In the surrounding environment, your own conditions are the worst, how to eliminate the sense of dis

Transform this sense of disparity into motivation to move forward, and just be yourself。Although everyone around me has a relatively decent job, he has always been wandering in the career establishment. Sometimes there is this inexplicable sense of disparity, feeling that I am a failure, why are they all on the same platform, others are doing well and I am doing poorly.

As time goes on, this sense of disparity will only get stronger, and sometimes I will fantasize that I can have a good life like everyone else.

But the more fantasy you have, the more you indulge in fantasy, sometimes it's better to directly turn this sense of gap into motivation, set a goal for yourself, and learn the relevant exam knowledge today. After persisting for a year, I took the exam directly, and in the end, it was quite good, and I was directly admitted to the city. Therefore, sometimes it is not a good thing to always indulge in this sense of disparity, only to quickly come out and set a goal for yourself, keep yourself busy, forget this sense of disparity, turn it into motivation, and urge yourself to improve.

If you look down on yourself and can't face up to your situation, then this sense of loss may just be your own distraction。Everyone will encounter difficulties, and when they experience this sense of disparity, everyone's mood is very low, and life feels hopeless. But don't be too low, you can successfully fight out of the thousands of troops in the college entrance examination that were dozens of times more difficult, and now life is only temporary.

The best way is actually to face yourself, once I was a small clerk, but I also felt that I was not as good as others living in this huge gap every day, and I was not happy at all. Sometimes the emotions we feel are created by ourselves, so don't always think about the feeling of disparity, it is better to do something positive to influence yourself and take yourself out of this predicament.

Try to adjust your sensitive mindset and learn to compromise with yourself。I've also experienced this sentiment for a long time in the past. And now I have realized that it is my <> to have a good attitude

The ultimate goal of our cultivation in this life. Although there will be different troubles at different stages now, I can laugh at them now and always maintain a mentality of not liking things and not feeling sorry for myself. So try to adjust your mindset and learn to accept this reality, which is not a good thing.

First of all, you must have confidence in yourself, you will continue to work hard for this gap, and one day believe that you will catch up with them.

I remember Ma Yun once said such a sentence, he said that when you graduated from a prestigious school, then please use a humble attitude to look at those who graduated from ordinary schools, when you are a person who graduated from an ordinary school, then please look at yourself with an appreciative eye to see that you can get along with this sense of gap.

If you want to eliminate the feeling of disparity, then you need to make yourself have a goal, so that you will work harder and reduce the distance.

You have to tell yourself that you are not fat first, and as long as you are willing to work hard, you will definitely be able to live better than them.