How noisy is your dorm?

If you can't change yourself, then change the environment, if you can't change the environment, then change yourself, after all, you are the person who has lived with you for a long time, so if you have something to discuss, you have to lose your temper when you should lose your temper, and you should talk well, after all, you don't know how to do it when they say you behind your back.

Such a person should give your opinion. If they don't listen, what's worth keeping your relationship worth? Don't think about relationships for everything, after graduating from college, you are basically a stranger.

If you really can't sleep, just read a book by yourself for a while, fall asleep when you're tired of reading, or buy earplugs and eye patches and think about other things.

We have a roommate who is active in the middle of the night, this kind of roommate, as if everything is done late at night: washing clothes, typing on the keyboard, writing homework, it can be said that the lights and sound do not fall, everyone is asleep, his life seems to have just begun, regardless of whether others need to rest, laughing loudly, knocking on the keyboard, for fear that others will fall asleep. Some people even complained that their roommates sing in the middle of the night every day, which is really incomprehensible!

What's more, some people usually take it for granted, but once they are woken up by a little sound from someone else while sleeping, they start to get angry.

Resolutely advise you to go out to live, you can find classmates to share a house in the school forum, so that you can save money, if you don't move out, it is definitely you who are delayed, the money can be earned back, and the four years of college must not be delayed, if you can't learn like this, the future will be over.

Every person who is quiet on the outside should have a fanatical heart on the inside. I'm very noisy in the dormitory, but the rest of us in the dormitory will be quieter, and the mode we get along with is that we should play games and eat spicy noodles together, and we should study quietly. You can talk to the people in the dormitory more, and if you communicate more, you can discuss everything.

The most troublesome thing in the boys' dormitory is athlete's foot. Although the roommates are all male gods, it was so sour after playing. So we stipulated that we would wash our feet collectively every night, and wash our socks for the whole dormitory if we didn't wash our feet, which seemed to work well haha.

The so-called close to Zhu is red, close to ink is black, is your roommate **, the voice is played out and always makes a lot of noise, you are asked to help them roll call in class, do not clean the garbage, etc. Don't try to persuade you to change, because this kind of person's personality has been stereotyped, they are scum, and you want them to understand you first? It's just funny, if you really have good friends you don't talk about them, they won't bother you and help you when you're in trouble, it's clear that your roommate is not a good bird, change the dormitory, while they haven't completely polluted your spiritual world.

The dormitory is a place to live and sleep, so it is normal to have a sense of life. Many discomforts and conflicts are caused by the non-synchronization of the dormitory members' schedules, in this case, if it cannot be solved through communication, the best way is to change the dormitory, and the students with similar schedules and rests live together.

If you don't get along with others in the dormitory, you should first find your own reasons, and if you check that there is nothing wrong with yourself, then think about whether it is someone else's problem. If it's someone else's problem, then there's no need to feel guilty or sadBecause personality incompatibility is personality incompatibility, there may be some things when they are dealing with it, that kind of way and method you are not used to, and there may be that when you are doing something, you will make others disgusted, this is normal, you just need to do your own good, do what you should do well, so that others have nothing to say, and there is nothing wrong to pick up, if others insist on finding your fault, you can also ignore it, and don't blindly tolerate it. When a person is born, he comes to this world alone, and when he leaves, he also leaves alone, so all the times in his previous life are left when people break up, and he can also eat alone and go shopping alone, in fact, sometimes a person will be more free, and he doesn't have to wear a mask to say those hypocritical words.

Maybe there is a mistake, but the fault is not one-sided, and everyone fell out, it must be that I am a little more wrong, then I should reflect on myself, see what is wrong, correct, a dormitory does not look up and see down, you have to get along well to not be embarrassed.

It's not necessarily your fault, but you'll probably have some problems, such as the way you speak or the way you think about the problem. There aren't just one or two people in the dorm, and when everyone thinks you're wrong, at least there's something flawed in what you're showing them.

Of course, it's not your fault, it may be that the people in the dormitory happen to be the same type, and they are born at odds with you.

Not necessarily, but if you fall out with everyone in the dormitory, then you really have to find out if it's your own problem.

This situation should be your problem, you must find the reason from yourself, and seize the time to change your bad problems.

I don't think this situation can unilaterally assume that you are wrong, after all, it is easy to create an atmosphere of collective exclusion in the dormitory, and you had better try to resolve the conflict with your roommate.

If you fall out with everyone in the dormitory, then you must be at fault, a slap doesn't make a sound, it can't be all someone else's fault.

I think it's your problem to fall out with everyone in the dormitory, you should reflect on what you are not doing well, and you can't just be self-centered.

It may not all be your fault, but you also have to look for problems in yourself, find your own shortcomings and correct them, and at the same time learn to be alone, there is no need to worry about such things.

I think a lot of it might be your fault, and it's your own fault that you're breaking up with everyone in the dorm.

I don't think it's necessarily your fault, because sometimes there will be a phenomenon that everyone in the dormitory is very strange, so there is no need to think so sadly, but you have to find the reason for yourself, why everyone is arguing with you?

I think it's your fault, if you fall out with only one person, it may not be your fault, but if you fall out with everyone, then it must be your problem.

Of course it's your fault, because it's not that you fell out with someone, it means that you have a flawed character.

If there is a problem with a person, it is difficult to say whose problem. But falling out with the whole dormitory, if it's not your own problem, it may be that your environment is wrong.

Not necessarily, but you also have certain mistakes, first of all, you must recognize your mistakes and not blindly blame the other party.

If it is true that it is reasonable to ask everyone to be quiet after 9 o'clock in the evening, it is reasonable to ask everyone to be quiet and sleep if it is not necessary to sleep during the break time after class. Sometimes I think it's important to be considerate and learn to respect others.

I was very envious of the dormitory next door, every time I went to their dormitory, as long as someone was sleeping, the whole dormitory was so quiet that there was no sound at all. They also have game controllers in their dorms, and they play games every day when they have nothing to do, but they are not as noisy as our dorm. One of the features of their dorm is that everyone has a must-have - headphones.

Whenever someone sleeps in the dormitory, they will consciously put on headphones, and only when all the people in the dormitory are not sleeping, they will play the sound of the computer. Usually when I go to their dormitory, I don't notice that someone is sleeping, and when I enter the door, the noise is louder, and they will immediately whisper to stop it, saying that someone is sleeping in the dormitory, and talk quietly.

This may be the tacit understanding that has been formed in their dormitory, and it is also a manifestation of their quality and public morality!

Personally, the most important thing we need to learn in college is to respect each other. In the same dormitory, roommates come from all over the world, and many times their living habits and hobbies are very different, which also leads to a lot of conflicts.

If each of us would respect each other and be quiet while others were sleeping, then many conflicts could be greatly reduced. If you want to play games all night, then please be quiet and bring headphones so that it doesn't interfere with other people's normal sleep. If you are an early riser, please be careful when others are not awake yet, and be gentle when brushing your teeth and face.

In many cases, many problems, as long as we respect each other, understand and make concessions to each other, then many conflicts will be reduced accordingly, and dormitory life will be more harmonious.

When we are in the dormitory, we often watch TV and play with mobile phones, but people who watch TV know that sometimes they are addicted to watching, they will not stop, they will always want to watch, but if they sit all the time, they will feel very tired, so they will think about lying there and watching very comfortably, this wonderful little brother just thought of such a way, not only lying down to watch, the neck will not be affected, is there a feeling of paralysis in bed, At that time, I have to say that this brother's brain hole is still very big, but aren't you afraid that the computer screen will fall off? It's still dangerous, so it's better to put it down. Everyone knows that in the summer, it is very annoying mosquitoes, and there will be mosquitoes in the dormitory in the summer, and at this time when you sleep, you will feel very annoyed, not only because it bites you, but also very importantly, it will always be in your ear, which is very angry, so if there is no mosquito net in the bedroom, how to let mosquitoes not bite themselves, this wonderful roommate tells you what to do, that is, stupid silver put the dirty clothes bag on the head, and wrap the body in the quilt, In this way, you are not afraid of being woken up by mosquitoes at night.

This method is really good, but will it feel a little uncomfortable with your head inside, and the cover is so tight, don't you feel hot? But I have to admire that I can come up with such a wonderful trick, and my imagination must be very rich.

This is there, because I forgot to buy a footbasin, but I don't want to go down to buy it, so I thought of such a way, find a plastic bag, and then add water to it, put your feet in, a simple footbasin is become, so that you don't need to wash the footbasin can also be very convenient to soak your feet and wash your feet, not only convenient but also save money! I really can't hold back my laughter when I see such a way of washing my feet, and I have to admire such a wonderful roommate, but the best thing for this roommate is to put a few more bags in case they break. Each dormitory is not less roommates with strange ideas, but it is also because of some of them that our dormitory students will not be so boring, every dormitory always has strange roommates, their strange behavior, each can make you laugh until graduation for these dormitories of strange practices.

I think it's better to keep the whole dormitory quiet after a student has a break.

First, because as a large collective, who will respect others will achieve better results, and everyone will be more united and respect each other. Therefore, it is very important to learn to communicate with others more and respect others, and you must learn more from professional teachers and master the correct communication methods.

Second, there is the question of time.

If it's time to go to bed at night, such as 10 o'clock at night, one of the roommates has to sleep at 10 o'clock, and the other roommates are night owls, usually until 12 o'clock or even early in the morning, in this case, the roommate Hu Shi, who sleeps at 10 o'clock, hopes that the other roommates will be quieter, I think it is also reasonable, even if you can't guarantee complete quiet, you should also minimize the sound, I think this is a respect for each other, and if you want to go to bed early one day, you can also exchange for the other party's understanding and concession. There is also a lunch break at noon, sometimes after a morning class, after eating at noon, there may be roommates who want to sleep for a while, if you don't have anything special, you don't want to sleep, you can put on headphones and watch a drama or something, which is understandable.

Third, contingencies.

For example, there is a roommate who has a little cold in the past two days, and he always wants to sleep after drinking medicine, and then he may tell other roommates during the day if he can be quieter, I think everyone has compassion, and this kind of accident is also understandable, I saw that my roommate was sick and had no energy when I was in college, and it was really distressing, so I hoped that she could get better quickly.

I think the above two situations can be viewed normally and understandably.

Of course, college roommates are like smoking a blind box, you may encounter the situation that you ask the whole dormitory to be quiet when you sleep, and you don't respect others when you sleep, and you are very loud, there is actually no good solution to this situation, because generally this kind of person will not be useful, you can only choose to change the dormitory or move out if you have the conditions, or you can only hurt each other, or I hope everyone can meet normal roommates.

Fourth, many times, when several people live together, there will be those invisible inadvertent frictions that you don't even notice yourself, but this question is like you asked, you obviously realize that you should be considerate of that roommate at this time, be quiet, and experience the right way, why do you want your lead to be indignant, feel conflicted or in a bad mood? I hope you can handle the friendship of the roommate and learn from the same pants. Cherish friendship, it is good for others, and it is also a benefit for yourself!