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In fact, parents want their children to live happily and without worrying about food and clothing. Now that the two of you have stood firm with each other, and have reached the level of suffering and resistance that you may encounter. So now it's all that remains to get the approval of your parents.
Therefore, in normal times, you should often go home to call **, contact feelings, let them know that you will be happy together, if possible, find a helper first, in this way, you will persuade your parents to make it easier and faster for them to accept this matter.
As for the house, these problems in different places need to be discussed slowly and work together, and it is best to be in the same city. There may be many difficulties ahead, but trusting in your love, can overcome them all. Bless you
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Work hard with your lover to make your parents accept him, and your lover should take advantage of the Spring Festival holiday to visit your parents and touch your parents with your sincerity. Parents want their children to be happy, they have their reasons, their opposition can strengthen your determination to love each other, and the process of your mutual efforts to make your parents accept will make you understand each other. Whether he is the person you love or not, you will understand by concrete facts.
Love must be happy and rational in order to last a long time.
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In fact, many of them are like this in reality, in fact, I decided to communicate more with my parents, after all, their era is different from the present, and there will be conflicts of ideas sometimes, but this does not prove that he is wrong, now there is money, people with houses are divorced, and there are people who have money, but they can't keep people, but if they keep people, they must keep their wealth.
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Choose love. After a long time, your parents will slowly accept you.
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Parents are doing this for the sake of their children's future happiness, but as long as you truly love each other, everything will pass.
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I think you should choose family affection, after all, your relatives have also been with you for so many years in your life.
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Can you choose a partner for family affection? No.
Love, can you choose a partner? OK.
Isn't the destination of love family affection?
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I will definitely choose family affection, because this is the love that blood is thicker than water, and it is the most precious.
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That should be the choice of love, after all, love is what can accompany you for a lifetime, and family affection will always pass away.
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I think it's better to choose family affection, if family affection is lost, it's not so easy to find it again.
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I choose family affection.
Family affection is to accompany me for a lifetime from beginning to end, and love is only half a lifetime after all, and the grace of my parents is more real and reliable than love in my eyes.
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I will choose family affection, because family affection is the longest, no matter when, my family will be by my side and will not abandon myself.
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When I have to make a choice, I will choose family affection, because love will always meet, but if family affection is lost, it will not be there anymore.
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You should stick to your heart, don't give up on both, and try your best to satisfy both.
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I generally choose family affection, and the sensible ones can go first to see who makes more sense, which is not easy to choose wrong.
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I think you should choose family affection, after all, your parents are the ones who gave birth to you and raised you, and we can't repay you for the sweat they have paid.
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I will choose family affection, because family affection lasts the longest, and love has too many accidents, maybe fleeting.
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When love and family affection are selective, then I will definitely choose family affection, because I think that only family affection is the most important thing for me, and love can be or may not be had.
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I will choose family affection, because family affection is the strongest and will not betray us, while love is not necessarily.
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The sublimation of love is family affection, and at a certain time, the emotional sublimation will become family affection to a certain extent, and I personally suggest that love and family affection are important, and there is no choice or not. Choose love without harming family affection, and choose family affection without hurting each other's feelings, so no matter how you choose, do your best, communicate with both parties, and let both parties feel your desire for love and affection. Love is really a casual fate.
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Love is the most beautiful thing in the world, it is intangible and substantial, but it can instantly fill people's whole body and mind, and make people have endless power. Love makes people excited, family affection makes people dull, friendship makes people peaceful, all three are essential in life, and all of them are indispensable.
Therefore, almost all emotional experts have said that "communication is the most important"! People's hearts are separated from the belly, whether it is two sexes or two generations, love or family affection, only unhindered communication can be maintained and sustained for a long time. However, there are very few people who understand such a simple truth, and there are few resentful couples in the world who are separated because of an inexplicable misunderstanding; Because of the so-called dignity and face, there are even more families that lead to ethical tragedies.
People are so stupid, obviously their eyes are staring at watermelons, and what they want in their hearts is also watermelons, but they hold on to a little sesame seeds in their hands and don't let go.
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Are you conflicted.
If you choose love, you will betray your family, if you choose family, you will lose your lover, betray your lover, this problem is really a dilemma!
My opinion is: if love is love, to the point where it is difficult to give up, then let the beloved and the family get along first, let the family see the advantages of the beloved, after a long time, you will always be moved by the good character! If it weren't for the point where it was so hard to give up, I would advise you!
Don't have conflicts with your family for such a person.
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Love is not a material match, but a spiritual match! Choose love and be happy for a lifetime!
Family affection is the greatest feeling in the world, all the family cards are built on the basis of your good, otherwise it is meaningless, if it is because of the obstruction of the love card and when the wrong love then regret a lifetime, if the pursuit of love in the development process you are happy, maybe the obstacle of family will be solved! Purely personal advice, no scientific basis! Thank you!
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Put the balance on both ends, try to maintain balance, if it doesn't work, adjust it in time, and wish happiness
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It is legally stipulated that the relationship between husband and wife after marriage comes first, therefore, love and family affection are equally important, but there is no clear understanding in the law.
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As a perfect life, family love is indispensable. Family affection and love are inseparable, and they are the most cherished friendships that are indispensable in life. They are not contradictory, they are interdependent and interdependent, just like the right and left hands of people, if they are dependent on the two, then their days will be full of happiness...
Family and love are both very important, and the most important thing is to find a good way to unify the two...
To a certain extent, love is sublimated into family affection.
Learn to quiet yourself, immerse your mind, and slowly reduce your desire for things. Reset yourself to zero often, every day is a new starting point, there is no age limit, as long as your desire for things is appropriately reduced, you will win more chances to win. Learn to care for yourself, only by caring for yourself, can you have more energy to care for others, if you have enough ability, you should try to help the people you can help, so that you get a few happiness, help others more and be kind to yourself, because helping others is also a kind of happiness, which is also a way to reduce stress.
Perhaps, we have always thought that family affection can be changed forever. But we all know a saying: "The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait." "In the face of such a problem, I believe that it is difficult for everyone to give up, but there is still a choice. >>>More
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