How to make the heart less so, how to make the heart less painful?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-25
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I've thought about one thing, it's not a bad thing, I've always insisted on the meaning of love to myself, like the wind, there's no reason to blow softly, who loves whom, there is a so-called right and wrong No matter the time, talking about how rough it is that we're together, I don't dare to confirm it, the word love you is not reserved for yourself, nor is it sarcastic People are saying that I'm actually ignorant This kind of relationship is considered to be very presumptuous, and I'm not convinced. I'm still thinking about that If you can't control it anymore Think about me once a day If you're honest because of me If you watch my movies Listen to the CDs I love If you can take me on a trip If you decide to follow the feeling Be brave for love once If you say we have each other If you start to believe in this kind of love If you can give me what to do I don't dare to confirm The word love you is not reserved or sarcastic to myself People are saying that I am actually ignorant This kind of relationship is considered to be presumptuous I am still thinking about it If you can't control it anymore Think about me once a day If you're honest because of me If you watch my movies Listen to the CDs I love If you can take me on a trip If you decide to follow the feelings, to be brave for love, if you say we have each other, if you start to believe that this kind of love feelings, if you can give me what ifs, if you can't control it, think of me once a day, if you're honest because of me, if you watch my movies, listen to my love CDs, if you can take me on a trip, if you decide to follow the feelings, be brave for love, if you say we have each other, if you're going to start believing that this kind of love feeling, I just want you one if thing, I'm going to love you with all my might.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If he is so happy, but you are crying on the side, isn't it strange Smoking is not good, but occasionally men also need to vent, you can cry, what about him, look away, let him light a cigarette There is nothing wrong with surfing the Internet, it's better than smoking, but after a long time, it will hurt your body and eyes, so you should persuade him to go out with you Crying can't solve the problem, if you really love him, touch him well.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Find what you like, eat what you like, go where you like, and let the happy bury the sad side].

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because you loved.

    Hurt since it hurts.

    Then let it hurt.

    Maybe it won't happen in the future.

    Know how to protect yourself.

    Dull-hearted pain or heart-wrenching or heart-rending

    The feeling of heartache is not actually a pain, but a state of boredom, annoyance, noise, and regret that are mixed together and difficult to resolve.

    To put it simply, it is caused by the mismatch between inner expectations and the truth of reality When a person with emotions always has heartache, tears may be a good way to relieve pain.

    But people without tears can only enjoy a kind of pain that wants to cry without tears Heartache is a kind of despair, heartache is a kind of helplessness, heartache is a kind of letting go, and heartache is also a kind of relief.

    If you can have more insights after the pain, then why not if it hurts?

    Happy to you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

    Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming. The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it.

    Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

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