My husband wants to share a house with a girl, and he thinks it doesn t matter, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-18
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello Miss. As for this question, you must resolutely oppose it. Because no matter how upright he is and how much you trust him, you must know that he is a man, and the woman knows him first, it is inevitable that she will fall in love for a long time, and the Yanagishita Megumi in this world will be extinct.

    I suggest you do this:1Tell him that you are against this and ask him to think about how he would feel if you shared a house with a man.

    2.Temper his attitude a little more, and ask him to look for another house over there. It is the leader's business to agree, is it the leader's business to agree, is it the right thing to lead everything?!!

    3.Boyfriend and girlfriend, you are coquettish with him or something, and then persuade a few words, saying that you are actually worried that the four of them are too crowded in a house, worried that he has no private space, in short, I am worried about him.

    Finally, the big thing is done

    I hope you will reconcile quickly and settle the unpleasant matter as soon as possible

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since two people have come together, they should trust each other, and if something really goes wrong, it can only be said that your foundation is not true.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think it's okay, your husband is not safe, and that woman is not safe. It's hard to be human at times, maybe what to do if you do something wrong one day, so I personally think it's not good.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Tell him calmly that you care about him, that you can't stand him doing this, and that if he really cares about your feelings, he will listen to you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    2 people share a house, no, 4 people are different, each individual has its own house. Of course, there may be situations that you want.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let him go and you'll be done.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What kind of system is this? You can actually promise that you're still his girlfriend. He loves you very much, but what if? It's not a question of trust or distrust. Who can't find a woman to find a shared house joke .

    I advise you to take some sane action before something bad happens to your boyfriend to a different place ...

    Remember, be sure to use your brain. If your boyfriend really loves you, he will agree to your request. Besides, it is understandable that he is not allowed to live with the opposite sex. I have to think about you. It doesn't matter who he lives with if he's single.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is no man who doesn't steal, if the woman doesn't want to share the bed, it's fine, if she wants, as a man, he will definitely not refuse. What to brush the toilet, not a matter. It's too normal for someone of the opposite sex to have an accident in a shared house.,In a sense, it's like helping each other in life and borrowing each other physiologically.,Understand?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    So it's better to take action sooner rather than later.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Maybe you should believe him, the current society is very normal, sharing a house. However, from another angle, it's a bit dangerous...

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's right to promise him, to show that you don't care, to let him chase you all the time. I suggest it's time for you to chill him down. Oh look at it yourself!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's best to eat separately, everyone's commuting time is not necessarily the same, who will buy vegetables and who will cook each time? How do you calculate the money? It's a problem if it's not handled well.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't understand what you mean, 1: I also say that he is co-living, like zhi

    He could, hehe.

    dao2: If he really said that he was sharing a house, and he didn't say that he wanted you to pay money, maybe you misunderstood, maybe he was afraid that you would not agree, and deliberately emphasized that he said that it was a shared house, which sounded better and made it easier for you to accept.

    3: If you are sure that you really want to pay half of the money, then he is really not a man, speechless.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Look at what you asked, he is not du or not at all.

    Like you? zhi

    It's not that he doesn't like you at all, he must have some joy for you, and he wants to go out with you, the purpose is obvious, at least he likes your body, but he prefers himself, at least you have a place to live at home, he wants you to go out and live, and he wants you to pay half of the rent.

    If you're just looking for someone who likes you a little bit, someone who likes your body, I'd say there are a lot of men who like you a little bit.

    If you want to find someone who can give you a warm home and can give you spiritual support, he has a gap.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If I resolutely don't go out to live, even if the man pays the rent, he can't go out to live... I am not married, and I have a home to return to, why waste the money from renting a house, with the money for renting, both of us can eat KFC a few times.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't think you should go out and live with him, girls still have to be responsible for themselves. If anything happens to you living together, it will be too late to regret it. If you are engaged and have a marriage license, it doesn't matter if you live together, it's normal, if not, don't be together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's quite selfish, he asked you to go out to live with him, why did he let you pay half of the rent.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You don't want this kind of man, right?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then don't accept it reluctantly, ask your husband to try to think about what he thinks if you share a house with two boys alone. This man is a little too generous, if he really loves someone and sees you sad, he will avoid it, not to mention that he has to share a house after marriage, excessively, not to get married.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, the problem is many faceted, maybe he thinks that he is just friends with them, and has nothing to do with it, and he doesn't consider your feelings, I think you should think about this boy carefully! He's more machismo, and if you're sure you can take it, go down!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Is it necessary to rent with someone else if the conditions do not allow it? If so, you can't blame him, if you don't break up decisively, this kind of man wants it, it's equivalent to planting a bomb for himself....The landlord is good for himself....

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Try to be good friends with those two women, really understand why your husband is unwilling to part with them, and see if you can change it, if it is a reason that you can't accept it, he can't change it, then you can only give up, although you love him very much.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Tell him what you think, and if she loves you, she will understand you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Although I am a boy, I can understand your feelings, it doesn't matter if you are alone before marriage, but after marriage, after all, two people are a family, and I feel that personal space is very important.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Love is understanding and inclusive. Otherwise, ......

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Girls don't matter, there are many times they want you to take the initiative.

    If you love her, don't give up because of some small setbacks.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Let it go, no more feelings of love will only hurt yourself.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You can go live with him, and if you don't agree, then you can go and check the post from time to time in the name of cleaning up the house.

    Actually, if it were me, I would return it to others in the way of others.

    Not a good trick, hehe.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This reason is too far-fetched!!

    Did your husband ever think about your heart when he stabilized people's hearts???

    I can't stand it anymore.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    He stabilizes other people's hearts, so how can he stabilize your hearts, who is more important.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    This excuse is so godly, it's really a good idea, it's really a good leader of the people, and it's a straightforward praise.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Is your brain watering? Your husband said such things to you, and you didn't know what to do, I castrated him first and then let him go.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's too smart, is it really to stabilize the hearts of female subordinates?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Jianmo rock adheres to his own bottom line and does not agree to share a house.

    It is recommended that you have a good chat with your husband and try not to let him meet her alone.

    This is obviously a scheming coming back to force your husband.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's up to you personally, of course you have to share it if you like it!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you like it, ask for it, and if you don't like it, you should reward them.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Look at the character of the landlord:

    If you're a young lady, forget it. After all, your appearance and quality should be directly proportional.

    If you don't like them, it's very simple, I'd rather be an outsider than someone you don't like.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If it's not very valuable, forget it...

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