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There was once a classmate who was not wealthy, but he often wore the most expensive shoes, as long as he had **, he had to borrow money to buy them.
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I have seen that this kind of people generally have strong self-esteem and a bit of distorted values, they think that only money can express themselves, and they don't like this kind of people.
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There is a boy in our school, who was once sent to the wall of the college to complain, because he is too good at pretending, he said that he has all kinds of visas, and his family is very rich, but he has never been able to show it.
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I've seen a lot, for example, a classmate I met in high school, his family didn't have that much money at all, but he just wanted to pretend to be so rich on the surface, and he couldn't understand such a person.
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I have a classmate who wears fake name brands every day, and his family doesn't have much money, but he has to pretend to be rich, and invite guests to dinner and sing K.
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Our classmates have it, and his family conditions are obviously very ordinary, but he still has to pretend to be rich, maybe to make others envy him, maybe to show off himself.
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For those who don't have money and love to pretend, they just have a lot of vanity.
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My roommate, with the 200 unknown small bags that her boyfriend bought in installments, said that the ** small ck that people just bought was a cheap broken bag.
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There is a category of people who belong to pure clothing, without the elegance of a gentleman, and they are bragging and swearing when they open and close their mouths. This is not to pave the way for myself in the future, but to be a real gangster, this kind of person is not advisable, and my classmates in the dormitory are like that.
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A colleague of mine boasted that her family is a big local taxpayer, she has millions of cash at home at any time, she has a villa or something, but in fact, she is still renting a house, and it is a low-rent house, I don't understand how she can say it, and she is not afraid of other people's jokes.
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At a class reunion, there was a classmate whose family was still not very good at his career and work, and he borrowed a compelling car and rented some luxury goods in order to leave his classmates with a good life.
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When I joined a guitar club in college, the other teachers chose the best guitar among us to demonstrate to us, but the student with the best guitar was the student who received the highest poverty grant.
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Around us, there is no shortage of such people, very rich, but not ostentatious, very low-key; There will also be such people who have no money, but pretend to be rich and are very flamboyant. Isn't it too hypocritical for a person who has no money but wants to pretend to be rich? Let's talk about this topic together!
1. There are some people who have no money, but it is too hypocritical to pretend to be rich.
There are some people who often have no money, but they are afraid that if they don't have money, others will look down on them, so they will put on a show and pretend that they are rich. Often this vanity makes him lose more money, which is called death to save face. For example, when you go to a restaurant to eat, you can have an AA system, but you have to treat yourself, others are deadlocked, and after you pay the money, others will think that he is very generous, but in fact, he is already poor in private, such a person is too hypocritical, and he is sad in the end.
Second, some people are there to meet their own needs, such as the need for making friends.
There is a situation where if you are poor, others will not want to associate with you, because others think that with you, they may give a lot and not suffer for themselves, so many people will stay away from the poor. Nowadays, there are a lot of people who think this way, so there are some poor people who pretend to be rich in order to be able to make friends.
3. Poverty is not terrible, you must have ambition.
In fact, many rich people are not born rich, and many people get it through their own efforts. Poverty is not terrible, what is terrible is that the poor have no ambition, some people are poor and completely give up on themselves, do not work hard, do not strive to obtain wealth, such poor people, others will always look down on them. As long as people are not short of ambitions, they can achieve success through their own efforts and become wealthy, and such people can gain the respect of others.
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Yes. His income is not very high, but he pretends to be rich for the sake of face, this kind of person is very hypocritical.
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I think people who don't have money but have money because they are too vain, and they always feel that they are seen as rich and have a sense of superiority.
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Nowadays, people who have no money have to pretend to be rich, just to satisfy their vanity, they are all false, and those who are really rich are very low-key.
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Most of the people who don't have money and like to pretend to be generous like to be a leader in life, and there are indeed such people in my life. It's not uncommon to all of us.
This kind of person is generally accustomed to being someone else's leader. Whether he can or not, or whether he has the ability to do so, he likes to lead the direction of others.
There are many reasons for this, first of all, it may be because this person has not been managed by his family since he was a child, and then he himself likes to be the boss and has a rebellious mentality, so that he will not develop this habit until he grows up.
Moreover, once you do everything in life for a long time, you will develop a habit. It is also possible that he has had this habit since he was a child, so he will still be like this when he grows up.
Actually, this kind of person is not very likable. Although he seems to be generous, it is unrealistic and does not give a very real feeling. Her pretense of being very generous gives people a very hypocritical feeling, so most of the time people don't like this kind of person, but will stay away from this kind of person.
Because he is not worthy of deep friendship, it is likely that he only maintains a very shallow relationship and cannot become a friend in the true sense of the word.
Once this kind of person goes to work in society, he will give people a particularly realistic feeling. At work, her personality is not likable, but will bring some bad opinions to herself.
So, for the kind of people around us, try to have as little contact as possible. Let's not be that kind of person.
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Of course, my brother from my aunt's house is a contractor of a renovation team. In those years, when the property market was good, the contractors they worked together made a lot of money and became rich bosses.
This brother of mine doesn't know how to make money, he just thinks about how not to fall behind. I forced my aunt to buy him a house, but I couldn't even pay the loan. There are two children in the family, and the second child can't even afford to go to kindergarten.
I dropped out of school at a young age to work as an apprentice in a barber shop, and the living expenses of the whole family were supported by my sister-in-law's selling vegetables, and my sister-in-law's mother's family made my sister-in-law divorce him.
In fact, his craftsmanship is very good, and there are many people looking for him to decorate, and others can make money, but he can't make money. Before the construction period was over, he asked his customers for money for various reasons.
Then take his fox friends out to eat and drink, and he is very generous, and he likes others to call him a brother and a boss. It seems that this is how he realizes the value of his life and makes others respect him.
In fact, it is his wife and children who suffer, and those of us who know the inside story naturally despise him. This is not the best example of a person who has no money and likes to pretend to be generous, and it is a bit too much.
Relying on his wife to support his two children, he is often helped by his parents, but he takes others out to sing, eat and drink, which is ridiculous to think about.
If you suffer your relatives, you may not be able to make true friends, if you are a true friend, how can you bear to see him like this. So he is both an example and a lesson.
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I feel like it's my husband.
In fact, I usually hate the most, no money and pretend to be generous people feel very disgusting, when I was in love with my husband before, I always felt that he was just joking, not serious, who knew that after getting married, he still likes to pretend to be generous, which makes me very annoying just like we are married, we have children after we get married, and there are a lot of places to use money every day, so I can only save, because we only work alone.
We are a family of three, only he has the economy alone** Even if the two of us save the baby, all kinds of places need money, and we can't save it, just like I can't save it, every time we go out, I say I want to buy this, I want to buy that, but I just say I don't buy it, but when my husband goes out, he always says, it's not that there is no money in his pocket, why don't you buy it.
And every time I go out, I will say, do you want to buy clothes, you can buy if you want, and wear street goods all day long, as soon as he says this kind of thing, I am very angry, I will say that you think I want to wear street goods, and it's not that you don't have the ability to make money, don't I also want to wear clothes in the store? He said that he had money, and I was unwilling to buy it myself.
I didn't bother to quarrel with him, because I felt that arguing with him was boring, and it was true that we were rich enough to go to the store to buy clothes, but after going to the store to buy clothes, then our days would be over? Do you just go out in two clothes when you go out all day? So I don't want to quarrel with him, and I don't want to explain to him why I'm so frugal, in fact, I didn't save so much money when I was a little girl before, but now I have a baby is different.
You said that he knows how to talk big all day long, and he pretends to be generous when he has no money, and he has to be serious when he has time to work by himself, and he can earn a little more.
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Such people value love and righteousness, don't care about money, it is not easy for everyone to make money, and they are not willing to take advantage of others.
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I'm surrounded by stingy people.
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It's better than being stingy and having no money. It's nothing more than envy, jealousy, and hatred.
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There was a classmate who didn't have much money, so he used six or seven credit cards to spend money back and forth. And the classmates who have opened factories and engaged in industry are quite stingy.
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I'm just someone who can't afford to be generous.
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People who pretend and brag are generally people who have no one in their eyes, they have a natural sense of superiority, even if they can't be better than others, they will still be very conceited, and they talk big all day long, and many people can't believe what they say.