Nasty Neighbor 20, Nasty Neighbor

By doing so, you will only provoke greater conflict. Harmony between neighbors is accomplished by a tolerant heart. Maybe you will also affect them inadvertently, this kind of thing is very common and common in the neighborhood, but they are not looking for and making trouble, right?

If you have to go to extremes to deal with them, then buy fifty tons of firecrackers (explosives are not easy to buy), send them to their house as a gift for the Spring Festival, and it will be peaceful forever after just one ring.

Go to the property management to complain, or consult a lawyer.

The more you tell them not to do this, the more they do it, from a hypnotic point of view, it belongs to the non-verbal suggestive sentence structure. Making noise has become their fun.

The specific method should be repercussive, he has less noise, you will complain in the past that it is too quiet, not used to it, ask them to ring on time as usual, remember to be punctual. TURN THEIR FUN INTO A TASK TO COMPLETE ... This is explicit.

There is also a positive approach, whenever he is less noisy, give a reward, this reward you think yourself (can be a friendly greeting), this trick belongs to the taming of the hint way.

Neighbors should get along well, I think at the beginning you said so directly that they will cause a negative effect, I think you should now first deal with these two words from the mind to get along, to get along with the heart, downstairs said to send something to other neighbors, that is even worse, this will intensify the conflict, you should buy some fruit up, visit them directly, don't go straight to say that they are not good to quarrel with you, but to use your magnanimous words and actions to make him feel ashamed, consciously restrained, When is the so-called retribution?

There are several ways:

You say it's not the way to do it with them, because you didn't pick the right time. Children must go to bed early, you stomp your feet at 10 o'clock at night (stomp when the child sleeps), stomp for 10 minutes plus ** turn on to the loudest, they will not be able to stand it for 1 week.

Or you call the village committee and complain that they disturb social peace and noise pollution, and ask the relevant personnel to deal with it.

Again, you can give other neighbors a little fruit, a gift, or something like that, but don't give it to the one who makes the noise, they will naturally be red-eyed and will find a way to please you.

Hope you can sleep well.

I can dry the quilt every day Hello, excuse me. This is my own writing, and I have a sense of original cross talk. Let's listen to the solution!

The purpose is to hope that everyone can pay attention to the problem of noise hazards from their own point of view, and jointly reduce this invisible killer of human health.

Hope it helps.

In Chinese society, people are too close to each other, and now the buildings are all next to each other, which is an inevitable problem, so you have to learn to adapt to society, because the policy is like this.

After all, it's a neighbor, so let's talk about it!

Or deal with it directly with the neighborhood committee!

Move him upstairs for a month and let him feel it.

My father once said to me: "Treat your neighbors like relatives and friends, be polite and generous, get along with each other, and share the day and night." "But one of my neighbors below me, with whom I could hardly reconcile, for he was a man of quibbles, and of pranks, and of all his faults, and that I saw him far from him.

Although he lived in the city, he occasionally came to live in our countryside for a while, maybe his parents loved him too much, and his grandparents were obedient to him, never beating him or scolding him, which made me not want him to live in our school, and the gods blessed him to leave quickly and go far away. Before, the two of us had a good time, maybe when we were young, we only had innocence in our hearts, there were no other distractions, we were together, as if we were brothers and sisters, but now, as we grow up, more and more distractions make him annoying, that is, from that day on, we no longer have the same relationship as before. That day, we were playing with sand under the shade of a tree, and he shoveled the sand with an iron spoon and passed it to me, and I didn't have any tools, so I took the sand by hand.

I was playing happily, suddenly, with a "bang", the spoon hit my head hard, swollen up a big bag, I looked, the spoon in his hand was gone, he was secretly laughing! At this time, his grandmother came, and he quickly changed his face, and said to his grandmother in tears: "Grandma, she snatched my spoon and said that I hit her."

I was about to explain, but his grandmother snatched me of the words: "You girl, why are you so unreasonable, Kiki, let's go home!" His grandmother picked him up and walked away, and he stuck out his tongue at me and went home with his grandmother.

Another time, when I was playing with my little friend, he couldn't stay idle again, his hands itched, and he wanted to play a prank, so he sneaked out while his grandmother was not paying attention, walked over with a grin, patted me on the shoulder, and said to me, "I'll take you to a magical place to see, will you go?" "I have always liked magical things, so I went with him, but I didn't expect him to take me into the dormitory, and lock the door, so that I couldn't get out, I banged the glass inside, but I had no choice but to stay in it for a few hours, not only hungry, but also scolded by my parents.

This neighbor is so annoying, I wonder if you hate him?

My neighbor is such a person, the pet in the house smells bad, and the whole hallway smells. I've already talked to him about the problem, and through amicable negotiation I decided to put the pet in the basement. In this way, our neighborhood relationship is maintained.

After all, two families living together for a long time can't make the neighborhood too stiff. The most common topics of conversation among neighbors are none other than parents, the elderly, and children.

On weekdays, all kinds of complaints and complaints seem to be pouring bitter water, but they have narrowed their relationship with each other because they have shared a lot of inside stories. This is the most common way to get along with each other in neighborhoods.

But really smart people will not talk about it even if they have nothing to say to their neighbors. There are some words, there is a difference between inside and outside, no matter how the neighbors knock on the side and want you to give a reference, you must know how not to express your position and not to give clear advice.

In short, neighbors can exchange courtesies for a long time with a kind of psychology that does not owe others, even if they suffer a loss.

And if the neighbor is the kind of special care, after being generous a few times, he will not move around often when necessary, and the subtlety of the neighborhood relationship is often in the back and forth. Neighborly help is not in the traditional sense, with power and money, but based on the convergence of values, to give some cognitive reminders and suggestions, and this deeper level of help is often very cautious. Everyone has a fantasy about their neighbors, and at the same time they also have a kind of defense, only by grasping the scale and distance of getting along can they warm each other and take care of each other.

Summary. Hello, neighbor, you are there, in fact, this situation can be avoided, don't tell others where you go, and don't tell his family to tell him, he won't follow you.

Hello, neighbor, you are there, in fact, this situation can be avoided, don't tell others where you go, and don't tell his family to tell him, he won't follow you.

My wife is also bullying me with people from outside.

Kiss you are not a son-in-law.

No. It means that my in-laws have come to bully me with outsiders, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has not been good since ancient times, you are in his house, you are equivalent to an outsider, they are not yet your own person, and they feel that outsiders are closer than you and need to be run-in.

I was bullied by others, and my husband said that my neighbor is not getting along, what is your so-called bullying, if it is a neighbor getting along, you are new, and it is normal for neighbors to bully you.

But your husband didn't take responsibility, how did you choose him, he thought about the people outside, treated him coldly, and the neighbor came to the village and said that I was afraid of him and her, and I didn't dare to talk to her, and I didn't want to pay attention to them.

You should have met a talkative neighbor, an irresponsible husband, and in this case, you can just live your own day, there are not many neighbors, and you can not have much contact.

Your husband is not very responsible, your attention.

Summary. Neighbors, or neighbors for the rest of your life, if you can get along with each other, even if it's just the superficial kind that can get by, because you don't know what he will do when you're not at home, if you really hate it, try not to stiffen the relationship, I really hate to talk to the neighbor calmly because of one thing or another, if it really doesn't work, it's a tooth for a tooth, people don't offend me, I don't offend people, it's all people, why do I want to let you, if you have the conditions, change to a new environment, To make a good neighbor is a good future for your children and yourself!

My nasty neighbor I'm even more like him when I get to**.

Neighbors, or neighbors for the rest of your life, if you can get along with each other, even if it's just the superficial kind that can get by, because you don't know what he will do when you're not at home, if you really hate it, try not to stiffen the relationship, I really hate to talk to the neighbor calmly because of one thing or another, if it really doesn't work, it's a tooth for a tooth, people don't offend me, I don't offend people, it's all people, why do I want to let you, if you have the conditions, change to a new environment, To make a good neighbor is a good future for your children and yourself!

Hope it helps.

Unreasonable neighbors, as well as my in-laws, even outsiders bullied me, uh-huh.

Understand your situation.

If you really can't get along, change to a new environment.

How did you change it. After all, neighbors are meant to get along for a long time.

If it's a trivial matter that can be solved by forbearance, let's deal with it first, I really can't get along, I can only change to a new home.

The neighbors came to the village and said that I was afraid of him and her, and I didn't dare to talk to her and they didn't want to pay attention to them.

I haven't had much contact with my neighbors, I don't know why, and there are neighbors I don't know, as long as I don't embarrass you. Whatever he says.

Just be yourself. If he bullies you, you can call the police. There can be no concessions on matters of principle.

Mingsheng is gone, go home. The dogs. Just come to my door and call, even my in-laws' family are more outsiders, how to call the police, no.

Things gather like people in groups, not one type of people, so why bother to take care of them.

If you want me to ignore them.

Relax, sit with like-minded friends, and don't get angry with them.

Hope it helps.