bullying the soft.

How can there be so many leaders who train others, they are all selfish.

Why doesn't the leader ask someone else to do this? He expects something from you.

How can there be a reward for not enduring hardship? The official and filial piety are bright and crush people to death, don't think that doing so much work in vain will leave a good impression and will be useful.

If you say that you can't do it yourself, even if the leader lets someone else do it, will you do it if there is something good in the future?

1.If you don't work part-time, you can't do it.

2.If you're a civil servant, you absolutely have to do it.

3.You are an employee of the enterprise, this is to be discussed.

It seems that there is a tendency to bully you, and if you look good, I will call you to do it.

If you don't want to do it, you will refuse decisively, if he wants to dismiss you or something, there is a law!

It can be done with the help of **.

I think it's okay to refuse this, you don't have to worry about anything, but I'm afraid of you in the future, this leader bullies the soft and is afraid of the hard, it can be seen that because others do this, they will say all kinds of bad things about him behind their backs, and he Qiaokuan feels annoying, or you are easy to do, saying that I want you to do it. The leader knows that you won't be able to do anything, so that's all.

I'd rather mess with a gentleman than a villain, that's what happened, and the leader let you do it.

The villain is far away, and you should be happy. However, the villain is gone, leaving neutral and needs you to fill in the frustration you feel, which seems to be a blessing! Trying to open without grasping a point can lead to your trust, even though it doesn't give you an increase in pay.

If you refuse, the consequences will be left unspoken. It's better to bear with me and see what to say.