Was there a moment when you felt like you were picking on the door?

Yes. It was yesterday!! Yesterday was Double 11, you know, everyone will be crazy to buy and buy, I was quite sensible and bought a little bit, my roommates bought a lot, a lot, and I spent the least amount of money.

Later, a friend asked me to go shopping, and I thought to myself that I didn't have a chop on the Internet, so I could go to a physical store and lose my money.

When I got to the street, I realized that I didn't seem to have much money to buy clothes, and they were all cut out of living expenses. But I don't have money to go shopping, I don't know why I look at the mirror in the mall and feel that I am so beautiful and beautiful, this feeling, tsk, I feel that I should buy some clothes, I feel that what clothes look good on the body, how to look at how satisfied, look at the trademark, each piece is hundreds of hundreds, and finally I can only buy clothes in the discount area.

These are nothing, after paying the money, I looked at my Alipay balance and found that there seemed to be no money to eat, at this time it was dinner time, my friend proposed to buy something to eat, I said not to eat here, the commercial street food is so expensive, my friend said I invited you, then I was embarrassed to say not to eat, but what I thought was that I paid for it myself. Later, my friend rushed to pay, I originally wanted to transfer it to her, but later when I transferred the money, I found the balance of Alipay, I was ashamed to decide to give up, at that moment I really felt that I was so picky, how did my friend say that I wanted to ask the family to pay, my friend was really a very good friend, she would definitely not mind, but I didn't want to go, and I felt that I was very picky.

I can only look at discounted clothes when I go shopping, I will think, when can I buy things and don't care so much, I really don't compare with others, I just feel that I have to work harder in the future, and I don't want this kind of thing to make me feel very picky.

Growing up to this age, although I don't have a lot of experience making money, I still have a little bit of it. Therefore, after having my own experience of making money, I understand how difficult it is to make money, so I will become more "picky" than before, and I will no longer spend money lavishly.

So, since I went to college, I feel like I'm "picking the door" a lot. For example, when I went out with my classmates, sometimes I didn't want to buy even a very cheap drink, and then I thought that drinking a bottle of water would not only quench my thirst, but also be cheap. The thought that I had such an idea would surprise me myself, and I would find it incredible.

When I didn't expect to have such an idea, I suddenly felt that I had grown up and understood that it was not easy to make money. Of course, this is something that you have to go through to realize. <>

Also, when I wasn't in love before, I was still a child, and every time I went to the supermarket with my mother, I bought whatever I wanted, and I didn't think about the ** problem at all, and then my mother too, let me buy whatever I wanted. Then, now that I've found a partner, I'm starting to "pick on the door", because we're in a long-distance relationship, and I always think that every time he comes, we can have a pleasant weekend together, but after all, it's very expensive, and then the monthly living expenses are limited, so I usually have to save some. So it's a bit picky.

Of course, picking the door is not really picking the door, it is saving a little when you can save something, and you don't spend the money you shouldn't spend. From another point of view, I think this should be sensible and grown.

At the end of each month, I feel like I'm picking on the door. You have to think and think about buying things, because you don't have money, so you have to pick some points, otherwise what will happen to your next life. At the end of the month, all the places where the money should be spent are spent, and the places that should not be spent are also spent.

At the end of the month, I don't want to participate in activities that cost more than 20 yuan, because there is no money, food and clothing have become a problem, let alone spiritual comfort. At the end of each month, it is the hardest, and if you want to eat something delicious, you have to wait until you have money to satisfy your cravings.

When you go out alone, you feel like you're picking on the door. Every time I go back and forth during the winter and summer vacations, the cash I carry is limited, and I have to plan what to eat and where to play, and it will be embarrassing if I exceed the quota. Several people transfer together, and the bus money for a few dollars has to be AA system, because everyone has no money, and no one wants to suffer a loss, so they are all AA system, doing everything, eating, shopping, shopping and so on.

When you go out to play, you feel like you're picking on the door. Where to go, plan how to go, how to take the car to save the most money, sometimes just to save a few dollars have to take the bus. If a few people are together, it is expensive to take a taxi, and it will be a little cheaper, in fact, this behavior looks very picky, but there is no way, after all, when you are out of the house, you can save a little is a point.

Living in a hotel will also think twice about which one is cheaper, and it depends on whether the facilities are good, whether the environment is good, whether it is suitable or not, and generally chooses the first room, because it is cheap, and the others are not far behind.

When I go to the supermarket to buy something, when I give change, I feel like I'm picking. Even if you look for a dime, you will ask for it, although it is a dime, it is also money, and it is hard earned and you can't do without it. As long as you have earned money by yourself, you will feel that it is very hard to earn money, how difficult it is, it is difficult to make money, and it is easy to spend money.

So sometimes it's not picking, but knowing the hard work of making money, so there are times when you are careful.

Lately I've been feeling like I'm picking on the door, and there's no way around it, because I'm poor. When I went to college, I felt that I was much better than in high school, and I could still have spare money in high school, and I would invite my friends to have a small meal when I was happy. Now that I'm in college, I can't afford to invite them, and my roommates have a lot of food, and my own funds are limited, so I can't invite them to dinner.

Because there is a huge difference between the cost of living in college and high school, we have to take the college entrance examination in high school, so we need a lot of food to replenish our own energy, and then our parents will give us more living expenses, so that we can eat better and drink better, so that we can have more strength and energy to study. And after arriving at college, today's parents know that college is a comfortable nest, and they don't need too much living expenses, so as not to waste it, so they give us very limited funds, so that we can live on a tight basis for a month, and we can't buy anything. So how can we not pick the door?

We pay the fees for the registration exam, we have to pay for all kinds of daily necessities every month, and how can we buy some new clothes every month? Since it is not enough, let yourself pick a little bit and save your living expenses from all aspects, so as to use it in another aspect to make your life better.

Actually, I don't want to be so picky, and I don't want to argue with my roommate for a dime. It's really annoying to have to share the money with your roommate even to buy a glutinous cake, and it's just a matter of two dollars per person, why do you want to pick the door so much? But if you think about it this way, a person has to pay eight dollars.

I feel very poor in this instant, so it's better to pick the door a little.

I've always thought that girls should love themselves well, if you don't even love yourself, still expect someone to love you? So I've always been a person who is willing to buy things for you, as long as it's what I like, I will buy what I can buy within my ability, and I should be happy in my life.

I am a person who enjoys life, I think I will never be stingy in terms of buying things, I will buy expensive or cheap, I don't buy it to make myself happy, I often buy some brand goods when I was studying, many classmates will say that I am so willing, so rich, in fact, I never feel that I am very rich, but I am indeed willing to spend money on myself.

But I don't know why I am always reluctant in some small money, I once saw a very cheap bag but it is really good-looking, one or two hundred can be bought, I hesitated at the time, I don't know why, usually thousands of bags are willing to give up one or two hundred at this time.

At that time, my friend complained that I said how I became so picky, in fact, it wasn't that I picked the door because I thought I might not like it after I bought it, so I didn't want to waste that money, it was better to have a big meal, and once I really only had living expenses left, and I didn't want to buy a pair of shoes that I liked for a long time.

Anyway, I'm a person who is very willing when I have money, and when I don't have money, I become picky, hahahaha, since I want to live a delicate life, I have to learn to make money, otherwise it's really painful to see what I like and be powerless.

In life, there will always be such and such unsatisfactory things, but what can be done, the world is changing rapidly, and all we can do is to follow the development of things and try not to regret it.

I was 14 years old that year, my younger brother was 11 years old, and my parents were forced to work outside the home to make ends meet. For some reason, my grandfather moved in to live with my aunt, and the family was supported by our two children. At that time, although my parents were already working outside the home, the family's livelihood was still not sustainable, so the living expenses sent back every month were not much, and my brother and I were still small children at that time, and we didn't know how to take charge of the house, so we didn't have enough money to spend.

At that time, I was in junior high school, and I could only stay in school and stay in the town, leaving my younger brother at home, and my younger brother was in elementary school, and he didn't know anything. Every time I went back to school, I would leave some money for him, and every time I came home from school, I saw my brother eating rice again. I knew that I wouldn't have enough money at home to make ends meet for my brother.

But we can't help it, we are still young and don't know how to run a family. So when I came home from school and saw my brother living so poorly, I kept thinking about whether I was too picky and whether I should give him more money, but I didn't. Now I regret it, I wish I could do it all over again, if I could do it all over again, I would definitely leave the money to my brother even if I don't have anything to eat to make his life less difficult, but now it's too late.

I still remember one time, my younger brother saw other people's children playing game consoles, and he wanted to buy one himself, so he said to me, can you buy him one too, I didn't agree, and even scolded him. Looking back now, I really feel that I was quite picky at that time, and I was obviously saving money to help him realize his wishes, but he refused ruthlessly.

People are very interesting, everyone is an independent individual, there will be differences in ideas and people's life, some people spend money like running water, there is a little money can be spent quickly, some people are very saving, what to buy and eat will consider a lot, dare not slow down and spend money casually, and even find that they are more and more picky, so what to do if you feel more and more reluctant to spend money?

Some people in life find that they are getting more and more picky, which may have something to do with family living conditions, because the family conditions are not good since childhood, knowing that it is not easy for parents to make money, they develop the habit of saving from an early age, and dare not spend money as lavistly as others, which is very common and normal. If the family conditions are relatively good, and there is no shortage of money to spend since childhood, you may not know how to save money.

As we grow older, many people may realize that the way of spending money is not correct, and it will gradually improve, so sometimes they feel that they are more and more reluctant to spend money. And people's lives are becoming more and more stressful, for the sake of their parents, for the sake of the family, and for the future life should find ways to continue to save money.

In fact, it is not all bad to find that you are getting more and more picky, there is nothing wrong with saving money, after all, saving is also the Chinese nation.

A traditional virtue, but don't reduce the quality of life in order to save money, and it is a big thing for everyone to think about before ensuring the quality of life and saving it.

People who are reluctant to spend money on themselves usually have the following psychology:

1. Typical poor thinking. The poor mindset does not necessarily cost nothing, and the core of the poor mindset is the feeling that they are not worthy of good things. Of course, this is on the subconscious level, and on the conscious level, there will be a lot of high-sounding excuses to cover it up.

2. Hoarding psychology. For the same thing, some people like to buy low-quality and low-priced, just trying to buy more quantity. For example:

I never buy a 10 yuan battery in the supermarket, but I will spend 10 yuan in a 2 yuan store to buy a 5 battery back. People with this mentality often experience deprivation, or those who experience deprivation implant this idea of insecurity in the minds of the next generation. The reluctance to spend money, in general, is a reaction to an insecure heart.

And the insecurity stems from distrust, not trusting that you can make enough money to spend on yourself.

3. I am reluctant to pay for myself, not because I don't want to spend, eat well, or wear well. It is caused by various factors such as the inability to compare people, the ability, IQ, family background, and social activities between people. It is not easy for people to come to this world, who doesn't want to spend all day drinking, high-rise houses, luxury cars and beautiful women.

Life must be life to face reality, down-to-earth work, do not be willing to spend money do not complain about the sky, do not complain only about their own inability. is reluctant to spend money, knowing that every penny earned is exchanged for his own blood and sweat, and knowing that every penny is hard-won. I am reluctant to spend money for my wife, children, a better and more comfortable life, and a happier and more satisfying family.

A large number of psychological studies have proved that children who grow up in different families have their own family imprints, they will tend to their parents, and the various habits of their parents have a profound impact on them.

In the context of advocating the virtue of thrift, children feel that this kind of thinking and habits are correct, and they will slowly develop superego consciousness greater than ego consciousness, save on themselves, but they are willing to spend money on the people around them, and gradually have a tendency to please personality.