What do you do when you meet a stranger?

It is true that there is such a situation that we should be vigilant when we encounter a conversation with a stranger, but we should not be overly sensitive to normal conversations.

First, the principle of pick-up.

When accosted by strangers, be principled.

You can't divulge your privacy, mobile phone number, home address, household income, etc.

2. Goodwill exchanges.

If the other person is just to kill the time of the journey, talk about something inconsequential. In this case, if you like to talk, just talk, if you don't like to talk, pretend to sleep.

I don't think it matters, as long as I don't reveal my important information, then I'm not afraid of being accosted. There is no need to be afraid of strangers talking, some people are really not bad people, they are just chattering. You can talk to him, but be careful not to give him your name and other important information.

Chat with people generously, don't be so entangled. Maybe the other party has a crush on you, so they will chat with you.

It's best not to deal with strangers, especially men, and try to sit in a single seat when taking the bus; If it's a double position, it's better to choose the one on the outside, not the one on the inside; If someone talks to you, smile or say hello to them; If he asks you a question, just find an answer to him, if the other party understands the matter, he won't ask you the second question, if he still asks, go to sleep, ignore him or change seats with others, you can also leave your seat, you can also pretend to hit **.

If you meet a stranger who accostes you, then be sure not to say to him: your home address and your ** number and your name.

So if he's a bad guy, then you're exposing your own whereabouts.

So if you do get accosted by a man, then if he sits next to you, you can make an excuse to get up and go to the bathroom, and then you sit in a different position, don't go back to your original position, and wait until you get out of the car.

Be sure not to sit too close to him, because if you two talk too much, others will think that you two are very familiar, but in fact you are not familiar, and when you are in danger, no one will believe you when you call, so be sure not to talk to strangers.

Hehe! What kind of society is it now?Human beings have a natural instinct to communicate...

In this society. People with strong communication skills can find food...Maybe he's talking to you and wants to be friends with you.

Maybe he communicates with strangers because of what he works in. I'm training myself.!These are not surprising.!

It's not his movements that need to be noticed. Pay attention to his topic.!To remember:

There are more good people than bad people in society.!It's not that I don't know it. You can't stop chatting.!

You have this concept. Surely you don't have a wide range of relationships!

1. Don't tell your family, don't tell your home address. Don't tell your home address, drink your mobile phone number, don't tell your home address, privacy, mobile phone number, etc., talk about some inconsequential things, like this case, talk about some inconsequential things. In this case, if you want to talk about it, you don't want to talk about it, and you can talk about some inconsequential things.

In this case, you can talk if you want to talk about it, and you can talk about it if you don't want to. Second, talk about some inconsequential things, like in this case, you can talk if you want to, and pretend to sleep if you don't want to talk.

Most of the people we usually interact with have similar backgrounds to us, such as classmates, colleagues, and peers. Because they have similar backgrounds or similar experiences, they feel like they have something to talk about when they interact with them, and it is easy to get closer to them; It is precisely because of similar life experiences that we get more from each other the same understanding and the same understanding, even if this understanding is biased, we feel that we can't detect it.

However, I advocate being brave enough to talk to people you don't know, which can be a bit embarrassing, but the rewards of talking to you are unexpected.

Accosting is one of the most commonly used etiquettes in people's daily communication, and a greeting can shorten the distance between the two parties in the first time.

Recall that when someone takes the initiative to greet you, do you feel very happy because you feel the respect and care of the other person. In the same way, when you take the initiative to greet someone, they will feel similarly.

So, when talking to strangers, how can you avoid embarrassment and have a high probability of success? Here's a tip:

It's about speaking within the first ten seconds of meeting. Because in such a short period of time, it is too late for each other to make an evaluation, and at this time the opening is not guarded, and it is easy to talk.

Of course, there are certain skills in how to speak, specifically, the question you ask should be an open-ended question, and it is easy for the other party to follow the topic to talk, rather than letting the family end with a "yes" or "no".

Strangers, it's okay to say a few words, but, you have to pay attention to safety, what do you don't know where and where to tease Jane with a few fingers, don't, in this era, there is a map everywhere you don't know how to search the map?

New school, new environment, so you have to have a new adaptation, take the initiative to say hello to friends, I started school, I was assigned to the new class did not have a person I knew, I was also scared, but I will be heart-to-heart, I think they also want to make new friends, so I boldly greeted them, it was a little embarrassing at the time, but in the end we talked about talking together, now we are good friends, and I have a good relationship with my classmates, I hope you also make new friends.

Maintain a high degree of caution, will silently keep a safe distance from him, and quietly observe his clothing and behavior for suspicious behavior. Generally, strangers come to talk, and it is good to ignore him after speaking, after all, you must have a good eye when you go out, and you can't talk to others casually and tell him everything about yourself. If he was a person who asked for directions, he would just show the way, and there was no need to talk to her endlessly.

If it's just a matter of being bored, just listen to what he says, don't need to answer him, and be extremely vigilant no matter what he says. It's better to be in a crowded place, in a quieter place where there are no people, it's better not to answer him, just walk with your head down, no one can guarantee that nothing will happen.

No matter who takes the initiative to talk to someone, you can't let your guard down. Now**so much, you won't be easy to recognize them, don't do something wrong because of your good intentions, everything is still your own safety first, be wary of whether they will make some small moves. It's best not to take someone else's words lightly when you're out of the house.

Everyone has been accosted by strangers on the road, and I've been accosted a few times.

If the first stranger to talk to is a woman, I may relax my vigilance a little, walk slowly to a crowded place, listen to her narration as I walk, and figure out the reason for her conversation, if it is asking for directions or taking a car, I will patiently explain to her, and if I am an older woman, I will help her lead the way or seek help from the police; If it's borrowing money for food, not having money to buy a ticket, etc., I will help within the scope of my ability, whether it's true or not, I will always have my own difficulties.

Secondly, if the stranger I am talking to is a man, I will immediately keep my distance, look at him with a wary eye, signal not to get too close to me, and if he is standing still or seems helpless, I will ask him what help he needs and make a judgment on a case-by-case basis.

Finally, there are good people and bad people in this world, when we need help, we are strangers to others, so compare our hearts to our hearts, and help if we can, but the premise is to ensure the safety of our personal and property, good luck.

My first reaction was to feel particularly disgusted, because I was a relatively cold person, and I was also slow to warm up to my friends, and I would definitely ignore a stranger talking to me.

But when he tells me what he needs help, if I can help him, I'm eager to help him, but I'm also guarded. For example, if he is asking me for directions, then I will definitely show him the way, but if there are some other excessive requests, then I may not agree, because I am more defensive.

It's like a news story in the previous paragraph, there is an old grandfather and grandmother on the road to ask for directions, and then ask you to take him there, so that in the middle of the way he will hurt you and then sell your internal organs, this thing is very scary, so I will not easily appear very warm with strangers. If I'm around well, I'll probably smile and answer, but if I'm in a normal mood or don't feel anything, I'll leave immediately.

When you go out, especially when you go to a place that you are not familiar with, you will inevitably talk to strangers, then you can't avoid strangers to talk to you, when someone I don't know talk to me, my first reaction is vigilance, and the reaction in my mind is different on different occasions.

On New Year's Day, my classmates and I went to Beijing to play, and many strangers talked to me, all of which were for us to help take pictures of them. At the subway station, you will meet strangers and ask how many lines of subway to make.

Of course, the strangers we met in Wangfujing Snack Street asked us if we wanted to eat something, as well as those wild group guides.

When I visit a shopping mall in Jinan or a prosperous area like our house, someone comes to talk to me, and my first reaction is to sell me their products or sweep ***.

No matter what the occasion, strangers must be vigilant when talking to you.

It depends on what the person is saying.

If he wants to ask me to help him, I don't think it's me, and I'll do everything I can to help him.

It's like when you're on a train. If someone's phone is out of battery, go to me to borrow my phone and call**, these are all okay.

Also, the last time I was on the train, there was a boy next to me, he ran out of battery because his mobile phone was out of battery, and then he asked me to borrow a power bank and I also lent it to him.

I think it's good to be able to help others when I'm away from home. But if the stranger asks me my name and asks if I can make a friend, I think I'm disgusted with these things.

Because after all, we don't know each other, just because we met in general, and if he is so enthusiastic about keeping your name, then he must have some bad intentions.

Also, if someone doesn't know what the purpose is, and then they talk to me for no reason, I think they're trying to cheat me out of my money.

Because I feel that when I am away from home, if I don't need help from others, I am unlikely to take the initiative to talk to others, but if I just talk about something, I may be trying to lie to you.

I'll take a step back, and I'll be a little nervous. Because my defensive heart is still relatively heavy, when a stranger wants to talk to me, I will subconsciously give a little distance, so that I can better understand what the other party is going to do next, especially the performance of the opposite sex in this regard, will make me feel a little unaccustomed, after all, the current society is more messy, or should let yourself have more defensive hearts, for strangers who do not know, if you can give a proper distance, then it will also let each other in a relatively polite atmosphere.

For strangers, once the other party always likes to lean over to talk, I still have some elements of overthinking in my heart, because I feel that the other party may sell things or have some publicity ideas in other aspects, otherwise they will not come to themselves for no reason, and some people are not necessarily very simple people even if they ask for directions, so they still have to give themselves a sense of security in order to form a better atmosphere with the other party.

If it were me, my first reaction would definitely be more defensive, because many people around me have directly or indirectly told me not to trust strangers at will.

Therefore, if a stranger accostes me, I will definitely end the topic as soon as possible, or I will simply turn away from the stranger without hearing the stranger's words and stay away from the other party as soon as possible. Before, there were girls near our school who reacted that there was a van driver on the road from the subway station to the school to ask for directions, saying that our school's teaching building was in **, and the subway station was only a few hundred meters away from the school.

Asked the girl to get in the car and lead the way, the girl just described the route again out of defense, but when she went back, she found that there were other girls who had the same experience as herself, which means that the man driving the van didn't really want to ask for directions.

The girl felt scared when she thought of it, so she posted a circle of friends for the attention of the people around her, so I think that in the face of strangers' accosting, as a girl, you should not lower your guard at will, and it will be safer to remain indifferent at the appropriate time.