Long distance relationships are difficult to defeat loneliness, what factors are easy to lead to the

Long-distance relationships are difficult to maintain, they are in different places with each other, and the relationship is like a distance from each other, constantly estranged. So what factors can lead to the end of a long-distance relationship?

1. The social circles are different and there is no common topic.

We live in different working environments and living environments, we have different friends and different social circles, so it is difficult for us to find a topic after a long time of not seeing each other. Gradually, we will find that there is less and less communication between us, less communication, and the distance between hearts is getting farther and farther, and many long-distance couples gradually have no common topics because of different social circles, and finally choose to part ways.

Between couples, it is very important to be intimate, and intimacy requires both parties to understand each other enough.

2. Unable to give attention to the other party when they are in difficulty.

Couples not only share happiness with each other, but sometimes they also need to give each other enough attention, and when your partner is facing difficulties and frustrations and needs others the most, you are not by his side, which will make him feel lost and eventually lead to a colder relationship between you. Love is not the same as friendship, even if friends do not contact each other for a long time, they can still talk happily and friendship remains the same, while love will only become more and more distant if there is no contact for a long time, and it is like being blocked by a chasm.

3. The heart has a mustard, which leads to the loss of loyalty.

Although many long-distance relationships will contact each other every day, there is no way to maintain close contact with each other 24 hours a day, and many long-distance relationships will eventually empathize with each other. Seeing the very good opposite sex around him secretly send autumn waves to himself, it is inevitable that it will make people's hearts move, he can accompany me 24 hours a day and you can't. So there will be a problem with each other, and eventually our relationship will break down.

Couples still need long-term companionship, which is the role of couples, so the long-distance relationship failed to achieve positive results in the end, and each other's mustards are getting deeper and deeper.

First of all, when you need comfort, when you need someone to rely on, there is no one to accompany you, which makes it easy for the people around you to take advantage of it, and then after a long time, the natural feelings will slowly fade away.

Long-distance relationships are difficult to maintain, long-distance relationships are largely about falling in love with your own mobile phone, the loneliness caused by your lover not being able to accompany you, the helplessness of not being able to help you when you encounter things, and the lack of trust in the other person, all of which can destroy a long-distance relationship.

Long-distance relationships can easily lead to insecurity, lack of communication, and not being together often, which can easily lead to the end of a long-distance relationship.

Quarrels can lead to the breakup of a long-distance relationship, and two people are not able to understand each other's situation well, so when they quarrel, they may speculate on each other with their own ideas, and they will also feel that the other party is making a little fuss, so that it will be easy to break up after a long time.

Trust. When two people don't spend time together, trust is especially important. Trust what?

Of course, it is to trust each other's fidelity to love. Love is characterized by exclusivity, intimacy and exclusivity between two people's feelings and bodies. Trust is to believe in each other's loyalty to love.

Communication. Communication is divided into written language communication and body language communication. The purpose of communication is to enhance mutual understanding and mutual acceptance, and to achieve the mutual integration of the emotions of two independent individuals.

<> think what you think, love what you love, think what you think, like what you like, worry about what you worry, and hurt what you hurt......If you don't communicate, you won't be able to understand each other's hearts, and the blank space will widen the distance between each other's hearts. That's what it means. Because it is a long-distance relationship, the role of body language is not effectively played.

A gentle hug, a shallow kiss, may be worth a thousand words, and this is the emotional effect of body language. A thousand words are not as good as a physical act.

Therefore, when encountering a long-distance relationship, written language is particularly important, because it not only has to assume the original function of words, but also has to assume the functions that the body needs to play. Perseverance. Long-distance relationship, less gathering and more separation, which requires each other to be persistent and stick to love.

Because of longing, so bitter; Because of missing, so sweet. Because I can't stay together, I have you in my dreams; Because you can't stay together for a long time, you will have the joy of fish and water when you get together. Because of love, you and I are persistent; Because of love, you and I hold on.

Even if they are separated by the end of the world, they are also close at hand.

Long-distance relationships have lingering bitterness, and it is this bitterness that makes long-distance relationships have a different taste. This taste, both bitter and fragrant, haunting dreams, it writes another landscape of love. Because of love, we will be more tolerant of each other, more open-minded, more caring, more giving, and more cherishing.

Only in this way can love seem so precious! Over a thousand mountains, just because you are on the other side of the heavens. Wading through thousands of waters, just because there are people I love over there.

Love is so beautiful, carry love to the end!

In long-distance relationships, don't attach too much importance to distance, communicate more and share each other's lives, have the courage to dare to challenge reality, trust each other, both parties must keep in touch, and if there is an opportunity, you must arrange a meeting date.

Both parties should be in constant contact. Communication is the cornerstone of maintaining a relationship, not to mention that the two parties are not together yet.

Be sure to communicate and exchange in a timely manner, be sure to call each other, give each other enough security, and care more about each other.

There are many ways to customer service loneliness, first of all, you can learn a skill, for example, you can learn this bartending or this tea art, so that you will not bring loneliness, on the other hand, you can put down your work, go to your other half to be with him, refuse long-distance relationships, I think it is possible to make both people happy.

In fact, we should indeed know how to overcome the loneliness brought about by long-distance relationships, first of all, we can find something to learn when we are free, even if it is to learn to make cakes, fine snacks and bread, on the other hand, we can also read more books, so that we can enrich our brains, so that we will not have these loneliness.

First of all, look at whether you really like each other, if you really like each other, you should learn to be considerate of each other, of course, if you are not forced to do so, no one wants to be in a different place, so I think both you and the other party should be considerate of each other, of course, there must be necessary communication, because communication is a bridge between each other's feelings.

You can find something to fill yourself with. You don't have to be with a boyfriend to overcome loneliness. You can go to the library by yourself to read a book, and you can ask your friends to play together.

You can learn some other skills about your hobbies. You won't be lonely when you have your time. If you're not too far away from your boyfriend, take time off to see him, or ask him to come and see you.

It doesn't have to be glued together. If you really can't hold on, break up. It's nothing, life is so long, you can always find someone who won't make you feel lonely.

I don't think you can talk to your boyfriend about it if you can't make it up, maybe he is willing to go back to the city with you for you. If the two of you really can't get along, then break up, after all, the two of you don't have the same future goals, and even if you stick to it, you may break up. Falling in love is two people's mutual tolerance and accommodation, since two people can't take a step back, it's better to let go.

You should avoid this kind of thinking, it will affect your work life to a greater or lesser extent, and it is not harmful to think about finding a reliable thing to enrich yourself in your free time. Since most of the whimsy is due to having too much leisure time, as long as the body is busy and the head is tired, it will naturally not present the time of blind thinking, and let loneliness occupy my braincase and make my body and mind exhausted.

Then break up, remember someone said that it is better to die alone than to die with someone who makes you feel lonely. I've been in love for so long, I should have thought of a way to let the two of you live together, instead of letting you wait for him every day. If you feel lonely, you've probably been waiting for a long time, and you can't even wait for hope, so it's better to be single.

Long-distance relationships will have this feeling, which is also the reason why many long-distance relationships end without a problem, when the boyfriend is not around when you need it most, if you really can't hold on, it's better to break up as soon as possible, so that it is good for both of you can reduce the damage, maybe you can find that the people around you who are more suitable for you have a better life after breaking up.

1. Facing suitors: Because of long-distance relationships, whether it is a weekend or other time, in many cases it is a person, so there will definitely be suitors, some may not know your emotional state, and some may really like you, even if you have a boyfriend and girlfriend, he has to compete.

2. Communication is becoming less and less: long-distance relationships may become less and less time for communication due to the fact that one of the two parties is busy with study, busy with work, etc., sometimes thinking that there is nothing to say, they will not take the initiative to contact each other, and over time, two people rarely chat like ordinary friends.

3. There is always no time to meet: long-distance relationships are also very difficult to meet because of the problem of distance (especially couples who are very far apart), and the time of two people must be arranged, even if they meet, there is not much time, and they have to take a car on the way, etc., but no matter how difficult it is, they must meet and fight more.

4. Quarrel over some trivial things: because the other half is not by your side, all things are taken care of by one person, the pressure of life will become very great, and people are sometimes prone to temper, and may quarrel inexplicably when communicating with each other such as ** or texting.

5. Trust crisis: long-distance relationships are not around each other, trust crises occur from time to time, tell each other that I am going to sing today, with whom, a few people, what time will I come back today, there will be one after another, especially many, it must be enough to give each other a sense of security, and if you go out, you can also take more ** and send it to him to see.

6. I can't find the topic of chatting: the contact of long-distance relationships alternates between ** and text messages every day, and the topic of chat is slowly used up after a long time, and I don't know what to say, in fact, you can talk about what happens every day in your daily life, because every day is different, so the things you talk about are definitely different, and you can also cultivate some new hobbies.

7. I feel that he doesn't care about herself at all: because the other party is not in her own city, there will definitely be a lot of pressure to do many things by herself, sometimes sad and sometimes wronged but no one cares.

Long-distance relationships will encounter difficulties in mutual suspicion and mutual distrust, because two people are too far apart, and you don't know what he does every day, which will cause some suspicion, which can easily affect the relationship between two people.

I want to break up because I feel that I lack company, or I feel that the novelty is reduced because I can't see each other all the time, and I mistakenly think that I have no feelings for the other person.

No one can never send you an umbrella when it rains, and when you are drenched in soup and embarrassed, your boyfriend can only say, go take a shower and dry it quickly, and when you are sick, you can only urge you to go to the doctor and take medicine on time.

I am not around when I need each other, and there are many feelings that can only be digested by myself and slowly suffered. There are also worries that many people around the other party will take advantage of the situation.

There are contradictions that cannot be resolved in time, and the love that you want to express cannot be expressed in time. If you don't have a heart that is determined to be together, it will be difficult to go to the end.

I think the biggest problem of long-distance relationships is that they can't meet in time, so there will be a lot of accumulated contradictions, which can easily erupt.

When you are in a long-distance relationship, you always feel that you are very lonely, and it is easy for two people to be suspicious, and it costs a lot of money to meet each other.

Long-term long-distance communication will bring loneliness and anxiety, as well as untimely, incomplete and asymmetrical communication between the two parties, which can easily cause misunderstanding and suspicion.

When you are in a long-distance relationship, there is no one to send you medicine, take you to the doctor, and sometimes when you are hungry, only the delivery person will deliver you food.

If you can't receive the other party's love in time, you can't handle conflicts very well, and you will start to be suspicious.

Would you give up on a long-distance relationship? What should I do if I get stuck?

Long-distance relationships are the hardest to overcome.

It's two people who don't trust each other! Couples who break up in a long-distance relationship, what defeats them is not the distance, but the fact that two people can't see each other for a long time, there are fewer and fewer good memories, and there are more and more suspicions and contradictions, which leads to the end of a regretful breakup!

Of course, not all long-distance relationships don't have a good ending, what I'm talking about is only a part, my friends around me have long-distance relationships, but two people live very happily, they will agree to meet once or twice a month, each time they meet is very sweet, "little don't win newlywed" feeling, it's also very good!

In short, don't believe too much in love, sometimes it will become "as light as a feather" in the face of reality and distance; But you can't take love too lightly, sometimes it can really be "indestructible"! Isn't it contradictory? But that's the reality, cherish what you have in front of you, and don't regret it when you lose it!