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There is a saying in Buddhism that says that in fact, you are your best nobleman, be kind to others in life, accumulate virtue and do good, concentrate on doing things, don't fall, don't be lazy, don't be too greedy, then this will naturally get better and better.
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First of all, we must let ourselves continue to learn and have enough strength, have good character, and do everything in a down-to-earth manner, so that we can meet noble people on the road of life.
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We must continue to work hard and prepare ourselves for the future, so that it is possible to meet noble people and seize opportunities.
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Constantly improve your ability, so that you can improve your social circle, because the nobles are in the upper social circle.
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You can meet nobles in life to a greater or lesser extent, and good nobles will affect your life and lead you to the pinnacle of life. Why are you called a nobleman?
Presumably, it must bring good luck or good influence to be called a nobleman.
Talking about my own nobleman, the fortune teller once told me: There is a noble person of the opposite sex in my life who has helped me a lot.
This Li man is my little uncle, from supporting me to finish college, graduate and find a job, to supporting me to buy a house after marriage.
I was greatly inspired along the way!
One year top ten years" said: How can I meet noble people often?
1. Go out.
Change the circle, and you will be more likely to achieve a breakthrough.
Go out, and you will be more likely to meet noble people.
2. Payment. Once you become someone else's paying user, or even a high-end paying user, your relationship quickly becomes closer. The group code is late.
Doing this consistently has been amazing.
4. Continue to grow.
If you are a person who has achieved nothing and does not want to make progress, how many people are willing to take care of you?
Everyone has limited time and energy, so why should they pay attention to you and help you?
We want to continue to grow and grow into a person who is valuable to others.
In this way, if you don't get closer to others, you will get closer to you than others.
Your nobles will naturally increase.
Only by being a noble person can the relationship last for a long time.
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Therefore, it is impossible for you not to have extravagant hopes and greed, and to think that pie will fall from the sky, and a noble person will suddenly appear in front of you. Second, the sunshine is positive.
I have said many times that everyone is willing to get along with a sunny and positive person, and I will think of them when there are good things, and a sunny and positive person can always find opportunities and seize opportunities. If a person is depressed and bored all day long, complains about people and things, is full of sarcasm, is full of accusations, does not like anything, and complains constantly, the aura formed by this kind of person is obscure and difficult, making it difficult for people to approach, and even more unwilling to approach, such a person, **someone to help you? 3. Be grateful.
I have met many friends who always think that helping a lot and saving a lot of trouble is the so-called "noble", but this is completely wrong. The upbringing of parents, the teaching of teachers, the teachings of elders, the care of lovers, even if it is a warm guidance from strangers, these are the noble people around us, if you can't treat these people well, you can't be grateful, and think that only the person who promotes you to be a big official and helps you make a fortune is a nobleman, then it is difficult for you to meet a real nobleman. Fourth, don't be greedy.
Getting the help of noble people is a blessing from God, and you are lucky! No matter how powerful the noble person can only give you help within a certain range and a certain period of time, you really have to rely on yourself, if you take what you get by accident as what you should get, once the greed rises, the noble person will leave you, just like we said, "help you is love, not duty". What's more, those who have helped their nobles as victims, even more seriously hurt their own noble luck, often soon the congregation betrays their relatives, good luck comes to an end, because even the noble people who help you hurt you, you don't know how to be grateful, who will help you.
Fifth, be humble and humble as a valley.
Lin Zexu has a good saying, "The sea is inclusive, and tolerance is great", if a person wants to achieve something, he must be open-minded and broad-minded, according to modern words, it is "empty cup psychology". I have received some friends to consult, said to come to consult, in fact, the heart is full, no matter what you say, he has his own set of waiting for you, for his own incorrectness to make enough excuses, for his own unwiseness full of reasons, insisting that his ideas are the most correct, such a situation, who can help him? By the same token, if you are not humble and respectful, who wants to be your nobleman?
The name test is scored.
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In business, many people want to find their nobles, so how to find "nobles".
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Things gather like things, people and groups, what kind of people you approach, what kind of road you will take.
The villain will teach you how to eat, drink, prostitute and gamble, the thief will teach you to cheat, the gambler will teach you the casino Fengyue, and the drinking friend will teach you to get drunk and dream of death.
The greatest luck in life is not to pick up money, nor to win the jackpot, but that someone is willing to guide you to a higher platform and create a higher value of life.
The so-called noble person is not the person who directly gives you money, but the person who broadens your horizons, corrects your pattern, and gives you positive energy, how far a person can go, see who she walks with, how good a person is, see who he has to guide him, how much achievement a person has achieved, see who he is with, choose the right friend to benefit for a lifetime, choose the right partner for a happy life, choose the right teacher for a lifetime, choose the right industry for a lifetime, and a happy life starts with mindfulness.
This is also the reform and opening up of the past 40 years, China's economy and society an overall emergency brake, let us stop the pace of busy, give everyone enough time to ponder, give everyone enough time to look back, today, no matter who you are, and whether you are poor or rich, except for those most lovely people who shelter us from the wind and rain, we are all hiding.
This is the longest holiday in Chinese history, and it is also the most calm holiday, every day, open your mobile phone, look at the information of the epidemic, and browse the stories of the world. Staying with the family, staying at home, trying our best to train children to play new tricks, train children to read together, and attend classes together, each of our families is facing one or two children. And the teacher is facing forty or fifty children, or even more, and it also makes parents realize how difficult it is for teachers to teach so many children to learn, and the main purpose is to do everything for the children.
This is actually something that many people could not have imagined in the past, but today, everyone has done it collectively. Life needs to press the pause button once. Although the price of this suspension is too painful, we have to experience and face it today.
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