What should a 27 year old woman do if she is unmarried and confused?

Do more. Work, reading, running, sports, dating. You can think about yourself more clearly in your busyness, otherwise there will be problems if you stay alone for a long time.

In fact, confusion is the norm for most young people, maintain a good and positive attitude, time will take away everything, and it will also bring everything. Cherish the present and look forward to the future.

Seeing the age of 27, I have a special feeling in my heart, in 2018, I was also 27 years old, and when I saw the "27" year old, the first feeling in my heart was fear and anxiety. Seeing that there are about to be 30 people, Gu Yun "stands at thirty", but the word "stand" is estimated to be only one point. I talked to some friends two days ago.

List some of your own shortcomings, lazy, afraid of failure, like to dodge. In fact, I think this is also a common problem of confused people. Therefore, we must be determined to get rid of these bad problems.

Then make a list of things you enjoy doing and which ones will bring you benefits. It may be difficult to move towards this direction at first, but slowly you will get used to it. I have a girlfriend who just started to study interior design in a training institution for two years, and after coming out, she stayed in a decoration company for a year, without a penny of salary, and worked early and late.

After leaving the school, he now has a monthly income of more than 10,000 yuan in our small city. I bought my own car this year. There are too many inspirational people around, and I myself am a particularly inspiring person.

Exercise. Wake up early for a run, go for a walk in the evening! Get your body moving. If you can, you can go to the gym to exercise and modify your body shape, so that you can not only gain health but also gain self-confidence.

Find out what makes you feel a state of confusion, in fact, it's normal for everyone to experience a state of confusion. In the face of confusion, don't be anxious, face it squarely, find the cause that causes you to be in a state of confusion, record it and try to solve it, which will lead you to another life. At the age of 27, the composition of life is roughly divided into:

Work, study, family, sports, social, leisure 6 parts, think about it, which state is most likely to make you feel lost!

Fall in love. 27 years old is the age when you should get married, get together with the people you like, go on trips together, go shopping, and plan a better life in the future, and you will find that there are many things worth doing yourself.

When you're confused, take the time to find a partner. Most of the confused young people, I think, have no boyfriend and girlfriend, when they are alone, no one to share, no one to share worries, no common responsibility, in a very chaotic and vain state, I don't know what will happen next, take a step at a time.

Tell me about a classmate's situation:

Coordinates Guangzhou, 27 years old unmarried, no girlfriend copywriting dog, introverted. The qualifications for internal referral were set a year ago, and the interview was postponed due to the same epidemic problem after the year, but the day before yesterday because of the physical examination problems found gastritis, mucositis, and digestive disorders, he was rejected for incompetence in high-intensity work. A few years ago, I advised him to make sure to make a good connection before leaving, but he just didn't listen, although he is now in a more awkward position.

Here are a few of the analytical preparations I helped him make, and I also helped my sister to give you some ideas.

The general environment has an impact, and the impact is manifested in several dimensions:

1.The offline brick-and-mortar industry has been hit, with many positions suspending or even canceling recruitment. Take my big home furnishing industry as an example, at present, offline stores are still crowded; In the case of no orders on the front-end, all back-end customer service positions have been cancelled, and the positions in various functional departments have been reduced accordingly.

2.For the positions currently being recruited, the salary will be lowered or the recruitment period will be extended. At present, in the case of semi-resumption of work, there are not many things for enterprises, and most of them are preparing for the full resumption of work.

And correspondingly, this year's Golden Three Silver Four people looking for jobs are still so simple, but the number of jobs has decreased, supply and demand are unbalanced, employers understand this trend, and the cycle of recruitment positions can be relatively extended, so many companies will compare again and again.

My sister's situation is a bit special, but I don't think it's a problem, because you've been a human being for so long, so you should know how to improvise.

1.Adjust the standards step by step.

In essence, it is to lower expectations, and when there is no expectation that matches your own regret pants, learn to lower the standard value appropriately, or focus on a certain part, which is very applicable in the current environment, after all, there are not so many good companies to pick, in the case of picking, pick the best.

2.As a springboard.

It is difficult to find a job at this stage, so the job you are looking for at this stage can be used as a springboard for the next job, that is, a transitional job. If the most important thing at this stage is to solve the problems of life, then it is better to agree to the best offer as soon as possible; If you are anxious because you don't work, then you can also pick a busy job to get yourself back on the back burner, and you can also find out your shortcomings from your new job so that you can better adjust yourself.

3.Older and unmarried? To put it another way.

There are indeed many companies that care about this situation, because they don't have a boyfriend, so this probability is uncontrollable, and companies have to take uncontrollable risks. But sister, you can put it another way, for example, I have a boyfriend, and I have already planned when to get married and when to have children. In this way, the judgment of the employing company is very clear, and I can use you for a long time, at a glance, and at the same time, I can realize that you are a very planned person.

4.Believe in yourself.

I also used to doubt myself, and many times it led to many things that I didn't dare to do. But after I did it, I realized that it was not that I could do it without arguing about rent, but that I didn't dare to do it, and after I did it, I realized that it was nothing more than that. Find a job, plan well, and interview for several jobs a day.

It is true that employers now have certain industry characteristics and special requirements for recruiters, but the core factor of the difficulty of finding a job depends on the candidate's own career planning direction and their own resource advantages (such as whether the core skills of the position are understood and mastered!). Whether the interpersonal skills are applied to the position you are applying for, including whether the physical fitness level is suitable for the job requirements......It's all HR to consider!

First of all, as a candidate, you must know yourself and your opponent, and you must not be defeated in a hundred battles. Blindly applying for jobs will be due to the lack of understanding of the position and the evaluation of their own advantages and abilities, and the two will be prone to imbalance!

Thus having a bad association with the employment environment!

These are all caused by inadequate preparation!

Opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared! It's not social discrimination against 28-year-olds who are unmarried, it's because they lack a plan and goals for their career development. In addition, when you are approaching the age of 30 and are infected by the environmental atmosphere such as marriage urging from family and friends, it makes it even worse for you who are already facing employment pressure!

I advise you to calm down, put aside the influence from the outside world, and don't give yourself negative hints. Work is based on your core competence, and it has nothing to do with marriage or not! The company is concerned about your own value.

When you dream of gaining a confident sense of identity from your career and work, your mental outlook is very different! At that time, it exudes a confident brilliance from the inside out, and it will naturally attract the attention of more outstanding people of the opposite sex, and the problem of marriage and love is still a matter of course! You will find that your depression and worries are too much now!

People are strong enough, everything else is attached to it!

The company is afraid that you will take marriage leave and maternity leave as soon as you go to work.

The same awkward situation. It was found that men are really easy to find a job.