How many people will be happy when they get married?

I feel the same way you do, but I don't feel intimidated by it. Because marriage is like treating a child, you need to take care of it, as long as you manage your marriage carefully, then you will feel happy, happiness is just an attitude, an idea, a feeling. When I see certain programs on TV, I see certain old couples, wow, so happy, they are not very rich, but their lives are enviable, they are seventy or eighty years old, but their lifestyle is as sweet as that of young people in love.

Happiness is what you think in your heart, and as long as you practice what you think in your heart, then you will be happy. Happiness is a very simple thing, but it is also a difficult thing, and the key lies in your attitude towards life.

In fact, if you don't get married, you will regret this sentence from "The Biography of Lin Huiyin".

Ms. Lin Huiyin once said: In fact, if you don't get married, you will regret it.

The cat in the alley is very free but has no home; The dog in the wall has to bow its head for the rest of its life. Life is a multiple-choice question, no matter how you choose, there will be regrets. A woman's best way out is never to find a good husband.

Instead, he cultivates himself to be elegant and powerful, to match everything in this world.

Other sources: 1. Kierkegaard, "Trembling and Uneasy: Kierkegaard's Individual Puppet in the Collection".

Get married, and you will regret it. If you don't get married, you will regret it too. To get married or not to get married, you will still regret it. Whether you get married or not, you will regret it.

2. Socrates.

Socrates was asked if he wanted to get married, and what he got was, "Whatever you do, you will regret it."

Being happy or unhappy doesn't have much to do with whether you get married or not.

Most people who can be happy after marriage can often be happy before marriage, and when they are alone, they can also be happy.

Making yourself happy is an ability, happiness is not given by others, even if others give you happiness today, you can take back the happiness you give back tomorrow, and then the happiness you give yourself is the real happiness.

Therefore, if you get married, you will not necessarily be happy.

If you are alone, you feel that life is quite good; When you are in love, you feel very happy, so after you get married, there is a high probability that you can be happy.

And you yourself are very unhappy, and you are noisy when you are in love, so after getting married, you are most likely unhappy.

Therefore, happiness has no direct relationship with marriage, it depends on whether you have the ability to be happy, you have, marriage has a chance to be happy, if you don't, then there is a high probability that you will not be happy.

Happiness before marriage is a matter of two people, and life after marriage is a matter of two families, so marriage needs to be managed, if you don't know how to manage, even if you get married, you won't be happy, you have to understand this, whether you are married or not married, women should have their own careers, so that they will have confidence, whether they are married or not married, women must have their own economy, don't rely on men to raise, otherwise there will be no dignity, you have to know how to cherish yourself, don't be too wronged yourself.

I will not choose to get married because the people around me are married, and I must choose what suits me when I get married. Everyone's marriage is not necessarily the same. Is it possible to be happy to marry for the sake of getting married?

Nowadays, many young people are busy with their careers and have no time to fall in love or talk about marriage, but as parents, they are always worried about their children's marriage. As a result, many young people go on blind dates and get married in order to satisfy their parents. Or, some people get married because of responsibilities, because of other needs, etc., are they really happy like this?

In fact, there is no conclusive jury on whether a person who marries for the sake of marriage is happy or not, and the feeling of happiness will vary from person to person. Some people will feel that people who marry for the sake of marriage will not be happy, and only those who are united because of love can last long. Most of the people who get married because they get married because they have pressure from a certain side, maybe they are parents, or they are some kind of responsibility, but no matter which one they are, they are only marrying for the sake of completing a form of marriage, and there is no deep emotional foundation between the two parties.

When returning to a marriage without deep feelings, most men will feel the reality of the woman, while women will feel the unromantic and uncaring of the man. As a result, in the face of tedious housework, after facing the hard work of both parties, you will feel bored in married life. But that's just some of the people's thoughts.

Is it true that getting married for the sake of getting married will be unhappy? Of course not. Many couples will also feel that there will be happy cases of union for the sake of marriage!

First of all, when both parties decide to get married, they must have determined each other, and having the purpose of marrying together will make the union more appropriate. When deciding to become a husband and wife, it is decided to choose a plain and simple life, and no matter the ups and downs, they will share and share with each other, care for each other, help each other, and it is also the happiness of ordinary life. In addition, if you choose a person you can rely on and be responsible for getting married, your hearts will not feel empty because of each other, and you will have to rely on each other, which will also be a kind of satisfying happiness.

Hello! Marriage is a happy thing. Marry someone you like, who likes you. You will be happier!

After marriage, there is happiness after marriage, but also after marriage, there are also troubles after marriage, and after marriage, the responsibility is greater, and you need to take care of the family, and you can't be too free.

1. Common language. The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you ......You will never find a topic to chat with, and slowly you will become alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely. 2. Three views are very important.

A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three views may be difficult to agree, two people with different views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage will naturally be useless after a long time. In marriage, the spirit of the door to the door is the same as the three views, which is very, very important. If the spirit is not in the right household, the views and opinions on things will not be ,......It is easy to have contradictions, and when there are contradictions, there will be disharmony, and eventually they will break up.

Personally, I think that J-Da is the right person, that is, in different situations, different personalities have been formed. Marriage is not just a husband and wife, but a family. If the other party does not have their own ideas, there will be conflicts in the future.

He will think from the perspective of his loved ones, not the truth of the matter, and in that case, you will be left alone. To know what kind of people the other person's family is, if their character and behavior are bad, then this family business is a gamble. ......I never cared about Shen Zheng's match, but after I got married, I found that the right match is not only about money, but also about education, and more importantly, about values.

Hello! People who live happier lives after marriage are generally people with a good attitude. Mindset determines life. Whoever is with a good attitude will be happy!

Marriage needs to be managed, and if you want to be happy in your married life, you need to be considerate and tolerant of each other.

If I had been given a chance, I wouldn't have chosen to get married.

Because only married people will experience the feeling of life after marriage, there will be a lot of troubles in the life of a family, whether you are working outside or going out, you have to worry about the situation at home, do not deal with the problems at home, and there will be contradictions, so after marriage, the freedom of the person is restricted by the family, and the freedom of movement is restricted.

It's fine if you don't have children after getting married, but after you have children, your psychological burden will be heavier. This burden is not because of financial burden, nor is it because of money. And the blindness is worried about the child's living situation in the future, whether it will be smooth and there will be no ups and downs.

In addition, I am worried that in the future, my children will have a family like us, and they will be as busy as we are and get a hard life.

Although it is a happy family, it is also extremely hard and troublesome, so I advocate living a single life is the best, without worries, alone, chic and free life.

The blind date soon got married under the urging of both parties, which can be understood as marriage for the sake of marriage. Obviously, men and women do not have enough time to contact and understand, and they do not know whether the other party is suitable for them, nor can they have feelings. But this question asks whether you will be happy?

I think it depends on whether the two parties are compatible, tolerant, and temperamental. In the past, some of our older generations only had arranged marriages with their parents, and didn't there be many people who got married first and then fell in love, and finally never left their heads and grew old together? But there are also those who break up because of the other party's poor character, empathy, or incompatible temperament and habits.

Therefore, I think that happiness after marriage depends on the character and tolerance of both parties, and feelings can be continuously cultivated in the relationship.

The basic condition of the family ensures that two people who do not know each other can also have a basic consensus, that is, the three views that people talk about today are similar. This is very important for marriage, and two people live sincerely, so it is more logical to seek common ground while reserving different grandchildren in marriage, mutual understanding and mutual understanding, and mutual Zhaochun help each other. Then the trivial things left with firewood, rice, oil and salt will not be a problem.

Inclusion is the key to their harmony. So our fathers, although our fathers and fathers have stumbled and fought all their lives, they have always had an internal force and gravitational force, which cannot be broken up or opened, and finally they have come to the end of their lives hand in hand.

In view of the experience of parents and fathers in managing marriages, should we reflect on ourselves, what problems still exist in married life, which can be filtered out with a open mind, and first need to communicate and coordinate to reach an agreement, which problems need to be worked together by both parties? Due to the ideological constraints of the older generation, more and more people are forced by the pressure of their parents, what are you at the age when you should get married, how old are you if you don't get married, do you still want children, you look at other people's children will play soy sauce, and you are still single......In the end, I had to find someone to get married, you can imagine that the person you found casually entered the palace of marriage and formed a family, and the two sides were in harmony, but if it was accompanied by quarrels every day, what a terrible thing it was!

Hello, it won't.

I wouldn't choose to get married just because everyone around me is married. I look forward to the love of men is the respect of men and the thoughtfulness and care of men, marriage is the most important thing in everyone's life, can not be ignored and can not be without, each of us is the destination of marriage, probably is the siege of marriage, and now, more and more people can not find true love, in the matter of marriage has become difficult, to the marriageable age is very anxious, want to quickly find a person who can live a lifetime. But the more urgent, the easier it is to make mistakes, many people only care about the ceremony of "marriage", and do not understand the true meaning of marriage, so they will always find a person who can almost live and get married, and wait until they get along slowly after marriage, only to find that the person in front of them is not suitable to live with themselves.

Don't watch your friends get married and get married: most of your friends are the same age, some of their children have already run all over the place, and some of them are still single and don't even want to find a partner. Those who have been married and have children, they just met the right person earlier.

So don't start to panic a little because the people around you have been married, and you can't just find someone to live with for this reason.

Don't marry because of your family: The notion of your parents' generation is that you should start a family by the age of twenty. And most of our generation are late marriages, or even unmarried, so they are often urged by their parents to marry.

The parents' intentions are good, and it is empty to let you get married in order to let you have a happy family earlier. But they don't know that our current definition of marriage is not just that their generation simply lives together, but wants to find someone who has the same three views and has a common discourse, such people are very rare, so most of them have become late marriages. So don't get married because of the persecution of your parents, such a marriage is destined to be unhappy.

If you get married, you should marry love: you can choose not to get married, but if you get married, you should marry love. Living with people who love each other for a lifetime is happiness and the true meaning of marriage.

Love is the premise of marriage, and if there is no love, then marriage is meaningless.

Although it is said that if you decide to get married, you must marry the person you love. Marriage will determine the rest of a person's life. Therefore, before getting married, you must analyze whether you can accept the impact of marriage on you.

For example, before getting married, you often like to eat out by yourself, but after you get married, you have to think about a family, not yourself. Be responsible and responsible! Live happily with your lover for a lifetime.

Good luck. <>