Are all feelings unequal?

Reciprocity is just a mental balance. If you feel that what you have to give is not proportional to what you get, and you value this imbalance in particular, I think you might as well let it go. lest you still feel that the psychological imbalance will affect the relationship between husband and wife after marriage in the future.

If you really love him very much, you will feel that you don't pay enough for him, so I think you don't love him much, you want him to love you more, but as far as you say, it seems that he doesn't love you too much, so you have to think about getting married for love or getting married for the sake of getting married.

There is no such thing as absolute equality in the world, even if you love him, you should love him generously! As long as he loves you in his heart! ~~

I don't think there's any need to stick to this kind of love.

How can he be so addicted to the game that he ignores your presence?

However, love is maintained by two people.

If you are better for him, better words.

Trust that he will be touched by you and not when you don't exist.

At first, it is reciprocal, and then one side develops quickly, and the other side may not be able to keep up with the step valve, but this situation is very rare.

There is no reciprocity in the giving of love. If you love him, don't ask for reciprocity.

Only giving, constantly giving, and not necessarily getting a return, you have to be mentally prepared.

There is no fairness, they are all working hard.

You can't calculate, you can only feel.

The world of feelings is never equal, if you don't care about him, he will care about you. The more he cares about a person, the more he takes it for granted, there are many people who suffer from gains and losses in their relationships, and they are not sure of the other half's heart. In fact, it can be seen from the way he slowly changes the way he replies to messages.

He doesn't like you as much as you think.

Most of the feelings are from the very beginning of the boy's courteous greetings and meticulous care to the later perfunctory and careless, they always feel that they have caught up, no matter what, the girl will not leave him, and finally wait until the girl's disappointment is enough to slowly leave the boy's world, not our girl is hypocritical, but when she said what you promised to do again and again can not be done, she will lose confidence in this relationship.

It's said that the boy uses what tricks to fool girls when chasing you, but after chasing him, he reverts to his original appearance, in fact, the reason is that he doesn't like you so much, he just treats you as a good haven, and a good excuse to say to my dad and mom that I have a girlfriend and don't need to help me find it.

All explanations under the pretext of being busy are pale and weak, and if you don't like it, you can say it bluntly. Don't hang a girl all the time, and don't deceive and hurt her.

The girl always makes excuses for the boy's not replying to the message and comforts herself that he is too busy, and always guesses whether he is busy afterwards, and there is really no spare time in the day to accompany you, is Chang and busy chatting with others, when the first person he thinks of is not you but someone else, do you really think he still likes you, don't be stupid, withdraw from this wrong relationship, let yourself leave decently, and not cry and leave at the end.

Words written at the back:

In a relationship, a girl can never be at a disadvantage. If he ignores you, you ignore him. Do your own thing, and when he wants to find you, it's not too late for you to come back to him, you can go back if you want, and you don't want to go back if you don't want to go back.

Never take the initiative to find a boy, and never have great hopes for a boy, no matter how good the relationship is, everything has to rely on yourself. If you find that he doesn't like you anymore, don't drag it hard, the longer you drag it, the deeper the injury will be. May you find a boy who takes your word to heart and acts all the time.

When a woman is faced with feelings, she will always be very emotional, and if she really loves someone, she will give everything for the other person.

Knowing that the other party may not love her enough, or in this love, she has always been the more active party, she changes herself for him, and wrongs herself for him, which are all manifestations of "low self-esteem".

To put it bluntly, low self-esteem is to give up on yourself because you love someone, you only have him in your heart, as long as he asks you to do something, even if you are embarrassed, you will answer as before, even if you don't like things again, you will accompany him to complete it.

You think that if you change yourself, you will make him love you more, but is that actually the case? Maybe he has changed himself, and he will say to you, "I still like you as I was." ”

Even if a woman loves someone again, she must understand a truth: it is a very stupid thing for the scum to change for him, and he will not love you more because of it.

Love is mutual, only one-sided giving will be very tiring, after a long time, it is inevitable that there will be emotions, it is inevitable that there will be complaints.

If in a love, you have always been humble and flattering, no matter what you do, you have done it well, and then tell him, and he has always enjoyed it, and never thought about your feelings, what kind of love is this!

This is like Zhang Ailing's words: "When she saw him, she became very low, low to the dust, but her heart was happy, and flowers bloomed from the dust." ”

I used to like this sentence very much, and I thought that this kind of love was too great, but now I don't recognize this kind of love, love is so humble, and even to the point of pleasing each other, is it really great? Maybe it just touched yourself, but the other party was indifferent!

Unilateral humble flattery is never love, it's just your wishful thinking, when the other party has time to pay attention to you, they will play with you, and they don't want to pay attention to you, maybe they will leave without even saying hello.

Third: give everything for him.

In the face of love, women often behave impulsively, and if they like someone, they will feel that they have to give everything for it, and you will not like the second one except him.

Such a vigorous love is certainly touching, but it has to happen to someone who also loves you, if you love more than him, then, even if you give everything, it does not necessarily make him cherish you more.

Therefore, no matter how much you love someone, you must also consider repentance clearly, no matter how much you love someone, don't have "low self-esteem" love, remember!

People with low self-esteem are usually not confident enough in themselves, or feel that they can't meet a better love, so they will change themselves for the other party, humble and please, and will give everything for him.

But even if you do a good job, he won't be grateful to you, he will only think that it's normal for you to do this, and you should cater to him, and this kind of love is suffocating to think about.

The most feared thing in love is not that no one loves you, but that you don't know how to love someone. And later I also realized that there is no need to be ashamed of those cheapness in love, it can not only prove your ability to love others, but also make you understand that your bottom line can be so low, although it will make people temporarily lose their self-esteem, but it will also make you understand yourself better. Love, either know each other better, or know yourself better, these are all obtained.

Some people, it's not that they don't understand love, but.

Is friendship reciprocal? I don't really understand, I don't have many good friends, I can count them with my hand, I personally think that friends are not about many, but about whether the two people are sincere.

We will meet a lot of people, and we will probably go through two stages: slowly getting acquainted with some strangers and becoming friends; Slowly estranged from some friends and became strangers. In the end, there are very few good friends who can be by our side.

When I was in high school, I thought I was the best friend, I had to eat together in class, and I even had to go to the toilet together. After graduation, we didn't have much contact, there were no conflicts between us, just no common topics. I used to think that even if good friends weren't together, it didn't matter if they didn't keep in touch often.

But now I've found that if I don't go to college in one place, if I don't go to the same environment, even if I'm on a good page, I will slowly become estranged because I don't have a common topic.

Now that I think about it, you who used to have a good relationship have become farther and farther away from my life. Even if you are reluctant, you can't change it, I just hope that each other can remember the good times that past.

Do feelings need to be reciprocal? I am a very emotional person, and I will try my best to be good to the person I care about. However, when I don't receive the same affection, I feel bad. I know that friends shouldn't worry too much about each other, but I still feel depressed because of it.

I once wrote that friends should maintain a certain sense of distance from each other. There should be a dividing line when getting along, and if you cross that line, you will be violating each other's private sphere and will make both parties feel uncomfortable. We all understand the truth, but sometimes the emotion is greater than the reason, and some behaviors and emotions cannot be explained by conventional theories, it only originates from our hearts.

Having said all this, I seem to have convinced myself, and I hope that you who are reading this article can also gain a lot from it!

Whether it's family, friendship or love, all feelings are not equal. Just like now, I think that in the future, apart from myself, the first thing I should put should not be my children and parents but my husband, because he is the one who can accompany you for a lifetime. Generally speaking, parents will go before us, and we will go before children.

But when we were children, we just felt that all people, whether parents or other elders, always felt that they should take more care of us and should love us more. This is the case in my family, my parents chose not to divorce for the sake of us. I often quarrel with my mother because of my relatives, and at this time, I always hope that my father will come to me.

I used to just want my dad to come to me, but now I've learned to compromise and no matter how much mom is biased towards her sisters, dad should really be on mom's side, and I can choose to apologize or keep my mouth shut. Because Mom is married to Dad, she is the only one, and if Dad doesn't help her, she will be isolated.

So no matter what kind of feelings, there is always one who will pay first, and pay a lot, and in addition to family members and their own pillow people, few people will be good to you for no reason, we must learn to accept the arrival and departure of people around us, this is the law of this world, no one will always be by your side, life is like this.

The biggest embodiment of unequal love is that one party continues to give, while the other party gains with peace of mind. is the truth with each other, always afraid of saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing to make the other party unhappy, and the requirements for the other party are always obedient, too cautious, but in the end he wronged himself.

The love between two people is a process of running in with each other and learning from each other's strengths. It's not about erasing your own edges and corners, fueling the sharp edge of your other half, and making it a sharp weapon that hurts you. Those that will make you aggrieved are often unequal love, which is full of thorns of hard work, and finally makes you bruised and miserable.

Unequal love is that you see each other too perfectly, and you must always remember that there are no perfect people in this world at all, but two imperfect people combined to become a perfect whole.

You and the other person are both equal individuals, there is no need to tolerate everything, you must learn to be considerate of each other.

The literal translation is that the status of the marriage and love of two individuals is not equal. For example, the economic conditions, family status, love investment, etc. of both parties may not be equal...

There is a relationship that has nothing to do with husband and wife, but is concerned for a lifetime.

This is the deep concern of one heart for another, and it is your soulmate!

This deep concern will be sweeter than honey and more beautiful than flowers, because a true confidant is the concern of our hearts.

This strong feeling, indescribable, also unclear, even if the ruthless time passes quietly, but also take away the concerned heart, this kind of fate, is not the most beautiful kind of happiness in the relationship?

Although you don't need to be together with each other, and you don't need to accompany you to enjoy the sunset together, it can become the most beautiful scenery in each other's lives.

The first thing that comes to mind is giving. One person pays more, one pays less, and there is a family, one is rich and the other is poor.

And, of course, looks.

In fact, to be able to say unequal love is to be dissatisfied with another person.

The two do not match at all levels in terms of family background, education, cultural knowledge, learning, vision, etc.

The highest happiness in life is to be sure that you are loved by Hugo.

The happiest thing in the world is that you love someone, and that person happens to love you personally.

Contrary to this conclusion is unequal love, the person you love does not love you, and your efforts are not reciprocated, that is love but not allowed.

Don't look for anything smaller than you. Life has to be in love, you have to find the right one.

After getting to know each other, we cannot live in harmony, only sex can maintain it.

Both of them are not living comfortably in the relationship.