What should I do as a sister 30

Confused! It's confusing when you look at it! It's your sister's fault!

Hehe, brother-in-law talks about being able to talk about it, just call him like a man, go and support his daughter-in-law by himself, it is estimated that a man who can divorce may not have a big surname! Or they're going to have a breakdown, ignore them, and they'll be left to fend for themselves! After all, they're all adults, and it's time to take responsibility for their actions!

You're a sister, so it's still easy to talk in front of your brother-in-law! Then again, since your parents chose to accept it, there is not much that your will can change! Don't talk about children's affairs, how can the affairs of the next generation be involved in the previous generation.

Talk to your sister directly.

Your parents should urge your brother-in-law to go out to work.

Say a few words about your brother-in-law, sassy him, see what he does, oh yes, don't be your sister's face, be your parents' face.

Your sister wants such a man. Isn't your sister afraid that there will be a junior in the future? Now that's it, when are your parents going to be heads?

It's better to let them go. Otherwise, the children will not be gone after they are born, and your parents will have to take care of them until they die. They'll think it's good and won't want to work.

This thing is really difficult for you to do, you are afraid that it will affect the family relationship, I suggest that you wait for your sister to give birth before talking about this matter with your brother-in-law, this matter is mainly in your brother-in-law. You say it right now and it might make the relationship stiff.

You try to talk to your sister tactfully, and secondly, you can help your parents do some housework in front of your sister, say something that hurts your parents, and see if your sister is touched.

This is a no-no! Your sister must be cute, however, you have to keep a clear head.

Of course, it doesn't matter if it's not a brother or sister. Explain that there is still a chance!

1, which proves that he is not disgusted with the situation that his brother falls in love with his sister in this way.

2. When you give an example, I can guarantee that she has put it on herself. Otherwise it is impossible to say a lot of things that you don't understand! Because many of them are her inner feelings, words that she wants to express but dare not express.

3. She asked you to come back and talk about it, instead of rejecting you outright. If a woman wants to reject you and you can't see her for a while, it's the best time.

4, she said that she is afraid of falling in love, and she needs to get your commitment, a promise about how to love and cherish her in the future! Not that she doesn't want to be in love!

My sister doesn't want to study recently, first of all, we have to understand the reason why my sister doesn't want to study, what has affected him, if my sister has something unhappy recently, I can act as a confidant big sister, let my sister tell myself, and then enlighten my sister about my sister's troubles, my sister has no worries, maybe my sister will be willing to study hard, if my sister is because she has encountered problems in learning, then you can find a way to help your sister solve it. <>

We can also tell my sister the importance of learning, because they are relatively young and lack knowledge in this area, we can tell him the advantages of learning well, and we can also take their own personal experiences to give them examples, so that we can change some of their minds and make them willing to continue to study hard. Most students will be a little rebellious in adolescence, after all, they also came from this age, so we can use our own personal experience to tell my sister not to let him go astray. <>

We can give my sister an example, use the examples around us who have not studied well, and see what they are doing now, so that we can make my sister realize the importance of learning, learning can change her destiny, if you don't study hard, you can only live a very difficult life like those people. We can take my sister out to relax and relax properly, relieve his recent pressure, or tell my sister to let him tell him anything he can tell him, as a sister, he will definitely help him solve his troubles and difficulties, and will always stand behind him, support him, help him, and become the person he can rely on. In this way, my sister will be willing to open up with you about the situation he tells him, and then I can enlighten my sister according to my sister's situation, and help him re-establish the idea of Lingqiao who is willing to learn, so that my sister can continue to study hard.

You can tell your sister that it is wrong for you to do this, because this state chaos is not conducive to your physical and mental health, nor is it conducive to improving your academic performance, and it will also affect your future, so I hope that you can get rid of this bad problem, study hard, create a better future for yourself, and prove your strength with actions.

A Zheng shouted that he must reason with your sister, and sometimes he has to let his sister shout stupid to understand the importance of learning, let his sister understand the meaning of learning, and slowly arouse the interest of his sister.

Be sure to explain the benefits of learning to her, if you don't study well, there will be no big stool in the future, so that he will listen, and he will learn for the sake of his own liquid.

Hello, being a sister does feel aggrieved, especially an introverted sister who will be wronged a little more.

The introverted type is not good at indicating that this sister's personality is more sentimental. Introverted, not good at talking. And outgoing and lively girls generally say anything! If there is anything that will not be suppressed in the heart, it will be easily released, and you will not feel wronged!

Only introverted girls are more depressed, and it is difficult to find a breakthrough to release, so they will often feel aggrieved! Girls will often feel wronged, it may be that the relatives and friends around the girl do not understand the girl, often misunderstand the girl and embarrass the girl, the girl will feel greatly wronged, and the heart is very sad.

It may also be that the girl is glass-hearted, and some words that others say unintentionally will invisibly hurt the girl's fragile heart, and she will feel that she is wronged, and it is not entirely like this, if the sister or brother is very good, then the sister will not be wronged. It is also important to have a family education. Let's take a look at how to guide and educate such a family.

Many families have more than two children, especially the birth of a small one, at this time we have to learn how to deal with the relationship between the two babies. In life, you should treat both children equally. Don't let older children feel biased towards the smaller ones, or let the younger ones feel aggrieved.

Have time to take them out together. Nurture the affection between them. Treat the baby equally, so that the boss has a sense of security and responsibility to take care of the little one, and the little Fu Pei will also respect the boss and dare not mess around.

If the parents always protect the little ones, it will cause the big ones to hate the small ones, and they will be disgusted with the eccentricity of the parents, and the little ones will become fearless and rebellious. Buying things must be double, parents must not have her toys when she grows up, you must think about Dabao when you buy new things for Erbao, even if you buy something different, you must buy a new thing. The food and clothing are all the same, and you can't be eccentric.

Parents should guide correctly, parents are the best teachers for children, and on this issue, parents need to use their position in the minds of their children to play a positive guiding role, and never take sides.

So it's not a completely absolute situation.

Good luck. <>

Yes. But I personally think that as long as it's a girl, she will show grievances.

I have a cousin who is a reconstituted family. One night at about eleven o'clock, she suddenly sent me a ** chat, crying silently. I've heard her talk about her childhood before, she has been living in school like an exile since she was a child, and rarely goes home.

Everyone thinks she has a very good personality, loves to laugh and is generous and sensible, but how many grievances and sadness have she experienced to bury all her emotions in her heart and turn her smile into a mask!

She had a conflict with her family, and the family was very stubborn. When I heard this, I encouraged, "Then run away from home!" Come to me, then rent me to support you. I also told her a lot of glorious deeds about my running away from home, which succeeded in making her laugh.

Sister, I don't know what kind of dark night you are in, crying silently, silently digesting all your emotions: I don't know how you watched other children and parents go home, but you silently squatted at the school gate and waited for the teacher to close: I don't know how you became mature and generous, laughing and sensible when you were alone.

I'd rather see you like everyone else as a little princess who will lose her temper and make awkward mistakes, cry when no one coaxes you, than see you suppress all your thoughts in your heart and turn into Sun Zhao's scars on your arms.

I always envy your maturity and sensibility, but I never know that your maturity is the accumulation of so many grievances.

In order not to make children feel wronged, parents should do the following

1.Parents treat their children fairly. In a family with multiple children, if parents want to nurture affection between their children, they must first treat each child fairly.

The reason why the relationship between children becomes bad is because the parents are too biased.

2. Parents create more opportunities for their children to be together.

3. Play with your children. In fact, parents can also bring more than one child to play in their lives. Parents choose a place where there are a lot of interesting things to do and let the children explore on their own.

Two children definitely need to help each other when they are exploring, and in the process of helping each other, they will discover the importance of each other, and the relationship will naturally become very good, and the relationship will be built as a result.

In addition, parents need to pay attention to the following 2 points:

1. Pay attention to children's quarrels. In fact, the most important thing for parents to pay attention to is the quarrel of their children. After two children have been together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be disagreements and quarrels due to some different opinions, and parents need to pay more attention to the quarrels between the two children at this time.

Parents need to understand the reasons for their children's quarrels, so that they can make better and fair judgments and avoid wronging their children.

2. Pay attention to the way to deal with it. After parents find the reason, they also need to pay attention to the way to deal with this matter, because many parents feel that it is actually a very normal thing for children to quarrel, and it is okay for children to solve it by themselves, and they don't have to worry about it at all.

Different people have different personalities, and the same thing has different results in the eyes of different people. Therefore, sometimes I really feel very aggrieved as a sister. ......Specifically, when the younger sister feels that she is being slighted, has suffered a loss in certain things, and is dissatisfied with some words and actions of her older siblings, the younger sister will feel very aggrieved.

1. When the younger sister feels that she is being despised by her older siblings, she will feel aggrieved. The first thing that makes my sister feel wronged is when she feels despised by her brother as a returning sister. ......The younger sister will feel that she should be respected from her older siblings, and if she does not receive respect, but feels that her older siblings despise her, she will feel very aggrieved.

And the older brother and sister may not know the sister's feelings at this time. 2, if my sister suffers a loss because of something, she will feel very wronged. For families with many children, it is impossible for siblings to be completely consistent in everything, and there will always be some conflicts.

When my sister suffers a loss in something, she will feel hurt and feel very wronged. ......This is often the case in families with many children. Sometimes problems can be effectively resolved.

But sometimes things can get complicated, and the relationship between siblings can be affected because of it. 3, when some words and deeds of older brothers and sisters make younger sister Fan Sui feel dissatisfied, the younger sister will feel aggrieved. For the younger sister, the words and deeds of the older siblings will have a great impact on them.

If the younger sister thinks that some of the words and deeds of the older siblings are inappropriate and feels dissatisfied, she will feel hurt and feel aggrieved. ......This happens equally often between siblings. If not handled properly, it can affect the relationship between siblings.

Therefore, in a family with many children, older siblings should pay attention to their words and deeds and take good care of their younger sisters, so that the relationship between siblings can be harmonious and harmonious.