What should I do if a single mother s love is lost?

I'm young, but I know that feelings don't just come by saying.

And you're a mother of a child, and I personally don't think single mothers have anything.

On the contrary, I think that if anyone can live well with your mother and son, then he is the happiest.

But you have to be cautious, if he loves your child very much, otherwise don't talk about it.

Children are your most important thing, you know.

Fate is earned by yourself, and I believe that you will find a man who loves you and your children.

I wish you both mother and child happiness.

In today's realistic and hypocritical society, many cruel facts are placed in front of people's eyes.

If you're feeling miserable right now, just take a look.

What is yours is yours, what is not yours is not yours after all.

Believe in fate, fate is over, people will naturally disperse.

Believe in marriage, believe in fate, cherish blessings, love yourself, and love your children.

Don't always think of pain as pain, just when you don't think of pain as suffering.

It's your marriage that you will never miss, because there is no such thing as a missed marriage.

I heard you say that you are living with a child, and I feel strange and uncomfortable.

I'm very small, so I'll call you Little Pancreas.

Although I was young, my life was never calm.

Take care of yourself, be kind to your children, be kind to yourself, be kind to your parents, be kind to everyone we meet in this life.

Don't overthink it.

My mom is also a single mom

She took me into account and did not remarry

A few years ago, she had a very hard time, and I was always bullied, and after a few years, I grew up, and I asked her why she didn't find me a stepfather, and she said: People are selfish, who can treat other people's children as if they were their own I will take you alone, and it is hard But there are many people who have helped me, and it is not very difficult It is that you have learned to be independent and get along with people very early, and I am very happy

I love my mom

Love can be found, if he is particularly interested in traditional things, then let him go, maybe he should not have come into your life in the first place. The reality is that you have to bear everything in life and keep looking, and the destined person may not be far away.

Don't contact him anymore, what's wrong with single mothers? You will definitely be able to pursue your own happiness, and he is not the only man in the world, try to find it again, and you will definitely have happiness

Go for your happiness, but the twisted melon is not sweet, let it be.

The second blind date was my fellow countryman, who had met him before, but he hadn't had too much contact. Later, because of the work relationship, I got back in touch and gradually got to know him as a person. I tried to really engage with him, but to be honest, no matter how sincere I put into it, I didn't feel the slightest bit about him.

He has an ex-girlfriend who has been in love for seven years, and the two are not married, but life is as real as life. Later, the woman's father and mother did not agree to the marriage, and the two had to break up. This experience devastated him so much that he never believed in love again.

After that, I gradually cut off contact with my second blind date, and my life returned to peace. I started to go on blind dates and continue to look for true love. I don't know when I got in touch with my first blind date again.

He changed his normal behavior this time and was very enthusiastic about me. I was a little surprised, but I gladly accepted the change. Because I already have a crush on him, I want to continue with him.

I can definitely believe in myself.

First of all, you have to believe that if you have the luck, it is not difficult to meet a beautiful love.

In fact, love is mutual, and only when you use your heart can you have true love.

Answer: None of us can say for sure about the relationship, after all, fate is destined, and no one can say that those single mothers with children will not meet happiness. Although for single mothers, they will encounter a lot of strange eyes in daily life, but this does not mean that their life is not good enough.

In fact, each of us has the right to pursue happiness, especially for those single mothers, after all, no one wants to have a failed marriage, but many things in life are unpredictable, and we can't say that because they have children, they give up their right to pursue happiness, which is very unfair to them.

Although children are important to every mother, they should not only have children in their lives, but also have their own lives.

If a person is good enough, even if she is a single mother, even if she has children, she will still attract the attention of the opposite sex, and there will still be people of the opposite sex who like her.

Although it is true that mothers with children will find it more difficult to meet their own love than those women who have never been married, it does not mean that everyone is like this. After all, life is lived by yourself, maybe you have a certain advantage to shine, you will attract the attention of the opposite sex, maybe you will meet your own love because of this.

With the previous person did not go to the end, it can only be said that he is not the most suitable person for you, although you are now with a child, but I believe that your love will come after all, but before that you must cheer up, only if you make yourself better, you can meet a better person.

is like saying that Alyssa Jia and Xiu Jiekai, the relationship between the two of them is very good, although when Alyssa Jia was with Xiu Jiekai, she was divorced and had children, but who can say that they are not true love?

Conclusion: So true love doesn't care what kind of identity you are, single mothers still live happily in a sedan chair!

Actually, until now, I don't know what he was thinking. Sometimes he gives me ambiguous feelings, sometimes he acts like he's interested in me, and sometimes he's not interested in me. Actually, I quite understand his thoughts, we have all failed once, and of course we should be cautious in choosing again.

When people reach middle age, they are more able to restrain their feelings, and they are not as impulsive as young people. And a man with good conditions like him is also quite picky, and he will definitely compare many ways, maybe at the same time, he will contact different people, and keep not refusing or taking the initiative. I understand that on the one hand, I resist, and I always feel like a spare tire.

Now, what the hell am I going to do? Should I continue to work on him, or should I find a new love?

<> I still don't believe in love, and I won't love as blindly as before. After experiencing failure, you know that you have failed in the **, and you will not be stupid to repeat it the second time.

I became a single mother three months ago, the father of the child and I broke up peacefully, and after the birth of the child, all our energy was devoted to the child and we didn't care about other things as much as before. So naturally the relationship between us has weakened a lot, at first I didn't pay much attention to it, thinking that this is something that all couples have to go through, life is not romantic after all, and some doubts and hardships are also a part of life.

But I gradually found that he doesn't like to go home, although he has been a lot busy in the past few years, but he has recently spent more than a month in the company because of a project. I was a little worried, so I went to his company, but what I didn't expect was to see this scene, which brought my marriage to an impasse from then on. He and his female secretary leaned together ambiguously, and the lunch box in my hand was knocked over in shock, but they looked at it very calmly.

A few months later, I broke up with him. To be honest, part of the failure of marriage is actually my responsibility, I was too confident, and then I was too careless, thinking that with a relationship like a child, no one can break it, and it can't be broken, but in the end, the gains outweigh the losses. I ignored his feelings, being a wife is unqualified, we both paid the price in this marriage, but I have to start a new life for the sake of the children.

The dissolution of a marriage, no matter how much resentment there is, also knows that a slap in the face is the responsibility of two people and the problem of two people. No matter who is right or wrong, never mention the other party's mistakes in front of your children. In the eyes of children, both parents are indispensable.

Especially today's children, if you want to ask him whether he likes his father or his mother, many of them will "like both". So don't ask your child such questions, let your child choose and give up too early, sometimes the answer is against his will.

The father is always the father of the child, and with the child in the middle, it is impossible to say that the relationship is completely severed. The relationship between them is very delicate, and it is not possible to be sure that you can handle it completely. As long as you grasp some principles, I don't think it's too bad.

First of all, determine if you can go back? This should be key. When you are convinced that you can't turn back, it seems much easier to deal with.

There are also a lot of problems in between, and the problems are still there.

I don't speak ill of his father in front of my children, and I don't expose my children to information about single-parent families too early. I will let the child always live in a happy family and let love surround him. He will not be depressed about the loss of his father, because his father has never left him.

This is also what I agreed with my ex-husband, he can come to see the child at any time, and the child can come to him at any time. We will not give our children less love because we are separated, but will pay more attention to their growth as before.

Scumbag appraiser, help you identify all kinds of scumbags! (id：zhananjianding)