23 year old me should not get a divorce

You get married so that your future life can be happier than being single, not to show your parents. You're still too young to have a lot of ideas before you get married, and it's understandable that this is the case. If you don't feel right now, you can get a divorce and choose again.

The sooner the better, lest you spend your whole life in the yoke of unhappiness. We live in a modern society, if you are bound by backward traditional ideas, then you can only be a victim of the old era, if you would rather live like this for the rest of your life, others will not be able to save your happiness.

Your parents also want to see you be happy in your marriage for a lifetime, if they really see the essence, understand your situation clearly, and then think about your future happiness, they will accept it, the long pain is better than the short pain, they will not not understand. I hope you can choose the most appropriate way to communicate with your parents. If you think there is still hope for him, you can give him a deadline to improve; If you feel that your future is hopeless, make the choice of divorce as soon as possible.

In order to have a better future, you must make decisive decisions!

If you want to leave, you can leave.

It's more troublesome when it's late.

It is better to think about things for a lifetime, discuss them with your parents and friends, and listen to the opinions of others.

You can't tolerate your husband's shortcomings, how can there be no bumps between husband and wife, you have to tolerate each other.

Since you feel pain, then solve it If you think it's useless to talk or something, then leave Otherwise, the child will be in trouble when he comes out...

In fact, I support your divorce and make it clear to your parents. Every parent wants their children to be happy, right? I'm only a year old behind you, and I'm not married yet, so why can't you start a new life of your own?

Well, it's very early to get married, make it clear to your family, you will be very painful to follow this again!

You're still so young, if you want to leave, leave quickly, and there's still time to start over.

I wish you happiness and success in your future life.

There has to be a reason for this, why do you find a lot of problems, that people live together to understand each other, maybe you and he don't know each other well You didn't say the reason, I don't have a good evaluation, if you want to talk to someone, you can add me.

Let's go! It's painful to be at odds with yourself! Happiness in your own hands!

It is better to be cautious about the major events of a lifetime.

In fact, your question is very simple, because you already know that your parents are angry, so you don't gamble on it, after all, marriage is a lifelong event.

In fact, it can be seen from your words that you have not yet come out of your last relationship.

Then even if you find a new girlfriend now, don't rush to get married, because it takes a long time to see through a person, a year or two is not too much, your last girlfriend is a good example, after talking for three years, she finally left you, you should be glad for it, because if she marries you and leaves you, you will lose more. So, while you're still young, keep your eyes peeled and find a lover who can be with you for the rest of your life.

And getting married at the age of 23 is really too early to get married at the age of 23, and by the way, I also respond to the national policy of giving birth later and having children later.

I wish you happiness.

The conditions are good. There is a car, a house, and a deposit. Then there should be no rush. Only 23 years old?. Why did your parents let you get married so early? Career is the most important thing.

23 years old is too young! It's not too late to get married after finding a girlfriend to get along with for 2-3. Marriage is not the same as happiness! Marriage is unknown?!

See what you want? You can't be discouraged by a momentary setback, how old are you? There's still a long way to go!

You can get married, but at the age of 23, it is an early marriage. Marriage leave is only 3 days.

Really, you have to ask someone to get married???

Legal analysis: Children who have reached the age of 18 are adults and are responsible for their capacity. Parents have no guardianship or maintenance obligations over them.

At this time, the parents are divorced, and the children can choose which one to live with at will, and of course, they can also live on their own. Only minors, when their parents divorce, need to agree on the ownership of child custody.

Legal basis]: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus reached on matters such as child support, property, and the handling of debts and debts.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests to divorce or marry, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

I should have been seven or eight years old at that time, it was a hot summer vacation, and I was so happy that you bought me a bicycle. But what you told me next made me hit rock bottom, and I had to learn how to ride a bike to let me in, and then you closed the door and left me alone, and the sun was roasting me like fire, and there was not a drop of water. I fell down many times, people and cars, and I felt like I was dying, really dying!

But I survived, because I hated you, I hated you, and I found out that you were the cruelest person in the world, and I learned to ride a bike.

You left me when I needed you the most, and when I came back I accepted you, but you gave me a slap in the short time I got home, and I was thinking I wouldn't forgive you.

In junior high school, I have always been very introverted, I have made e fun of black foreign company employees and follow me to the second u, I go hungry, I go and I am and I am friends, you are very worried about me, every teacher's **, you have my situation in your hands, I have been telling me not to study, you try your best to persuade me, I saw you crying, I always thought I hated you, I would be very modified if you shed tears, but it was the opposite.

You persuaded me well, understood the situation, and what I got in exchange was a notice of transfer. So I sank into another junior high school and became a good student and a good child in the eyes of the teacher, but in fact I was a bad student. I learned to fight, smoke, drink, surf the Internet, and eventually became the person who asked my parents the most.

I saw you sitting on the ground crying, so sad and helpless, I hid myself and didn't want you to see me weak, it turned out that I cared about you so much, but I didn't want to face you.

Now, I left you to study at a school far away from home, and your worries, the eyes in which you were worried about me outside the car, the moment the car started, I saw that the wrinkles in the corners of your eyes had increased again, and they were not as smooth as before. Silver-white dots appeared in the middle of the jet-black hair. What did you do to age so much?

Waiting with an umbrella outside the school when it rains heavily, coming back when you're sick, panicking when you're nervous, it's all for me.

I never found you so beautiful, so beautiful that it touched my heartstrings. Mother, I have never found out that you are so beautiful, it has always been that I am narrow-minded, I don't care about you, I don't pay attention to you - it turns out that you are beautiful!

One is that there is still nostalgia for the ex, and the other is not suitable.

I think it was a failed marriage that left him with the illusion that the marriage relationship was unreliable, so he was not so active in finding a girlfriend.

A man who is 30 years old and has been divorced once, and still calls him a boy? Maybe that's why.

Hello A relationship is always full of arguments and contradictions, and it is inevitable that people will feel exhausted and want to leave the relationship.

You say "you've been married for two years, and you're always arguing", and your "temper is rather short-tempered, and the method is not right".

Have you tried to improve these problems?

For example, learn some courses on how to get along in intimate relationships, or related books, to change the way you get along, improve your communication skills, and have a better way of getting along with your lover.

Or you can find out your own problems and improve them through psychological counseling, with the assistance of a psychological counselor.

No matter what, you haven't divorced yet.

If you can make a big change, he should perceive and get to know you again, but you have a new beginning.

Of course, how about a relationship is the result of two people being mutual, I think your other half will definitely have some bad things, but you can only change yourself, not the other party.

If you try hard and change, the other person is still unwilling to continue to be with you, or the other person is unwilling to change, and you still keep arguing.

Then it can only be "let go is a kind of love", so that each other can find happiness again.

Whether or not to get a divorce is a trade-off, and age is not the most important thing. Many people come to me in a rage and say that they want a divorce, but it often turns out to be just thunder and rain. Some people say that they want to redeem each other and do not want to divorce, but when it comes to removing the complaints about the other half, they are disappointed in this marriage.

If you ask him why he doesn't get a divorce, in a word - it's all for the sake of the children. No one has ever said that it is for themselves or for a better life, and few people say that it is because they still love each other.

Therefore, in the handling of emotional problems, everyone always says insincere things and does things that are contrary to the true thoughts in their hearts. Not everyone really wants a divorce, and not everyone is willing to make amends. Marriage, like the human body, can be "sick."

Since you are sick, you need to see a doctor in time to diagnose and treat the symptoms. The same is true for love.

A relationship has come to a fork in the road, whether it is to separate or choose to continue to walk side by side. First of all, it is necessary to see the truest thoughts in one's heart through all kinds of self-deceptive excuses. In any case, you have to understand that if you don't control your emotions and don't know what you want, you won't solve anything.

In my opinion, there can be accusations and complaints in a relationship, but there is no point in it because it does not make any positive changes in your life. If both of you are in a relationship, it's not that you can't leave if you don't want to divorce. Once the parents have a quarrel, the most innocent person is affected.

Many couples whose relationship has actually broken down are trying to give their children a complete family, and they are unwilling to let the family be broken, so they will choose to constantly tolerate, constantly suppress themselves, and distort themselves. On the surface, children seem to be in a family with intact parents.

But in their eyes, when they grow up and see their parents getting along like this, then he will think: It turns out that the family is this mode of mutual indifference and "evil". In this way, the influence you have on the child is very far-reaching, because the child is already ingrained, or the mind has already determined the cognition, this is called "family".

No. You're actually quite old, and if you have children, do you have to think about them more or less? He's going to be miserable.

Should. Many people are not married at the age of 33, and you still have a choice after the divorce, treat your marriage carefully, and manage the next marriage well.

I don't think it should be, you should already have a child at the age of 33, right? There are old and young, there is a wife at home, and the whole family is there, so why do you want to divorce?

Should be divorced. Age is not an issue, don't settle for your life just because you're older, because you still have a long life left.

Only those who want to get married, there is no age when they should get married, don't be pressured, and then think about getting married when you meet the right person, and get married again if you want to.

I think you need to weigh all aspects of the situation to think about it, and if you think that this marriage has caused you only pain, then it is better to divorce.

Well, I don't think you're too old at your age, and if you feel like your life is too much to survive, then you should get a divorce.

Should. Regardless of age, women should be brave enough to pursue what they want. If you are unhappy, there is really no need to force yourself.

I don't think you should get divorced, because at this age you should be able to know the importance of family, and you should stick to your marriage at this time.

If you want, then get a divorce. If you're not happy, then why do you have to live like that?

The composition of a family can only be maintained through tolerance and understanding on both sides, and if your husband treats you as you say, it means that he has not fulfilled his responsibilities as a man, a husband, and a father, and you divorce on this ground, which proves that you are also a very irresponsible attitude towards the family, your children, and the elderly on both sides. Divorce and remarriage or remarriage are not a big deal, but you must know where your responsibilities lie.

Relatively speaking, a divorced woman or man will have some obstacles when choosing again, because the thoughts of Chinese people have the same thoughts, and I believe you will have them.

So you should know the answer, right?