How did you become the person you hated the most?

A few days ago, I also dealt with similar problems in the group, for example, many people like to post ads in the group, and then, most people hate ads, but this person, stubborn, or different ads day by day, and then there is a person in the group, he also hates ads, so every time he sees these people posting ads, he will send a very, very long message to block ads. Because his message is too long, there are slowly many people in the group who hate ads and can't stand it, so they say him. He said that I was there to block the messages of those who posted ads, but he ignored that his messages had become a part of the annoyance of others.

Look, before you know it, he's slowly becoming what he once hated.

I still remember that Ge You has a sentence in "Private Custom", disgusting himself to fulfill others.

It's hard to be someone you like in life, but it's easy to become someone you hate.

The owner of the first floor may wish to watch more of those thunderous dramas, some vulgar advertisements, and ** of the cultivation class.

When you keep watching until you find the fun in it, and you are happy to die for it, it means that the landlord has basically reached the point where he is disgusted with himself, but he doesn't know it.

The owner of the second floor can also do some actions that he usually hates in life, such as flattery, nodding his head, bowing down and so on. We must show this shameless behavior before, and we must be natural and fluent, like the clouds and rivers of our peers. In this way, don't care about how others feel about you, and use your thick black skin to convince the people around you, and you will succeed in cultivation.

Third, insist on reflecting every day, reflecting on what you did today is not annoying enough, and you can ask your relatives and friends to help you comment on it.

Through the above three points, I believe that the landlord will be able to reach the realm of hating himself.

I'm a fat guy now. It's eaten one bite at a time. I can't keep my mouth shut about delicious food.

It has become a nasty fat image. It's still very lazy. When I have a job, I always think to myself, it's okay not to do it today.

Save it for tomorrow. I will always leave behind the wise saying "today is tomorrow, tomorrow is so much". Day by day, he is wasting his time.

I think the most annoying look is the way I look when I lose my self-confidence, I always feel that others look down on me, and after a long time, I will look down on myself, this is what I hate the most, but now I have slowly come out, continue to give myself some challenges, calm my mentality, and gradually regain my self-confidence, believing that I can do better in the future.

I think the most annoying look for me should be to lose myself, not have my own life, and live for others! Since I was a child, I have been a person who is full of enthusiasm for life, and now because life has forced me step by step to the work situation of the Ninth Five-Year Plan! The distance between the unit and the home, going back every day, cooking and laundry for the family, tidying up the house, taking the children to work to earn money, there is no time for myself at all, not even time for drinks with friends!

Living without self at all is what I hate the most, and I am powerless to change it.

I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing to become what we hate, because in the past, what we particularly hated was adults telling some big truths, but when we grow up and understand a lot of truths, we will also say some big things like people younger than us. So time is the best way to arrange everything.

In the past, what I hated the most was those scheming girls, who would coax their boyfriends around and do everything for him willingly. But after a silly girl like me was dumped by her boyfriend for the third time, I realized that a fool like me was no longer popular. So little by little, he developed in the direction of the scheming woman he hated the most.

It's all because of life, I used to hate people who didn't have a good heart, but after going through so much, I can no longer mention any kindness to others, because now people are too selfish, in order to keep themselves from being calculated by others, only if they become stronger, only become the selfish person they don't like the most, so that others will not think they are a fool, what an irony.

When I was growing up, I couldn't help but do a lot of things on my own, so I went back to do what I didn't want to do. When you grow up, you get used to the things you can't help yourself, and slowly become the person you despise the most in your heart. I used to hate suspicion between people's hearts, but now I have to do it as a last resort, and it has even become a habit.

When I just graduated from college, I always wanted to start a business, but my family's conditions made me dare not fail, so I finally had to work in a factory, and after working in the factory for a few years, I found that all my desires had disappeared, and I lived a life of boiling frogs in warm water every day, and gradually became the person I hated the most.

I hate my mother's verbosity, her lack of communication and blunt tone, her criticism to motivate me to improve, and her subjectivity and dominance. Just like Su Mingyu became her mother, I also became subjective and strong when facing my children. I've also become the one I hate the most.

I feel like I used to especially hate people who showed off in front of you. But I seem to have a tendency to assimilate slowly, and I heard others say how good his friends were to him. If I have to make it up, I'm going to make it up.

I don't want others to know that there is no one around me, only myself, and I don't want others to look down on me!

When did you suddenly find that you are becoming the most hated kind of person?

When you read this short paragraph, you may feel inexplicably flustered, maybe you will be a little dazed, or you are a little lost like me, and you are a little overwhelmed.

I recently discovered this problem.

To give a simple example, for example, I obviously don't like my mother-in-law to intervene in everything, but when she comes to live, I am still pleasant. For example, in my work, I already know that it is a routine to cope with the inspection, but I will still finish the materials seriously.

This is probably also a kind of hypocrisy. Not sarcasm, but fact. Completely detached from the feelings of the heart, make a satisfying expression, and show generosity that does not match the heart.

I often persuade myself that there are many things in life that need to be compromised, and if you feel painful and depressed, you might as well raise your head and look forward, so that you can take a long-term view, and you will not have many ideas, and you will naturally be open-minded. But in fact, when emotions come up, all pretense is gone.

Forget the sentence I saw in **, the real maturity of people is to no longer be self-centered, to know that there are many things that will not help no matter how hard you try, and to admit that you are an ordinary person.

In a macro perspective, it does.

Every day is a new day, and every day is a new self alive.

Nothing to do with maturation. Nothing to do with the past. It's only related to the unbelief in the branches.

If you find yourself annoyed by the inconsistencies (mainly in language and behavior), the best thing you can think of at the moment is to remain silent. There are a lot of emotions, and it is much better to digest them slowly than to repeat them to strengthen the impression, and I think of this as a kind of mental cultivation.

I hope to settle down as soon as possible and have peace of mind.

If you have a better way to stop yourself from hating yourself, share it.