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Personally, I think that in terms of dealing with the world, don't be too restrained and decent, otherwise, it will give people a feeling of being pretentious, on the contrary, if you leak some shortcomings that everyone generally has, others will think that you are very sincere, because no one is perfect, and everyone has some shortcomings and deficiencies of one kind or another. In fact, it's just a misunderstanding, not all people who like to take advantage are very sincere, and those who usually behave very decently must be people who like to do things, maybe he is a decent person.
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Hey, yes, I feel that way too. Depressed.
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In addition to taking advantage of the shortcomings.
He must be very good at caring about people, being kind to others.
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seems to be very generous, which is the same reason as Sister Furong Feng's attention.
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Because if you want to take advantage, you always have to say something nice, you must be able to slap the horse, and who doesn't want to listen to something nice and flattery. I think this person is good, but I don't know what he thinks.
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Maybe you only see his shortcomings, but there must be a reason for his popularity, and there must be something hateful about the poor people, and there are also good things that we can learn from, and keep learning from the good points of others, so as to make ourselves better.
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It should be just an example, most people hate people who love to take advantage of small advantages, on the other hand, it means that people who love to take advantage of small advantages are liked, which means that this person can speak well and is recognized by the people around them.
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There are such people! When getting along with friends who like to take advantage of small advantages, you need to consider the following aspects:
1. Understand the other party: understand why the other party likes to take advantage of small advantages, whether it is out of economic pressure in life, or whether it is a stingy person in the essence of Zen. Understanding the other person's reasons can make you better attuned to their behavior.
2. Keep communicating: If you are dissatisfied with or hurt by your friend's behavior, communicate with them in a timely manner so that they know your feelings and position. However, pay attention to the tone and manner of communication and do not make the other party feel attacked or accused, so as not to cause unnecessary disputes.
3. Stick to your principles: If your friend's behavior seriously violates your interests or principles, such as fraud, theft, etc., you can take resolute action and refuse to associate with them or protect your own rights and interests. However, before taking action, consider whether your actions will affect the interests or friendships of others.
4. Find common ground: In addition to taking advantage of small advantages, do you and your friends have other hobbies or values in common? If you have other things in common, you can build on those commonalities to deepen your friendship and reduce disputes.
5. Accept differences: Realize that everyone has different values and lifestyles. If you find it unacceptable to take advantage of your friends, consider socializing with other people and not trying to be good friends with everyone.
In fact, the character of love and greed for a small bargain is related to a person's living environment, experience, if a child's parents or close people are people who love to take advantage, then they may imitate, when once through a certain way to get a benefit, their own desires have been satisfied, it is likely that there will be a next time, and every time you get cheap, the desire will be strengthened once, and finally with the growing desire is likely to have very serious consequences.
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In the heart of taking advantage, everyone has it, and taking advantage will make Zhaobi feel very happy, I think it is not important for Xiaoyou to take advantage of the round, the main thing is not to infringe on the interests of others.
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Summary. The Buddha said that you must not be greedy and angry. People always break the vows. Greed is the first offense. There are clouds, and there is no such thing as a free lunch. If you are not greedy, you will save a lot of trouble, and you will fall into many routines by mistake.
People who like to take advantage are not good.
The Buddha said that you must not be greedy and angry. People always break the vows. Greed is the first offense. There are clouds, and there is no such thing as a free lunch. If you are not greedy, you will save a lot of trouble, and you will fall into many routines by mistake.
People often think that being greedy for small things is something that stupid people do, but they often do it in life. Fly-headed Xiaoli is often blindfolded. A person must believe that no one can "get something for nothing" with no hard work and no gain.
Maybe someone is opportunistic and makes a fortune, but in fact it is temporary - what is owed to others must be repaid after all. People are doing it, the sky is watching, don't think that your cleverness is the way to make money. People, those who are greedy for small and cheap often suffer big losses.
Remember: people have ten thousand calculations, only one day, greedy for small and cheap and suffer big losses. Take advantage of your friends, and your friends will alienate you; Wishful thinking for yourself, no matter how much you love you, will be chilled; greedy to buy things, most of them do not have good goods; If you count your relatives, you will also break off the relationship.
If you calculate others, what you gain is only petty profits, and what you lose is character and morality; What you covet may not be needed, and getting it is also a burden. People's hearts are a scale, which is right and wrong, are clear, don't be greedy, harm others and yourself, why bother.
Not a good habit anyway.
Not advocated.
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It is related to the historical factors of love and personal growth, and it is also a concentrated embodiment of wrong values! I think there are several main reasons for this:
1.Because of poverty, he has no ability to pay, and he is unwilling to be cheated and deceived, so he can only do some things against his will to covet small profits and take advantage of small advantages.
2.Think that the world is unfair, or the other party is profitable, and it is natural for you to take advantage of it!
3.Herd mentality, usually do not do greedy and cheap things, but everyone is doing it in emergencies, and they have joined it, such as a truck overturned on the highway, and nearby villagers coaxed the goods!
In short, people who are greedy for small and cheap things, some do it unwillingly, some do it deliberately, and some do it occasionally, no matter what kind of situation it is, it is a wrong act, although it is not a great evil, but it is the soil for the breeding of great evil! Don't take the evil as a small thing, don't take the good as a small thing, a harmonious society needs to improve the quality of the whole people!
Characteristics of people who love to take advantage of small advantages:
1. Stretch out your hand to the party with confidence, asking others to support you unconditionally, but in turn rarely help others;
2. Like to show a sense of superiority, always stand on the high ground of morality and ask others to compromise, and appear to be very correct and upright;
3. Relying on the old and selling the old, moral kidnapping is a commonly used method, and the frequent expressions include "why can't you be unwilling, and what will happen", "I am not no." Wait;
4. Self-centered egoists, who establish relationships only for self-interest, and altruistic behavior is difficult to happen. <>
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The more greedy you are, the more you will lose, and there are countless good things in the world, and we can't take them all for ourselves, and the more greedy you are, the more you will lose. The blessing of non-sharing, the gain of no reason, the bait of non-creation, that is, the trap of the world. If you have to keep something that isn't yours, then even if you get it, it's still a trap.
The more you crave what you can't get, the more painful and uneasy you will be, the more you ask for it, the more you can't get it, when you get it, think about why you couldn't get it at the beginning, but now you get it? The more anxious you are to have something, the more you will lose something, and you will lose more at the same time, and you will lose more, and in the end what you want is not really gained, and what you should not lose has already been lost! It can be said that he lost his wife and lost his soldiers!
Take advantage of small interests, suffer big losses, the more people like to take advantage of people often can't take advantage, all that can be taken is a loss is a trap, suffering a loss is a blessing, kindness is a blessing! Don't think about taking advantage of others everywhere, the more you love to take advantage of others, the more you get the advantage will make you leak and lose more, so you should not take advantage of it, and you will get the results you want step by step. Always remember that pie never falls from the sky, and there is never a free lunch in the world dismantling.
If you get something, you will lose another thing, learn to forbear, learn to suffer, be generous, don't be too harsh on people, don't be too serious about things! Suffering is a blessing, and generosity can raise blessings! There must be no idea of taking advantage of others, let alone taking advantage of others!
Polite everywhere, low-key everywhere. Don't take advantage of the cheap, eat the loss! Only those things that belong to oneself can be at ease, and things that do not belong to oneself are always uncomfortable, and taking advantage of others is a self-inflicted blessing!
No matter when and where you can have a thief's heart, you must be right-hearted and right-acting, so that blessings will continue to come!
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Greed: Some people may like to take advantage of small advantages because of greed. They may feel that even if it's just a small deal or discount, it's money, so they want to get whatever small discount they can get at every opportunity.
Feeling satisfied: Some people like to take advantage of small things because they feel that they can get a sense of satisfaction. Even if it's just a small deal or discount, they can feel like they're getting something extra, which might make their waiter feel better. Or talk about Xiang.
Financial pressures: For some, taking advantage of small advantages.
Socio-cultural factors: Some people may prefer to take advantage of small advantages because of socio-cultural factors. In some cultures or societies, taking advantage is seen as a form of wisdom or skill, so some people may feel that it is an accepted or respected behavior.
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This is what genetics brought to him, and he was born like this.
It's the so-called nature of the bucket shed.
If the person feels bad like this, he can overcome this shortcoming in the future, and he can change himself even if he is empty the day after tomorrow.
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For this"Take advantage"I don't agree with that. While the uniform purchase of costumes and the collective return of them after the performance may bring some financial benefits to college students in the short term, there are some moral and ethical issues with this behavior.
First of all, the act of using and returning goods after purchasing them violates the principle of fairness in business transactions. While providing goods and services, merchants also need to receive reasonable returns to maintain operations and survive. If college students choose to return goods en masse, the merchant may suffer losses and may not even be able to continue operating.
This kind of behavior violates the rights and interests of the merchant, and it may also cause unfair economic pressure on the merchant.
Second, this kind of behavior lacks integrity and responsibility. After purchasing a product, consumers should be responsible for their own choices and decisions, and respect the rules and policies of the merchant. If everyone adopts similar return and dross behavior, this will lead to a decrease in the merchant's trust in consumers, which may adversely affect other consumers.
Finally, this behavior may also have a negative impact on the environment. Collective returns will result in a large number of goods being returned to the merchant, and some of them may be discarded or disposed of because they cannot be re-sold, which is not good for environmental protection and waste of resources.
Therefore, I believe that the behavior of college students to return their uniforms en masse after purchasing them should not be encouraged. We should establish the concept of honest and responsible consumption, respect the rights and interests of merchants, abide by the principle of fairness of transactions, and be responsible for our purchasing behavior. If there are special circumstances that require a return, you should communicate with the merchant and follow their return policy.
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