Which mom is most popular with kids?

I think the most popular mom in the eyes of children should be a mom like a friend. <>

That is to say, she is your mother, but she will not blame you as an elder, accuse you of commanding you, you do one thing, or do not do one thing, she will comfort you, care for you, care for you, and educate you from the perspective of a friend.

Because the difference between the identity of a friend and the identity of a family member is that there may be a generation gap between parents and children, but there will be no generation gap between my friends and children, so I think such mothers are generally liked by all children. In addition, children also like it, can understand themselves, and respect their mothers.

That is to say, no matter how young the child is, he will slowly learn to respect her, try to protect his self-esteem when doing something, so that his self-esteem is not hurt, and after he has done something wrong, fully understand him, know why he did it, and make rational choices to help the child improve his mistakes, rather than blindly blaming.

I think all children will love such mothers. Let mothers all over the world be able to slowly discover the strengths and strengths of their children, to tap the shining points of their children, and let us become mothers that children like!

Different women will play different roles as mothers, which is determined according to the personality of the women, because each person may be in a different environment and family, so the role of mothers they play will also be different. Of course, the child will also like or dislike such a mother because of this.

The way the children like their mothers is the kind that pampers them very much, and they rarely scold themselves. Like mothers who are particularly gentle, they will get used to themselves, and when they see something they like, their mother will buy it for themselves. <>

Also, my mother will have a certain ability to make herself feel very proud, and she can show it to her friends and make others envy her. Such a mother is like having special skills, so that others have an adoring expression on her face and satisfy her vanity. Some mothers are very good at getting along with their children, so that they can make them like themselves, which is also an important skill.

In short, the mother that children like is the mother who understands themselves and satisfies themselves.

I think a mother who is amiable and can reason with her child should be the most popular with her child. The growth of children is absolutely inseparable from the education of mothers, every child has a period of youth rebellion, it is inevitable that some wrong things will be committed, some parents deal with it improperly, can not communicate with their children in a timely manner, and blindly criticize and scold children to lead to extremes, deepen the resentment of parents.

Children's world is very simple, their essence is not bad, they are just one-sided, lack of experience, they judge a thing is right or wrong single way, at this time, if adults can lower their posture to forgive them and treat children as adults, with a friend's tone to guide the child correctly, then afraid that the child will not like you?

Communication is the best bridge between people, whether it is a father or a mother, when their children encounter difficulties or make mistakes, they must be calm and convincing, so that children will more and more like to communicate with their parents. A reasonable mother must be able to treat her child gently, and the child will learn to be gentle from her mother.

As for the question of "how to be a good mother", none of us has undergone training and examinations, and we are all groping and practicing, and naturally there will be many things that are not so good. However, we still want to do a better job of the role of "mother".

One day, if your child can say "you are the best mother" to you, I think any mother will feel that her efforts are worth it.

In the eyes of children, what kind of mother is a better mother, and what can be done to be more popular with children?

1. A mother who speaks softly and does not lose her temper.

A mother who can reason with her child first and has a gentle tone will be full of warmth and infect other people, and her child will be more willing to be with such a mother, willing to speak her heart, and become particularly easy to bring.

And a short-tempered mother who can explode at any time, no matter how well she does, has already made her child start to reject you in her heart at the moment she speaks.

2. Moms who don't compare.

When we were children, the person we hated the most was "someone else's child", who seemed to be everywhere, especially when we weren't good enough.

Good mothers do not compare their children with other people's children in the name of "good for you", but can see the strengths of their own children and encourage their children to be themselves and live their own lives.

3. Mothers who are willing to accompany their children and listen to their children.

Children's growth is not only about eating, drinking, and Lazar, but also about the company of their parents, pleasant parent-child time, and good family education.

A good mother will not give birth to a child and throw it to the elderly, would rather play mahjong than spend time with the child, and will not take a "go aside, don't bother me" attitude to the child and herself, a good mother can play with the child, understand the child's hobbies, and really enter the child's heart.

4. Encourage mothers who are independent and know how to let go in a timely manner.

There is such a saying, "All love in the world is for reunion, only maternal love is for separation".

As the child grows up, she will cultivate her child's self-care ability, give her freedom and space, let her learn to be independent, learn to face different people and things, and move towards a broader world.

5. A mother who will praise his father and give him a chance to perform.

The growth of children is inseparable from the role of fathers, and good mothers naturally understand this truth.

Therefore, a good mother will not do everything herself and scoff at Dad's lame way of looking at her children, but know how to praise her father in front of her children, give him more opportunities to express himself, and establish his father's authoritative image.

6. Care for your mother.

Although motherhood is a hard "career", most of the time is spent on work, family, and children, but a good mother will still set aside time to love herself, have time to watch a movie, buy herself a beautiful dress, and do not forget to recharge herself to maintain her own value. Such a mother, in the eyes of children, is the most beautiful.

The most popular mother, let's talk about the most popular mother in my heart. I think a mother must first have her own sense of responsibility, for the family and herself, whether the child is a child or when he grows up, maternal love is very important in the child's growth process, not only affecting the child's psychological process when he is a child, but also in the child's life. Therefore, no matter how busy a mother is at work, she must find time to spend with her children and give them enough maternal love.

The kind of mother who can understand her child is the best, such as when the child can't do homework or when other parents seem to be wrong, then a good mother can understand her child, not to say conniving, but to be able to empathize, stand in the child's position to think about something, when the mother-daughter or mother-child relationship becomes a friendship between friends, the mother is very successful.

And don't always compare your own children with other people's children, just like you don't want your children to compare with other people's mothers, each child has their own strengths and ideas, children can not lack the encouragement of parents, and their self-confidence is gradually cultivated, so praise them in a timely manner, rather than letting him learn everything like other people's children.

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These envy mothers will be very good, they will think about their children, they will also support their children's interests and hobbies, will not force their children to do what they want to do, and will also give their children a certain amount of comfort and enlightenment.

They generally think about the child's styling pants, and they will also make the child have a better growth, will respect the child's choice, will help the child, and will guide the child.

A mother's love for her children is selfless, but a child's love for her mother can have all kinds of "selfless thoughts". You must know that most children in childhood are very sensitive and often treat their mothers as their "private property" and do not allow anyone outside them or even their fathers to "share". In this case, the mother should consciously put forward various expressions or hints to the child to enhance the confidence that "the mother really loves him".

At the same time, the father should also greatly withdraw from the mother's sight to make the child more stable.

Most of the children are furious and have a wide range of hobbies. It's their intense curiosity and thirst for knowledge. They want to imitate and learn a lot from their closest mothers in order to satisfy their natural curiosity and desire to learn.

They want to have the same interests and hobbies as their mothers. But if the mother does not know anything about the child's hobbies and always asks questions, or even disagrees, the child will naturally be disappointed and frustrated. At the same time, it has a negative impact on the cultivation and development of children's early language ability.

In this regard, parents can consciously cultivate the same or similar interests as their children, master the psychology and language unique to their children, and make as much time as possible to play with their children. If you continue like this, your child will of course think you are "funny".

Children value a person's appearance more than adults, and this is certainly true of their beloved mother. Not only for their own health, but also to beautify their own image in their children's hearts, obese mothers had better pay attention to **, exercise and**, and pay proper attention to their clothing. Strict requirements are not a bad thing, but there is a "degree" in everything.

In fact, most mothers who often say that their children can't do this are perfectionists. The "off-strings" they criticize are children, and you haven't done your best. The greatest psychological harm of parental perfectionism to children is the gradual deprivation of self-confidence.

Children should know that in order to gain the indispensable motivation to move forward, they must constantly affirm themselves psychologically. Especially for children with low self-esteem, it is more important to get rid of the shadow of low self-esteem and build self-esteem and self-confidence.

A child's heart has not yet been polluted by worldliness or prejudice, and is much more transparent and clean than that of an adult. Therefore, as the child's "first teacher", the mother is the fastest guide for the child to step into society, and she should pay attention to her speech and behavior in front of the child, and know that respecting the child's friends itself means respecting the child. After all, what the "can't" mom lacks is honesty.

Honesty and trustworthiness are not only recognized virtues, but also valuable qualities. The tangible or intangible "honest education" that children receive often begins with babbling and continues throughout childhood. Therefore, from the beginning of children's sensibility, it is necessary to help them establish "integrity-based" in their hearts.

Mothers who have repeatedly said "no" directly provide negative teaching materials to their children, and the negative impact can be imagined.

Mothers who have no hobbies, mothers who always stare at their phones, mothers who are too strict, mothers who are too cautious, mothers who like to compare, mothers who are not trustworthy, mothers who are grumpy, and mothers who are calculating.

I know, for example, those mothers who are not fun, mothers who often put pressure on their children, mothers who have a heart of comparison, mothers who are often harsh on their children, mothers who don't count when they talk, and mothers who don't respect their children's privacy. These parents are not liked by their children.

Although a mother's love for her child is selfless, a child's love for her mother may be accompanied by all kinds of "selfish thoughts". It is important to know that most children in their early years are very sensitive and often regard their mothers as their "private property" and do not allow anyone outside of themselves, even their fathers, to "share". In this case, the mother should consciously make various expressions or hints to the child to increase his confidence that "the mother really loves him the most".

You know, selfish mothers, mothers who like to swear, mothers who love to take advantage, mothers who always complain, lazy mothers, mothers who don't love hygiene in life.