Is it normal for teenagers to be mentally like this, and what is wrong with the psychology of teenag

If you want to lead him into what you call the "right path," I guess it's going to be difficult. First of all, do you understand him? Did you listen to him?

Do you really know him mentally? There is a saying that "the Tao is different, and it is not conspiratory". If you don't understand him, don't say no to him easily.

Before you can really understand him, the first thing to do is to be a listener rather than a critic. Listen to him, no matter what he talks about, as long as he likes the topic, you talk to him, slowly get to know him, if you encounter a problem and feel that he is wrong, then discuss with him, refute him, I think with his character, as long as you have a way to refute him to the point that there is nothing to say, he will more or less listen, but if you are not qualified, do not have the ability to refute, then before that you should be a listener, to understand his thoughts first. Just like Dayu's water control, instead of blocking the water, it is better to drain the water first.

This child is very well known, some children do not need to be educated, or you can't educate him at all, because you don't have him to see through and think clearly, but there is one thing not to worry, this child will not be too aggressive, but it will not be bad, because what he wants is this golden mean, and his grades are not up or down, it does not mean that he will not, don't worry, this child should be full of understanding.

This child must be kind-hearted and loving, and he must have been reincarnated to cultivate Buddhahood. Parents are definitely unwilling, but it is not necessarily that children who study well and have good grades will definitely be successful when they grow up. People have their own aspirations, let him develop, and he will not become bad.

Why does this situation have to make him get good grades? Some people are born to read, and some people, on the contrary, will be more successful in doing other things than studying?

Normal. It is estimated that what he pursues is different from that of ordinary people. Want to get closer to Wang Yangming?

At that time, I loved martial arts and studied martial arts all day. That's the reason why I watched too much. What about them now, they mainly look at fantasy**. I come and go all day long, and my mind is too active. During the summer vacation, he went to work to get in touch with the real society.

1. Excessive pressure in work and life.

With the acceleration of the pace of life, many young people are troubled by high-intensity work pressure, and if they are in a state of high tension and stress for a long time and do not adjust in time, it will make people become depressed and anxious, and in severe cases, it may induce psychological disorders or mental illness. Excessive mental stress can lead to endocrine dysfunction, reduce immunity and resistance, and easily induce physical and mental diseases. In addition, students need to face various exam pressures, coupled with the expectations of parents and teachers, which can cause them to have psychological problems, such as restlessness, fear of learning, and aversion to learning.

2. The psychology of quick success.

Some people have high expectations for success and don't want to expend too much physical energy, so they will take shortcuts in some areas. However, there is a big gap between the results and the subjective ideas, and it is easy to be disappointed and disappointed. Quietly, another part of the population will work desperately to put pressure on themselves and be themselves, but in the end they will fail, which will induce autism or depression and other adverse psychological solanum disorders.

3. Too much dependence on the network.

With the advent of the Internet, it has indeed facilitated people's work and life, and some teenagers are obsessed with the Internet. Proper Internet access can be widely understood, but if you look at unhealthy **, it is easy to develop psychological diseases. If you play games or online dating for a long time, it will make people live in a virtual world, affect normal emotions and cognition, and even cause personality disorders.

4. Excessive spoiling.

Some children are selfish and willful, have very poor adaptability, and do not like to communicate with others, mainly because they are overly spoiled at home, but also show poor ability to be frustrated, social phobia and withdrawn personality. The spoiling of children by family members can cause psychological problems and even endanger social stability.

It has long been a fact that the psychological problems of adolescents are becoming more and more serious, and authoritative child psychiatric experts have pointed out that one-third of China's primary and secondary school students are in China.

1. A quarter of college students have varying degrees of psychological disorders!

The holidays are supposed to be a good time to relax, but the upcoming new semester is a bit unpleasant. Although the epidemic has been effectively controlled in China, it is still "a wave of unsettled, wave after wave". At the same time, the things that happen around us from time to time make us worry for a while:

A 9-year-old girl in Xi'an jumped off a building at home and died, leaving two suicide notes before her death, saying that she "couldn't do anything";

A 12-year-old boy in Nanning, Guangxi, was blamed by his father for being addicted to mobile phones and jumped to his death from the 32nd floor the next day;

A college entrance examination candidate in Henan suddenly got up during the exam and tore up the answer sheets of two other classmates;

Not to mention the hit drama "The Hidden Corner", the academic bully Zhu Chaoyang who slowly shows the dark side of psychology, ......

Signs that the child has a psychological problem.

Signal 1: Disgusted with school.

When children don't like school, parents will instinctively be vigilant and will look for problems in the external environment: the school's teaching methods are too rigid? Misconduct of the teacher?

Is a child being bullied at school? ......Of course, these could be the causes. However, if the child's performance is too different from other classmates, then parents should be alert to whether there is something wrong with the child's mental health.

Signal 2: Addicted to the Internet and games.

Nowadays, we can't live without the Internet almost all the time. But if the child is too addicted to the virtual world, or even gives up his future, school, and interpersonal relationships, it may not only be unable to control himself, but also have psychological problems.

Signal 3: Procrastination.

If your child procrastinates only occasionally, it may be because he or she is lazy. But if it keeps procrastinating, everything is delayed - control and guidance are ineffective, then what parents should do is not how to "educate", but should use scientific methods to solve children's psychological problems.

Signal 4: Don't go out.

Teenagers are lively by nature, love outdoor activities, and like to have all kinds of fun, if they don't like to go out for a long time and be an otaku and a housegirl, it is likely to have psychological problems.

Signal 5: Don't socialize with people.

There's a difference between being introverted and not socializing with people. Although introverted children do not like to express themselves, they will send signals that they are interested in people through their eyes and body language, and they do not want to be the center of the crowd, but they like to stay among their friends. If a child does not socialize with others, and even good friends become more and more estranged, parents should be very vigilant.

Signal 6: Disgust with teachers.

Similar to the first signal, parents have to find the reason for their children in addition to the reason for looking for the teacher. If the child has always had no opinion on the teacher, and suddenly starts to dislike the school and the teacher, it may be sending a signal that he is disgusted with the world.

Signal 7: Puppy love.

It is human nature for boys and girls to have a good impression of each other, and mentally healthy children can handle it well.

It's quite serious, mainly because it doesn't play a role in patient guidance.