Why are we so unhappy?

I used to be too, but I survived, I became a sperm, this is my evaluation of myself, I used to be similar to you, I didn't have any friends, no matter what I did, I did it myself, and no one helped me, and even now I'm alone in the field, no relatives, no e-friends, nothing, but I can't say happy, but I'm not pessimistic, how to say it, brother, the key is up to you, just think what you said Friends are all fake, we are not your friends, can you listen to what you say This society is inherently cruel I don't know if you have a job to do something Otherwise, you'll be detached from society, and that's going to be dangerous, and I'm saying, here you're getting encouragement, and there's no one here who will pity anyone, and it's up to you to do it, and it's up to you to take a shower, get a haircut, and sleep after that, and say to the mirror every day, Come again, and let the country take care of any difficulties, Master, I'm afraid of you, I hope you can get through the country, and you can really come over, and after coming over, you will find that you have a lot of changes, and it's not a scrap metal, but a steel plate, a steel plate that has been tempered for thousands of years Think about it

Dear landlord, I'm glad about your question To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy. If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you?

Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world. The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you bless him silently, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him.

Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy. It's right to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person If my own is inaccurate, please forgive me!

Trouble, thanks!

True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is the ...... to have everythingPlease cherish the time, love well True love is a kind of care and care from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

Feel it with your heart Done, I hope it will be helpful to your question, if you are satisfied o( o...Ha ha.

Happy or unhappy, just one mind... What kind of mentality treats what mood, there is nothing happy or unhappy. It's to say more... The key is in yourself, how you look at it.

If two people have the same heart and soul with each other, then if you are not happy, will the other person be happy? Being happy is not only for yourself, but also for each other.

Although your current situation is inseparable from your parents, teachers, and classmates, it also has a lot to do with yourself. In fact, many times we should not always be obsessed with what others think of us, how to live our own life is the most important. But maybe it's because your parents don't think well of you, so you're very depressed right now.

Parents are the closest people to us in this world, so you can take the initiative to talk to them and say that the pressure they usually give you is too much, and even make you a little breathless. After your parents hear you say that, they won't put too much pressure on you.

I saw a blogger on Weibo saying something very interesting, he said that whenever he was unhappy, he would go to hospitals around the country to have a look. Because the people in the hospital are going through life and death, our lives are much happier than the pain of their illness and the loss of their loved ones. When you think of this, doesn't your heart feel a lot better?

In fact, this is also a very good way to dispel our bad feelings, you can try it.

If you want to live happily, you have to be calm. Don't always compare yourself to others, as you will feel tired and unhappy. If you don't compare a little less, you can live better.

Everyone has their own shortcomings, and what you see in someone else's glamour may not be surprising to them. And you must have a lot of shining points on your body, worthy of their envy. Thinking about it this way, aren't you so depressed?

In this case, you have to find the reason from yourself, why all people treat you like this, whether you have done something bad in some aspects and caused others to be disgusted. Find the problem and fix the shortcomings. At the same time, you should also adjust your mentality, be optimistic, and give yourself more confidence to believe that you can become better.

In fact, I think that if there is a problem in one aspect, it may be due to others, who are too harsh on us, or misunderstand us. But if many people think you have a problem, we should consider our own reasons. We should know why others accuse and criticize us, find the reason from their accusations and criticisms, and then correct ourselves, so that our little faults will become less and less, and others will naturally not exclude us.

I think you have to look at yourself first, whether it's because you've encountered something unhappy recently, make yourself very unhappy, if so, you can try to do something you like, don't compromise when you encounter anything, people don't live in this world just to live happily, let yourself relax.

Find something fun to do. Being unhappy is not good for yourself, calm down and think about it. You can chat with good friends, play games, listen, and sleep. Life is your own, you don't love yourself, who else will be more active than you.

First of all, you have to adjust your mentality, the parents' criticism is to make you better, and the teacher's criticism is also to make you grow. The exclusion between classmates, you have to think carefully about whether you are not good enough at some things. What you have to do now is to adjust your mentality first, then find the root of your mistakes, adjust slowly, and believe that teachers and classmates as well as your parents will understand and you will accept you.

It is recommended that you release and relax yourself, you must be in a state of anxiety recently, at this time you can choose to relax yourself, don't put too much pressure on yourself, you can talk to friends or you can choose to go out to travel, go to beautiful attractions around the country to see, maybe suddenly open up, keep the clouds open and see the moon.

Parental duties, teacher criticism, classmates ostracism, shows that you are a simple loser, no, it may be just some small problems, and then you magnify them. Parental duties, just ask them if you don't do well, and then try your best to do it. When the teacher criticizes, he studies hard and gets his grades up.

Classmates are excluded, you can communicate with them if you have a problem, or they are not doing well, and then correct it. Slowly get better and better, and everyone will accept you.

Adjust your mentality and reflect on yourself, why people around you criticize you and give you advice, don't be too lazy and selfish in life, you have to be self-motivated in your studies, and don't get along too coldly with your classmates. It's good to simply correct it, and many people will like you to become good, and find out your mistakes and reasons from their criticism.