When did you feel that your boyfriend was not as good to you as you imagined?

My instinct keeps telling me: It's not that he doesn't know how to care about you, it's not that he can't be romantic, it's not that he can't be considerate, as if he just doesn't like you! Therefore, he never asks you what you did today, he doesn't care if you are happy or unhappy today, when he doesn't reply to the message and doesn't answer you, he will not consider your feelings at all, and finally you have to coax him back, he will agree to your things, forget it.

I just thought he was too good.

In the past, you had to go shopping with me, but now you can't pull it! In the past, I would run to buy cold medicine in the middle of the night and bring me a cup of boiling water, but now I am asked to go by myself. Before, I didn't want to eat, he would worry about coaxing me and feeding me to my mouth!

Now I directly say whether I like to eat or not. In the past, he used to tell me humorous jokes and sometimes surprise me, but now he tells nonsense every day with fright. I felt that he didn't love me as well and as much as I thought he would be.

I went to the hospital to get vaccinated, sat on the sidelines, and only knew how to play with my mobile phone, I said that you came here to play with your hands, and he said, "What, I don't look at you, you can't get an injection?" "When; And when I said that my stomach hurt and I wanted to sit down and rest for a while, he was silent, saying that I thought it was time to go to study now; I said that if you force me again, I will jump, and he said with a disdainful expression, "You go!" "When; I wanted to talk to him, and he said that I was talking nonsense and just asked me if I really didn't give him a chance; I decided not to forgive him, but he said why, the prodigal son turned back when the money was not changed.

I realized that he wasn't as good as I thought he was.

It's like I'm myself now, I have a cold and a headache and I'm still hesitating to talk to him, I'm afraid that I'm hypocritical, don't say it, I want to see his care, I like a person, I want to tell him everything, I don't want to buy anything for myself, but I'm willing to buy it for him, I want to tell him when I'm happy, I want to tell him if I'm unhappy, I want to know what he's doing when I have time, his attitude determines the state of my day, and he? Never cared about everything about me, a little hypocritical, just say I'm naïve, do! Don't you always want to tell your partner when you like it?

Maybe he just doesn't like me that much.

I've known each other for a year.,At this time last year.,We met.,And now we're in conflict for nearly 2 months without contact.,Fate is always wonderful.,Start when it starts.,And then go back to the original point to end.。 He is very energetic, very cute, and laughs so gently, I didn't understand why you had so many love words at the beginning, but then there were so few, and later I realized that the more serious the feelings, the more ashamed you will be to express them, afraid of losing, the straight man of steel is right, you tell me, take your time. At that moment, I felt that our hearts were so close.

After the last conflict, I've actually coaxed him back in a particularly interesting way...Well, now, a month later, because of some of my words, he disappeared without replying to messages and ignoring people, and it's been a week...This time, I didn't take the initiative to coax him, I didn't ask him why. Because I really felt so tired, and I was really unhappy to say what I thought at the time, why should I be wronged by myself? For a week without contact, I don't think about you, I don't guess your mood, I don't have to carefully find a topic, and I don't have to worry about that sentence making you unhappy again.

Last time, I asked you, is ignoring people like this forcing the other party to break up? How can you say, if you don't tell the other party, how will she know....What do you think I'm thinking, do you think he's going to break up with me? So, is it normal for you to be like this?

I don't understand, but what I understand more and more is: you are not afraid of losing me, I am sure that I will not leave you easily, and you don't like me enough.

I feel like the incumbent of my predecessor should be especially grateful to me because I raised him so well!

He is not intimate, and before buying gifts, he says all kinds of things, hey, what do you like? I'll send you! All kinds of previews for you, in the end there is actually nothing, I taught him, girls don't like this, girls like to pay silently, and then he gradually became the moment he bought a gift and sent it to you to tell you.

He is not gentle, he used to walk together, I like to hold his hand, he will push away, I teach him, girls don't like this, girls like to hug in love, and then he gradually learned to be cute and nonsensical.

He's not careful, he will make mistakes, and after making a mistake, he'll be like no one, I teach him, girls don't like this, girls like boys to bow their heads, even if it's a girl's fault, boys occasionally have to give girls a step down, and then he gradually became a mistake, and he didn't make a sound at the moment and listened silently and apologized when he calmed down.

What's the experience of having such a good boyfriend?

You'll have to ask his current incumbent.

But in the end, I want to say that I taught him a lot, and I didn't teach him how to be so beautiful, I always asked others and ignored my own requirements, and as a result, I missed out. Really.

This situation can be recalled, but it was already clear at the time!

It should be accepted that such a process, the relationship cannot always remain in the state of first loveReturning to the flat, and then two people find a way to get along with each other, this is an inevitable process, and any couple has to go through.

This is a very normal phenomenon, two people have been together for a long time, and they are definitely not as careful as they were at the beginning. As the intimacy of two people increases, they will also let go of a lot of worries about each other. This has caused many people to be less attentive than before.

But emotionally speaking, it should prove that you are more stable.

First of all, I want to say that falling in love is a process, and it is dynamic, so you will use the word "before", then I can understand that your mentality can be said to be the same, and you think that your boyfriend will be as obedient to me as he just patted me. Your idea is naïve, because from a boyfriend's point of view, he will definitely not always maintain that kind of spoiled mentality, and there will be a period of fatigue, that is, the so-called time when you are not worried enough.

And if you are sensitive to your boyfriend's exhaustion and feel a little emotional about it, then I think this is even more immature. At this time, my suggestion is that you have to change your mentality, your boyfriend has such a period of fatigue, then it is time to change me to awaken his enthusiasm, because love will eventually be dull, not always vigorous, so if you change such a mentality, I think, your boyfriend will also feel, will slowly recover, from the hot love period to the flat period, this is not the dynamic belonging of love?

Be yourself, this is the best way to keep a man and awaken your love, the worst thing is that without this relationship, you will also have the capital to start again, and you may meet better people.

I hope you can understand this truth and wish you happiness.

Ask questions what to do.

In this tacit understanding, both sides are constantly thinking, constantly adjusting themselves, and reaching a new balance. Empathy is very important, and if you are able to put yourself in the shoes of the other person in everything you do, and feel how you are about to feel about what you are about to do, many things and words may not happen. If you can put yourself in the other person's shoes and experience the feelings after the incident, then I think you will be more understanding and less blameless.

It's really tiring, I'll admit. You have a lot more restraints, and you can't release your nature. But what I'm trying to say is, is your partner doing this for you as well?

If you have to ask me, why do I have to live so tired, why can't I be myself? All I can say is that in this society, no one can be themselves. For this relationship, if you want the love you imagined, then you should also be prepared to give the same amount.

Everything is in a state of conservation in some sense.

People have joys, sorrows, and sorrows, but it is impossible for me to just be happy and not to be angry, I think there has never been such a person since ancient times. Similarly, a relationship has its ups and downs. What we can do is to make the joy a little more, the process of "rising" a little longer, and the process of "falling" a little shorter.

It takes great wisdom to sustain the upward trend, but not to limit it.

Every enviable fairy couple has their own hardships behind them. I didn't understand before, I only knew envy. Now I understand, envy and admiration at the same time. I admire their courage, perseverance, and wisdom in being able to walk hand in hand to the end.

Some of the truth is cold, I know. But we are human beings, and the initiative is actually ours, in this cold world, how to choose to live a warm life, testing the wisdom of both of us. And this is bound to be a process full of hardships and painstaking efforts.

Whether they can support each other and use the least emotional consumption to get to the end requires the efforts of both parties.

Every relationship can't be "just as it first seems".

Don't go for permanent freshness. I can imagine what it was like when you were in love. But every couple of lovers will experience a wonderful after-peace.

It's nothing at all. You also have to learn to be mature. It's not a relationship issue, and you don't have to worry about it.

Because there are many ways to love, and you have been experiencing it for almost three years, God can't make it fresh every day.

As long as you are peaceful and excessive, change the way you love each other a little. From being together every day to texting that cares about each other; From everyday excitement to occasional surprises. From being tired of being together all day long and not knowing what to do, to going on regular dates.

Maybe the effect will be better You will slowly move towards a mature relationship, after all, both of you are growing up.

So don't be nostalgic about how it used to be, I'm sure you'll do better in the future. His coldness to you is only temporary. If he wants to stop, don't drag him to run away without being sensible. Be understanding the person and let him know that you understand him.

Also, don't let your whole world be left with him Women only follow men, and they will get lost when they walk, and if they are lost, they will have nothing. Don't just look at his back and walk. You yourself are good enough and dazzling.

On the road of life, you have to walk side by side and walk together Regardless of whether you hold hands in the end or not.

You've both been in love for more than two years, you shouldn't have to be in love, love is dull in the end, but it's recommended not to put all your thoughts on him, you also have to work and live, and in case ......At least it won't be miserable, and the most important thing is not to think too much, not to ask too much, a little more space would be better.

My boyfriend and I are like this, there is no way, I am thinking about whether to separate and find a man who really loves me in the future.

It's impossible to have the feeling of being in love every day You have watched too much TV** Now that you are in society, you also have to understand his responsibilities To fight If you don't love you How do you want you to be happy You should support each other more now and fight for a career If there is not only love, where will bread come from?

Is there anything to run in between husband and wife? It is said that happiness and sweetness are all appearances, no one knows if it is true, there are episodes in it, so you have nothing to be sad about, men are also tired, you also have to think about your own reasons, the most important thing for two people is life, firewood, rice, oil and salt, everything else is romance when falling in love, don't compare it with after marriage, you can't compare, so live well, be a good wife, I wish you happiness,

When the love is strong, it will become thinner, this is a normal phenomenon, there is no freshness when you first fell in love, but you know each other, out of the campus, that is, into reality, love can not always be dreamy and romantic, your love also needs to pass the test of reality If you are separated, if you really love each other, then don't worry, true love is invincible, and each of them knows the direction of their hearts

After two people have been together for a long time, love will slowly fade, and no one's feelings can always be in the feeling of first love, sometimes love is like.

It is boiling water, which reaches the boiling point from room temperature, and then slowly cools down, that is, when love becomes family affection.

In fact, it's not just you, there are the vast majority of women who feel this way!This is a very normal psychology, if he doesn't really love you, how can he take you to meet your parents? Men and women are different, and their romance only lasts until they get married!

Because men are lazy animals, the reason why you don't cherish them when you feel like you get them is not because you don't love them, it's because they're too lazy to be romantic! In their hearts, they already regard you as their own and feel that everything is a waste, but at that time it is time for them to lose you! Believe in yourself, believe in love!

At this time, you only have to be lenient with your own heart. I'm the same as you, I always feel that my boyfriend is not as good as before, but he still loves me, if a man is not rich and wants your money, it is not your sex, he says that he loves you is true, he doesn't need to lie to you. It's just that if you still regard love as the whole of life, one day he will get bored, a woman must have her own career, she can not be particularly successful but must not rely on men.

Love is elusive, maybe you don't use force, but he won't leave, you love deeply, maybe he will leave after all, it's very sad, but you must admit that love is a part of life, but not all. All we can do is to be happy with love, and we have to live without love, because there is still love waiting for us.