A female college student advances a bride price to her boyfriend to save her father, whose opinion d

I agree with the opinion of supporting the woman, because the woman's father is seriously ill and cannot borrow money by himself, so he can only ask her boyfriend to borrow money, which is also understandable.

I think the female college student really has no choice, she is also trying to save her father, although she makes others feel that she has sold herself, but that is her biological father, I think my boyfriend should support it, having such a filial girlfriend.

I don't agree to advance the bride price to my boyfriend, and I feel that the current relationship is not as pure as it was in the previous era.

I don't think such a boyfriend is worth entrusting, it's the money of a female graduate student, this kind of man is **, he should call the police immediately and recover his money!

A female graduate student "advanced" 80,000 dowry to her boyfriend to save her father from being blacked, such a boyfriend is not worth entrusting to staring at Yuan, because as soon as you collapse him with Kai Mao in advance, he will disappear without a trace, and for him, money is the most important thing.

Why is the girl too sensible? Because the girl regards the bride price as a natural accessory to marriage, she thinks that marriage must be given as a bride price, and it is the same if you give it early or late, this kind of natural thinking, although it is forced to do it in the current situation, but it is also too naïve, he puts the rational side on how to save his father's life, and lacks thinking, thinking about his boyfriend's reaction and psychological state when he said this. So, in the end, this girl made this unfortunate choice.

No. The girl is also helpless, thinking that the married man always has to give a bride price, so it is okay to advance in advance, after all, after being together for so many years, they are also rushing to get married. I didn't expect the boy to be so ruthless.

In order to save her father, a female college student advances a bride price. This is particularly confusing, and it may be fake, so others think it's very bad.

Not really. She would not have thought of taking this path if she had any other way. Before the two people got married, they advanced the bride price, and they will also be in a weak position in the marriage in the future, but they still choose to do so, which shows that they are really desperate.

Yes, it's really an act of confusion. Although my father was seriously ill and may indeed need money, he could not do it in this way, but he could borrow money for treatment.

If the boyfriend is willing to marry a girl, then he should give it. After all, feelings are more important than money.

It's time to give, the couple has been talking for three years, they have feelings, and they are also rushing to get married. The woman's situation is special, and the boy should help to share the burden within his means. Instead of flying separately when disaster comes.

If the family conditions allow, the man can first give the woman the bride price money to save the emergency. Marriage is related to two families, and it can help as much as possible.

It's very unreasonable, the boyfriend of a female college student should also be a student and don't have any income. If the girl does not go smoothly with the boy to the end, the phenomenon of both people and money will be empty, and the gains outweigh the losses.

According to popular news searches, a 25-year-old graduate student proposed to her boyfriend who had been in love for 5 years because her father had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage and spent more than 700,000 yuan in medical expenses, and wanted to advance 80,000 yuan in advance to save her father.

First of all, the bride price is only a custom, and the law does not specify it in detail. In marriage, the traditional custom of the Chinese nation is that the man should give the bride price, and the woman should accompany the marriage. The amount of the dowry is agreed upon by both parties, and there is no specific standard.

Frankly, it's a desire to fight and a desire to get. In this news, the girl did not discuss it with the man beforehand. Therefore, there is no request, while the other party is obliged to give money.

There is no license or obligation on either side to support each other. The two parties have only been in love for five years, and they have not yet obtained a marriage certificate. Therefore, whether a woman is sick or her relatives are sick, the man is not obliged to support her.

But for the money, the girl must be a** her father, so understandably, the man is under pressure. It's good to think before marriage. On the surface, men may seem ruthless, but in essence, it's good for women.

We have seen a lot of news that after marriage, a woman or a man has a car accident or falls ill, and the other person abandons him. This time, the girl's father is sick, and both the man and the family must have thought carefully, because the woman's father's illness is likely to be a bottomless pit, thus dragging the man's family back into poverty. If this leads to future conflicts or even divorce, it is best to understand before getting married.

Because there are so many couples who are birds in the same forest, there are examples of their own flights when disaster strikes. The girl's solution is wrong. My father's desire to be sick was understandable, but a girl asking for a bride price was like using marriage as a bargaining chip.

When you calculate, the other person is also calculating you. In fact, there are many channels to seek help from relatives and friends, or to the local civil affairs department, or to some social organizations.

I remember a few years ago there was a news story about a girl who wanted to ask for help from society because her family was sick and couldn't raise money. She wanted to find a unit to accept herself. She hopes to pay for her family's medical treatment in advance and sign a long-term employment contract.

Although this practice has its drawbacks, it is clear that exchanging work for money is more acceptable than using marriage as a bargaining chip.

Regarding the harsh reality of marriage, marriage is very intimate。Marriage is the union of two families. Everyone has the psychology of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages.

Men also want to find people who are richer than themselves. For decades, less struggle has been everyone's pursuit. If the woman's family is financially bottomless, most men will run away.

A female college student advances a bride price to her boyfriend to save her father, and her boyfriend thinks that she shouldn't advance the bride price in advance, so she cuts off contact with her girlfriend, which is an act of evading responsibility!

Because the advance bride price means the binding of the two families, and 80,000 yuan may not be able to cure the girl's father, the boyfriend does not want to fall into the bottomless pit.

When men and women get married, the bride price is a threshold, and often the interests cannot be balanced, and the relationship between men and women will end, so from the perspective of interests, men are not wrong, but from the perspective of feelings, men lack wisdom and responsibility.

What should my boyfriend do if my boyfriend is afraid that the money will be given in the end, and the father's medical expenses are still not enough? The long-term pain is better than the short-term pain, and the boyfriend's family is not very rich, and they still have to ask their parents for 80,000 yuan, which is their savings for most of their lives.

Male and female college students are said to have been in love for five years. The woman's father was very sick, and now the family can't afford to continue to **, so she wants to give her boyfriend a **bride price of 80,000 yuan, but she was blacklisted by her boyfriend. The girl's father reportedly suffered from a cerebral hemorrhage.

According to reports, the lady's family spent nearly one million yuan in six months to treat the disease, but it has not been cured, and it is estimated that the family has no financial income. As a result, women are forced to pay a bride price in advance to men. This thing is really surprising, but there is no need to criticize the boy for being rude or anything.

After all, the boys were still in school at this time, and it was impossible to directly come up with 80,000 yuan. Paying at home is not necessary.

So from a normal point of view, it's hard to assess. Because you can't criticize boys and girls, the only thing left is to pity the girls, or try to raise the crowd. For boys, eighty thousand is not a small concept.

Also, it is a school student. Anyone with a brain would have thought about it calmly, but in the end the boy decided to give up. Taking a step back, is this girl going to expose this?

Imagine occupying the highest moral point or wanting to ruin that boy. If it's the former, it's okay, if it's the latter, it's a bit vicious. I've heard of advance payments, wages, compensation, and interest, but I've never heard of bride price advances.

Will it be respected like a contract?

The objectification of love and marital relationships may be the first reason why boys are blocked. It is not known whether there is a debt relationship between the boy and the girl, and whether there is a guarantee that the boy will marry the girl in the future, so how can we be sure that the boy is willing to voluntarily pay this money? Even if we are really together in the future, is this early bride price free?

Defining an uncertain relationship is the second reason boys don't like it. Legally, a bride price is often understood as a gift with strings attached. Of course, the condition is to get married, and as long as it is married, the bride price is valid.

If there is no marriage, then the essence of marriage does not exist, and the whole gift naturally does not exist. Now, for the girl, even if she breaks her promise, the boy will not get the money back.

The female college student advanced the bride price to save her father, and her father couldn't save it with 80,000 yuan, but this is a charcoal in the snow, and insisting on it for a while is also a way to do nothing.

It's not, but you can not let your father's ** be stopped, and the behavior of the female college student is very bad.

My father may not be able to save 80,000 yuan, but this is the love of female college students for their father, and there are many people in society whose illnesses cannot be cured with money, but the family still has hope and overdrafts their family expenses to help them.

Maybe 80,000 fathers can't be successfully treated, but it can be regarded as an effort to save their father, after all, they can't watch their father being tortured and helpless.

An IOU must be written. Customarily, although the bride price is regarded as the money given by the man to the woman's family free of charge, this kind of advance is different, and an IOU can be written to avoid accidents.

Yes. Brothers have to settle accounts, not to mention that they are just boyfriend and girlfriend. wrote an IOU, at least my boyfriend was protected.

I think it's okay to write an IOU, after all, it's just a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, not married, and not related by blood, so it's actually fair to write an IOU.

To be honest, if I were this boy, I might also block this girl, because I seemed to see a demon brother, although I didn't help the younger brother, but obviously, if I marry this daughter-in-law back, whatever happens to their family in the future, I will go to the top, I think the current society is already very bitter, I feel that my life is actually not very mixed, I don't want to carry another family on my back, so I will also choose to block and give up this relationship.

First of all, is 80,000 yuan a lot, yes, 80,000 yuan is not much, right, there may be many girls who will say, is the relationship between the two of us not as good as the 80,000 yuan, 80,000 yuan is not much, it is indeed yes, but why do you have to ask your boyfriend for even 80,000 yuan, and what do you say about the bride price in advance, what does this mean, are you really exhausted or what, is the house sold, are the relatives and friends at home borrowed it again, Or is your family so desperate that you have to borrow money to see a doctor?

Obviously, I believe that there is not, if your family does not even have the ability to borrow 80,000 yuan from relatives and friends, then I really don't know how your family has been mixed up all these years, and your own house has not been sold, but you asked me for 80,000 yuan to see your father for a doctor, so is it not that your father will continue to see a doctor and take medicine, but if you want to use money, do you have to say that you have to advance the bride price in advance?

Yes, 80,000 yuan is not much, but don't you think it's funny to do this kind of thing yourself, your own family doesn't want to touch the roots of your own family, and you want to use money to find my head, yes I like you, but I don't like you like this, so I refuse this kind of transaction.

And I married you, does it mean that I will have to worry about everything in your family in the future, am I working for your family every day, I don't want my life to be too hard, so I choose not to have such love.

I think this boyfriend was very selfish and also very petty and didn't save the girl's father's life.

Don't want such a boyfriend, this kind of person can only share the joys, not the sorrows, and don't lend a helping hand to you when you are in trouble, which shows that this man doesn't love you, I think it's best to break up.

I support the man, this is because this girl married this boy, not because of the relationship between the two of them, but for the bride price, to save his father.

Although I understand the boy, I despise the actions of such a boy, because such a boy is not responsible, and it can also be seen from this incident that his feelings for this girl are not sincere.

I think this kind of thing actually reflects that this boy doesn't love this girl at all, and in the face of difficulties, you can see how irresponsible this boy is.