Don t lower your main content, and you can t lower your requirements for yourself at any time

Rui Chenggang went to the U.S. Embassy in China to apply for a visa, and saw the Beijing security guard of the visa hall "scolding" the parents of the Chinese elite who had settled in the United States who spoke loudly. Afterwards, because of his professional relationship, Rui Chenggang unilaterally tore up the verbal agreement and told his old friend the U.S. Ambassador to China Randt about the incident, and Ambassador Randt dismissed the security guard.

In the face of setbacks, we should not be afraid or retreat; In the face of setbacks, our hearts should not feel tired and frustrated. Who knows, our life has become colorful and colorful, rich and fulfilling because of countless setbacks. Throughout history, in ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, all those who have made achievements have withstood the test in the face of setbacks and forged an extraordinary life.

Zu Chongzhi of the Southern Dynasty, under extremely simple conditions at that time, relied on small pieces of bamboo to carry out a large number of complex calculations, over and over again, after countless failures, and finally became the first in the world to accurately the pi to the seventh decimal place. The great inventor Edison, in the process of inventing the electric lamp, did countless failed experiments, tried a total of more than 6,000 kinds of fiber materials, and finally decided to use tungsten filament to make the filament, which improved the service life of the electric lamp. The French writer Alexandre Dumas, not relying on his father's fame, decided to use his own strength to achieve something, he sent articles to the newspaper again and again, but the newspaper was withdrawn, but he was not disappointed, still continued to create, after unremitting efforts, finally wrote the famous work "La Traviata".

Imagine, if Zu Chongzhi had suffered from that tedious calculation and repeated failures, and chose to give up, would he have such an achievement? If Edison had been discouraged by his failures and had stopped experimenting, would he have made 2,000 inventions that would have contributed greatly to human civilization and progress? If Alexandre Dumas couldn't stand the blow of rejection again and again and stopped writing, would the book "La Traviata" come out?

It can be seen that in the face of setbacks, we should boldly face them and face them. Romain Rowland said it well:"Everyone should have two lights in their hearts, one is the light of hope; One is the light of courage.

With these two lights, we are not afraid of the darkness of the sea and the treacherous nature of the storm. "Yes, life is like a river"The river is wide and shallow, and the river water rises and falls"When we sail on the river, it is impossible to always have calm seas along the way, and storms and stormy waves are inevitable. Although our helm skills are not yet superb, we still have to fight and fight.

Failure after failure should be repeated again and again"Wipe away your tears and don't cry"，"Straight to the clouds and sails into the sea. "Hodges once said"Failure is often the darkness before dawn, followed by the morning glow of success.

When you break through"Darkness", see"Morning glow"；When you have gone through the ups and downs along the way and reached the midpoint of victory, you will suddenly look back, and you will find that your heart has become so strong and your life is so full, isn't this a tempering of setbacks?

Friends, when you face setbacks, don't bow your head, don't be discouraged, hold your head high, hold your chest high, use"Hopefully"with"Courage"Overcome it and forge a rich and fulfilling life!

It's too easy for someone to agree to let him alone agree to a day of wishful thinking.

Yes, at any time can not lower the requirements for yourself, I think this sentence is very correct, do not indulge yourself, make excuses for yourself, be strict with yourself, for a long time, self-discipline will become a habit, a way of life, your personality and wisdom will become more perfect, if you blindly indulge yourself, too low requirements for yourself, then you can only be a result, you will be willing to fall, always do nothing, in the end achieve nothing, spend your life in chaos.

At no time can you let go of your own requirements, this sentence is very reasonable. At any time, we can't relax our requirements for ourselves, because if we lower our requirements for ourselves, we will be able to lower our requirements for life. If you lower your requirements for yourself at this time, it means that you will become less motivated at this time, because you have lowered your requirements for yourself, so you have the idea of breaking the jar and breaking it.

Therefore, if you lower your requirements for yourself, it means that you are less self-motivated, so this situation is not good for your future life. I hope you don't lower your mindset and lower your requirements. This will help you improve your life in the future.

I can also better base myself on society in my future life. Be the best at yourself.

Never indulge yourself and make excuses for yourself. Be strict with yourself, and over time, self-discipline will become a habit, a way of life, and your personality and wisdom will become more perfect.

Can love last forever, in fact, eternal love is in your heart, just as many people often ask whether there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, the long-lasting love is by your side, not that you have a long-lasting love, but that you have created a long-lasting love, isn't it better.

People are different. Maybe he didn't recognize it. That little bit. I always like to take advantage of other people's shortcomings. Assume it fun.

This can only be said to be a problem of a person's moral cultivation, and another point is that a common phenomenon in today's society is that realism has been formed as a cave of gold, which makes some people not blinded!

Why should you care about such people! Because his "merit" is that people don't see him.

Lowering oneself is not to lose oneself, but to achieve transcendence, to be a low-key person, and not to be public, which is the way to be a person. The water flows in the low place, but it nourishes thousands of hectares of fertile land and raises the primates of all living beings, Lao Ziyun: "The good is like water, and the water is good for all things without fighting", the reason why the rivers and seas can be the king of the valleys is because they are in a low position, the mind is full of rivers, obscure, trickling streams, and finally merging into the sea, showing the true character of heroes.

To lower oneself is not to lose one's principles, to have no opinions, to follow the crowd, and to join the world, but to maintain an independence and sobriety, not arrogant or impetuous, and humble and self-reflective. A bottle does not sound, half a bottle swayes, the ripe fruit is adorned with branches, and the golden ears of grain are in sight. When he first got involved in the world, he had the world in mind and looked at the world, often "thin-skinned", unable to put down the "clear and high" shelf, when he met people, he was domineering, his eyes were empty, he was arrogant, he didn't know how to let go, and in the complicated world, he swayed his frivolity and paranoia to his heart's content, and finally he was scarred and resentful.

Ji Xianlin, a master of Chinese studies, has studied Chinese and Western throughout his life, is proficient in Sanskrit, Hindi and other Chinese, works equal to himself, devoted himself to study, lives in simplicity, and has been working hard for decades, leaving many precious research results for the Chinese people. To lower yourself, you need to constantly cultivate yourself, sharpen your body and mind, wash away dust and dirt, be upright, do things well, follow the situation, move according to the situation, and not be stubborn; Lowering oneself is not to be inflammatory, to be sycophant, to respect conduct and ethics, and to put morality first. Lowering oneself is a kind of attitude towards life, people who know how to lower themselves can hide their clumsiness, prepare for the future, and once they have the opportunity, they can realize the gorgeous transformation of life; People who know how to lower themselves have peace of mind and impetuousness; People who know how to lower themselves are far-sighted, but down-to-earth, step by step, and have enough self-confidence in life.

Lowering oneself is a realm, a wisdom, less talk and more action, it is a way of doing things, a hundred reasons, not as convincing as an action. Lowering oneself is a kind of cultivation and a virtue. Frivolous mentality refers to casual words and deeds, not serious and not dignified:

Frivolous afterlife|Flirtatious manners.

To lower oneself is to be humble and humble.

The frivolous attitude is not serious, not dignified, and the behavior is casual.

Because of your self-esteem, you take your self-esteem a little seriously and refuse to condescend.

One is too self-centered, and the other is too high of yourself.

You are praised too much, you may study well and are often praised by teachers, or you may do housework, your sweet mouth is praised by relatives and neighbors, when few people criticize and accuse you, you feel that you are very smart, and you are more willful, there are some good things you don't want to hear, because you think you won't do that if you listen to it, you will still do it in your own way, you have principles, but you don't want your principles to be right or wrong.

I think many people will be like this, such people have certain requirements for themselves, not the kind of people who do nothing, but maybe not very intelligent, and the heart is more sensitive, and even unconsciously inferior, sometimes they feel inferior to others but can't let go of their self-esteem to admit....In fact, you don't have to think very low of yourself, and of course you can't be arrogant to others, when you feel inferior to others, why not try to learn? Plus, everyone has something to offer! It's also good to try to discover your strengths and boast about yourself.

In short, there is no need to feel contradictory, human personality is complex, and this is the only way for you to move forward.

The city is a little deeper, the joy and anger are invisible, killing people without seeing blood is a master, even if you look down on him, don't show it.

Many people have this mentality, think about your state of mind when you are happy in life, and in turn this can maintain a balance, which is my personal experience and I hope you can find more effective solutions.

Be calmer and take things lightly.

It's too difficult to get along with each other in love, there is nothing wrong with falling in love, there is no one right or wrong in love, it's just that who knows and doesn't know how to cherish it! I hope you are just showing your separation, and I wish you all a happy time together! Come on!

is a person who insists on his dreams. Strive to improve yourself, this is a manifestation of the self-motivation of the hand early and a large Sakura.

Know what you want, and then try to get it, nice girl.

Xi Wu is like a strong person, pursues perfectionism, and is very yearning for happiness. Such a person is often lonely and hungry, the injured person will be herself, the basic ideal is very far away, the reality is very skinny, chasing such a girl is stalking, don't let him be lonely, after half a year, you and her are separated for 2 months, and her heart is your god back when it appears.