Should I get divorced? It s tangled. What to do? 40

Personally, I suggest that you get a divorce, 1, the child's education problem, with such a father, obviously you can't get the father's positive example education, and it is possible for the child to follow the father's learning. 2.Life is too short, just a few decades, a woman's best years are just a few years, don't let your life be full of regrets and regrets, you still have the ability to pursue happiness.

3. After the divorce, you can find a job, earn your own money, take care of your children, and educate your children.

Therefore, I personally recommend that you divorce, after all, a marriage that you can get by is also a harm to your children and yourself.

You should get a divorce, don't think about your children and wronged yourself. You're not happy at all in a marriage like this. Life is originally built on both material and spiritual aspects, and you don't get anything, what's the point of you wanting to live with him again.

Most women think about their children when they get divorced, and I think their children will understand you and support you when they grow up. When you divorce, you first leave the child to him temporarily, and then take the child away when you stabilize your footing, like him, he can't survive if you leave, let alone take care of the child, leave him and live your own life.

Don't get entangled, if you really can't get by, don't put up with it for the sake of the child, because the child will also be responsible, and he is also his own flesh and blood. If you blindly tolerate this marriage, you will be very unhappy, and it is better to end it early. This is good for both parties, and the child can have time to see him, if justice is to judge you.

Be. It's the best, but if it's not awarded to you, he'll have visitation. Strive to find the next happiness.

You haven't been married for eight years. lived. In fact, marriage no longer exists.

But two people need to have a good talk. Clear up misunderstandings between them. Focus on living in harmony.

It's better for kids. It will also make a nice family. But divorce also comes with certain risks.

If you find a good husband again, it will be good. If you find another one. Not good, husband.

It's going to be worse than it is now. So I'm not in favor of your divorce. The two of them sat down and had a good talk.

are determined to live a good life and raise children. The family is still okay.

It is against the law for a child to be under the age of 18 and for the parents to divorce. And you're not too young. I suggest that you do not divorce, live happily with your husband, and give your children a warm and happy home.

As for your husband's problem, I think you should communicate with him appropriately, point out to him what you are not happy with, and tell him that you will give him another chance. I think the most wronged thing about your divorce is the children. If the child is so young, will he lose his mother?

Don't let his young heart take root in the dark.

Finally, I wish you a happy family, thank you for your support.

I think you deserve a divorce. Your marriage? It has come to an end.

There is no love. Now it's the child who is holding you in the middle. When he doesn't ask about your family, loses most of his savings, doesn't know how good you are to him every day, does nothing every day, rests and plays games, and doesn't see that he cares about you and the children, you really should have divorced a long time ago, why are you still with him now, waiting for him to repent?

It's time for you to sober up and make up your mind to break up with him, and you'll be happy.

In fact, marriage is run by two people together, and your husband can't be blamed for your unfortunate marriage, you try to care about your husband for the sake of your children, and reason with him, explaining that the head of the family must support the family and children, and you can't play games and block games all the time, which will make the world look down on you. If your husband loves you and loves this family, he will change, if he is still the same after a while, then he is a man who has no courage, you can choose to divorce, and you must take the children away.

In order to give the child a complete home, don't create a shadow on the child from an early age and affect his growth and learning. You also have to communicate well with the object yourself, for the sake of your parents and children. When the child succeeds in school, he will be able to work.

It's the day you get ahead.

Your marriage is in name only, and this kind of man does not seek to improve and does not take on family responsibilities. If it goes on, it will be painful. So you don't have to worry about it, just leave.

As for the child, it is his own flesh and blood, and their family will take care of it. You can also visit your children often. When you live well on your own and the economic conditions are good, you can also take the child to you to take care of.

Come to think of it, there's always a way. A good friend of mine, one of whom is in the same situation as you, except that he is a man, his daughter-in-law has a job, but he has to borrow money every month, swipe credit cards, and let my friend take out a loan to buy a car a few months ago, so that my friend is now deducted from his monthly salary and has almost nothing left of the mortgage and car loan, the key is that they also have two children, the eldest daughter is 5 years old, the younger son is 2 years old, and his parents are not in good health. But just like that, he was also determined to get a divorce, because he couldn't get by.

So my advice to you is that if you can endure it, you can endure it, and if you can't bear it, you will leave, the child is 9 years old and has already gone to primary school, there is a small table at noon, and there is a care desk at night. Don't pay attention to the so-called father's love, without a good environment, the father can't be a good example, and it's even worse for the child.

I can't give an accurate answer, but since I have been suffering for so many years, why continue to suffer, the child is eight years old, and he is still a boy, I think he should be able to understand the unhappiness of this marriage, and even if he himself is unhappy, as for the parents, I suggest that you seek ways to improve your financial level, and do not hesitate to drag down your life.

Divorce is never the solution to marriage. No one is perfect. In marriage, both parties have their own shortcomings.

This requires mutual acceptance on both sides. You need to find a job right now, not get divorced. If you have a job, you can divert your attention and will not exaggerate the shortcomings of the other person.

Marriage matters depend on you, if for the sake of children, you can not divorce, communicate with your husband, and try to change him. If you really can't do it, you have to get a divorce, which requires you to work hard and take care of the children, because it is not appropriate for your husband to take care of the children in that state. It's up to you to decide.

It's okay to live like this, just shoot when it's time to shoot, sooner or later it's the rhythm of divorce, and life will get better after hard work.

A divorce should be done, both for your own sake and for your children's sake. While you're still young, be resolute. I'm sure your kids will understand you.

You're welcome. Although the old saying goes, it is better to tear down ten bridges than to destroy a marriage, but you need love and mutual assistance from both parties, and now you have been suffering for 8 years, do you want to suffer any more, and your husband's current behavior will leave bad habits for the child and will mislead his judgment

Divorce is never the solution to marriage. No one is perfect. In marriage, both parties have their own shortcomings.

This requires mutual acceptance on both sides. You need to find a job right now, not get divorced. If you have a job, you can divert your attention and will not exaggerate the shortcomings of the other person.

Hello, this question depends on whether you still have feelings for each other, whether you have children, if you have children, I don't think you should divorce, for the healthy and happy growth of children, and strive to maintain the warmth of the family for the future of children.

It depends on how the other person treats you and whether the other person is self-motivated in life. If it is good for you, and at the same time maintain a positive attitude towards your life, it is recommended not to divorce.

If you have children, but the other party treats you badly at all, and you are lazy all day long, it is recommended to divorce! Don't be wronged by wanting to give your child a complete family.

Let's get a divorce. 8-year-old children are already sensible, you can first imagine what children can learn in such a family environment, and what kind of psychological impact will be affected?

Parents are the first teachers of children, if children follow such fathers, can you put your mind at ease? Eight years old is the age when you are already in elementary school, communicate more with your children, and there are many single mothers in modern society, give yourself some confidence, you can too, even if the conditions are poor, it will not be worse than now.

Your marriage exists in name only, it is really difficult, nine years and eight years of marriage I think you are not just for the children, because you still love each other, but you can't communicate, each can't let the other be caused, I hope you can put down the shelf for the sake of the child and give way to each other, talk to him calmly with a sincere heart, it is best to keep this home. It's really not good, it's a matter of time before you break up.

In fact, the relationship between husband and wife is gone, don't make do with the child, the child lives in a noisy atmosphere all day long, in fact, it is a kind of injury, it is better to divorce, it is also a relief for the child, you are reluctant to let the child go to see the child often, it is much better than such a marriage that exists in name.

I can't see the happiness of the future, I think it's still leaving, you, for the sake of the child, one day the child will grow up, and the day you will leave you, what should you do, I think the two really can't get by, don't delay, or agree to leave.

You don't have the love of husband and wife, and you don't have the reality of husband and wife, you can file for divorce, but the problem is the child, you can give it to your husband first, and then take the child back when the economy improves a little.

People live, the upper ones are the elderly, and the lower ones are the children. Of course, you can't be too embarrassed. I think you'd better get it done.

Resume. For the child to have a complete home. Do more self-examination, seek common ground while reserving differences, seriously change yourself, and strive to keep this home perfect.

Go for it. You will succeed.

Divorce is a big deal, you must think about it, you really can't get by, you don't have to worry about it, just leave when you should leave.

Hello, if this is the case, your marriage has already existed in name only, then divorce and then start a family again, marriage is not maintained like this, so there is no point in speaking, if your husband has not been enterprising, and your relationship is completely broken, then it is better to divorce and go your own way, to seek your own happiness.

Well, that's how life is. Probably. We've been together for so many years. So that's it. Make do with it! His current problem is. Love to play games. Do not educate children. So be it! Probably.

A family is the result of two people working together, and neither you nor your husband went to the cause to solve the problem and worked together. Instead, they took care of their own things, and they didn't think about their children at all, their families were scattered, and the biggest victims were children.

Eight years have passed, aren't you just for the children? Recognize and endure to give the child a complete home, of course, you have a good deal of the husband's problem, talk to him from the bottom of your heart, give him a chance to correct his mistakes again, life is short, you can have a few eight years, take a step back and open the sky, endure and be happy at night, everything the son will see.

You have to ask yourself, what do you think in your heart, if you can persevere, for the sake of the children and the family, then you have to not divorce. That's it.

Legal Analysis: Choose a lifestyle that makes you happy and keep your mindset. After calming down, think about the gains and losses of divorce, consider whether the people around you can live for a lifetime, the question is who it is, whether you can live a good life, and make a decision after thinking about it, there is nothing to hesitate about.

Legal basis: Article 1076 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where a husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

If your other half is not good to you, you have suffered a lot of grievances in this marriage, you should choose divorce, divorce is a very big thing for you, you must think about it carefully and you can also discuss it with your friends or family.

In fact, there are many things involved in divorce in a relationship, and I think you should think more about balancing all aspects of the relationship. But don't be wronged.

I think if you are struggling, since you are already entangled, since you have a tangled psychology, then it means that you have distrust of this marriage.

I think that once people have the idea of divorce, the hesitation is just delaying time, and the final result is still going to be a distraction.

We have more relatives in our family, and there are also many divorced relativesMy two cousins, a cousin, and a cousin are divorced

The divorce of the two cousins was almost because they were obstinately paid by mistake at the beginning, and later found that the ex-husband was not worth entrusting for life at all, and he didn't even have the least sense of responsibility, let alone anything else, so he chose to divorce;

The cousin divorced because his ex-wife disliked him for not being able to earn money, his family was poor, and he threw himself into the arms of others in order to pursue a better material life;

The cousin divorced because her ex-husband disliked that her cousin was not a very good helper, and she couldn't go to the hall or the kitchen, so her ex-husband chose the other half who was more in line with his conditions to get married.

I feel all the things I have seen and heard with my own eyesOnce one or both parties are bored with the other half or married life or run away blindly, then the marriage relationship will not be maintained to the end, even if one or both parties hesitate repeatedly, it is only delaying time, and the result of divorce is difficult to change.

I thinkDivorce is not about who is right and who is wrong, If there is a problem in a relationship, both parties must be responsible, as Sun Tan in the marriage relationship, I am convinced of this; The focus is on whether the marriage can bring a sense of stability and happiness to the two people in the relationship, if as the subject saidIf you feel tired, then I don't think there is any need to forcibly maintain it, so let's get together and disperse, divorce and get rid early.

In addition, I would like to remind youIf the subject chooses to divorce, be sure to consider the distribution of the joint property of the husband and wife, if you have the conditions, it is better to find a professionalLawyer help to solve, what doesn't belong to us, we are not greedy, but what we deserve cannot be easily given up.

The above is my point of view, please refer to the subject.