Would you like to marry someone whose parents are divorced?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-25
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm sure I do, but what happened to my parents' divorce? It's not murder and arson, such a person is not allowed to be liked? Let me tell you, such people are also the easiest to have a sense of responsibility and responsibility, because they are young and bear what other peers do not bear.

    Parents say that they have mental illness is nonsense, and when they see that others are not pleasing to the eye, they will say directly, what are you doing twisting and pinching, and what diseases are you going to settle down? What if they don't? Besides, what disease can't be cured?

    Nothing is a problem as long as you like.

    Let's tell a story. Absolutely. A friend falls in love with a girl who is divorced from a family.

    Follow your mom and your sister. But the people are very good, and there are no diseases at all. Treat people very well, no picky.

    And the people are also very good-looking. Very sunny. So it makes sense that my friends like her.

    When my friend talked about her, he said that she was very fragile, because her parents were incomplete, which made her sentimental, and she would be very envious of other people's complete families, and would always tell us about her family situation, tell us about the good things about her father, and we never argued with her about her father. She is also very assertive. To like is to like, and not to like is not to like.

    So, hurt my friend very deeply. Because she said, I don't like you.

    In fact, if the family is divorced, it is easier to stimulate a person's desire to protect, so that people have a feeling that they are very needed. Any illness is an excuse for someone to break you up. Some children from divorced families are stronger.

    is like Dou Jingtong, because of her divorced family, there is no problem at all, and it does not affect her to become the husband of most girls. It's still the same, it's alive and well. I haven't seen anyone commit suicide or anything.

    But the little dragon girl is more serious. It's a different story. Of course, it varies from person to person.

    Having said all this, it still depends on how you choose.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If I like her, I will, my parents divorce has little to do with him, as long as I like her, I don't care about his family situation.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As long as two people are interested, well, they have the same hobbies, and two people are good, after all, it is two people who live in the future, not with his parents.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Absolutely.

    Marriage or a partner is not necessary, people get married mostly because they love each other or want to find someone to support each other. If you feel that you are alone, have enough economic foundation, have the ability to do things, have strong qualities, and can cope with the trivial things of life alone, then it is completely OK You may not have much feeling when you are young, but once the people around you have a wife and children, then you will be even more lonely. Even if it's a friend's party, a birthday party, or a full moon for your child, such occasions can make you feel out of place.

    If you really don't have expectations for your other half and don't envy that kind of family of three, then you may still be comfortable dealing with your friends who are married and have children. But when you reach old age, your parents have left one after another, and your friends can no longer get together with you often because of their busy work and family trivialities, you will feel that kind of feeling of loneliness.

    You can imagine that you cook alone, eat alone, sleep alone, and wake up alone. You may really be okay when you're young, but you'll feel the gap when you're older. Even if you are old and go to a nursing home, but everyone has children and grandchildren who often come to visit, and you are only one person, the loneliness is really unimaginable.

    However, people live for themselves, and I don't agree with what you said later, when your parents die, you can also do without hesitation. Since you think that you can live a wonderful life alone, it has nothing to do with your parents, only about yourself, then keep it up. I hope you have no worries for the rest of your life and live a long life!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Your parents are divorced, so of course you can start a family on your own.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Recently, a friend was very distressed, because it has only been more than a year since the divorce, and the child is about to get married. She just escaped a divorce battle, and she just wanted to escape from the child's wedding, and she didn't want to face the child's father and all his relatives.

    So she didn't want to attend her child's wedding, so she only invited relatives and friends on her side alone a few days before the wedding. Although she made the decision not to attend the wedding, she was still very uncomfortable.

    In today's society, more and more people of all ages are getting divorced.

    In recent years, this group of people around the age of 50 has ushered in a wave of marriage of their children, although some people are very picky about their children's marriages, saying that they resolutely do not look for children from single-parent families. You may be afraid that the children of single-parent families will have personality problems, or they will not look good at the wedding in the future. However, single parents can only show that the parents are not human, and this is not the fault of the children.

    Many children from single-parent families always have someone to love and always want to get married. As a result, the wedding cannot be held in the same way as the parents are together normally.

    This kind of wedding also comes in a variety of forms, reflecting the various situations in the world.

    At some weddings, regardless of whether the parents have formed their own bad families, at the children's wedding, the parents have to pretend that nothing has happened, and stand together on stage to support the scene for the children. At a wedding, I saw a father, because the divorce failed, I wanted to drive my ex-wife and daughter to death, many years after the divorce, at the daughter's wedding, when I took my daughter's hand and sent my daughter to my son-in-law, I also spoke with tears in my eyes, and repeatedly told my son-in-law's family to treat their daughter well. The guests who knew the inside story were full of disdain while admiring the performance skills

    You had a daughter who treated other people's daughters well, how did you treat your own daughter?

    I also heard of a wedding that amazed all the guests, the groom's parents reorganized their families after they divorced, but the biological father and stepfather wanted to go on stage and stand next to the mother at the wedding, so when the bride and groom's parents came to the stage, there were two pairs of parents of the bride and groom standing next to the bride and groom, and there were two fathers on the groom's side. The wedding became a great conversation.

    Of course, there are also some parents who are divorced and quarrel when they meet, and the relationship between the child and one of the parents is not very compatible. Some fathers were absent from the wedding, some were absent from the wedding, and the parents of both sides were canceled when they came to the stage. Those things that happened on the wedding day

    In the future, as the divorce rate continues to increase, there will be more and more such weddings, and people will not be surprised.

    For the parties involved, it is very torturous before the wedding, whether it is a performance on stage or not, or an absence, it is a kind of torture for them.

    In fact, the wedding is just a ceremony, no matter what form it is, it will pass, and the important thing is how to live well in the future. Divorced parents have reached old age, how to spend the rest of their lives in peace, how to grow up married children in a broken family, how to cherish their partners and small families, manage their own feelings and marriages, and not repeat the tragedy of their parents, this is a problem that should be paid attention to.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    As a child, it is acceptable for parents to divorce or remarry. We are first and foremost 'individuals', and then 'parents'. As children, we should not choose to give up the happiness we should pursue because of the burden and responsibility of the title of 'parent'.

    If it is said that the object of his mother's pursuit has a very poor character, such as frequent domestic violence, such a person should be kind and persuasive, otherwise there will be endless troubles. If your mother's suitor has a good character and gets along with each other, then you should support it, and everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, including their parents.

    Children can't be too selfish! You can't rely on your own selfish thoughts and interfere with the happiness of your divorced parents, and you can at least accompany each other and take care of each other when you are old. Some children are not filial to their parents, and when the divorced parents are ready to remarry or remarry, they feel 'ashamed' and obstruct them in all kinds of ways, which is an arrogant and unfilial behavior and is not worth advocating.

    From a legal point of view, others have no right to interfere with the freedom of marriage, for example, parents interfere in the marriage of their children, of course, parents interfere for their own children, but the children are voluntary, and parents have no right to interfere. On the other hand, divorced parents want to remarry, and their children have no right to interfere, although it shows that in life, many examples of children interfering with their parents' remarriage are actually in violation of the law, which is mainly related to human rights issues! Emotionally speaking, parents intervene in their children's marriage and children interfere with their parents' remarriage, the inner starting point is different, the vast majority of parents do not agree with their children's marriage, and consider their children's future happiness more, play the role of gatekeeper, the central idea is for the sake of their children.

    In today's society, the divorce rate is constantly increasing. Divorce is now a very common thing. Divorce certainly does not mean the end of life, but rather the abandonment of a bad past and the beginning of a good future.

    In fact, all divorced people will face a new problem after divorce, that is, to form a family again, that is, to reorganize the family. The restructured family is relatively more complex than the original family, and once these complex issues are not handled well, it will be more likely to cause estrangement and misunderstanding. After experiencing the failure of one marriage, of course, I hope to reap happiness in the next wedding.

    Happiness is earned by oneself, and a happy married life must be maintained with heart. But for the children, it is also a big test, whether it is suitable for this new family? ! All things considered!

    Personally, I think that as long as the two parents get along and live a happy life, I still support it!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Anyway, I don't care if they divorce, I don't talk to anyone, and if someone is in trouble, I will still help.

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