I m not a boyfriend yet, but I don t have anything to talk about

Updated on psychology 2024-04-11
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all, do you need to know who you like or can tolerate as an introvert? If you can, I have the right for you to do it Now many couples are asking when they play **, what are you doing! And then speechless, all the same, why?

    Because you haven't found the common ground that belongs to you, this common ground is not something you subjectively look for, but unintentionally You both love each other, but you are embarrassed to open this mouth I advise you, you must not take the initiative, because introverted boys don't like girls who take the initiative You have to think about how to hint at him, let him know that you like him very much and love him For example, you ask him, do you have a girl you like? Look at how he says it depends on the situation, for example, if he says no, you ask him why he doesn't? He will say that because no girl likes me, you say no, you have a high vision!

    So what kind of girls do you like? If he's interested, he'll say he likes girls like you, I'm guessing, too, but that's probably it, and the rest is your own efforts I can only help you with this, you make a reference!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People are selfish (all for themselves).While you're still young, learn more. That's all I can tell you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This should be due to personal personality, I think in this case it is generally the boy who should control the right to mobilize emotions, maybe he is not very good at this skill. Then you can do it too. It's just that I think that kind of feeling between lovers doesn't need to be deliberately pursued, it should be natural.

    If you still don't feel it, it's best to think about what's the problem?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No words, no love, figure it out, true love will not stop the exchange of feelings!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Get to know him better, find your common topic, and it will be easy to do when you find it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You just tell him that I like you very much, and I love you very much. Maybe he thinks the same way, I really don't know what you are doing so introverted, what results can you wait like this? Although you are a girl, can you take the initiative this time?

    Happiness is within reach, it's up to you what you do next, I wish you happiness

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hint at him, or bravely confess, in fact, nothing can be said to be normal, especially between boyfriend and girlfriend, obviously they talked about it before they were friends, but they didn't have anything to say after becoming boyfriend and girlfriend! You can tell him about the people and things you met today, and you can also ask him what he is happy about and unhappy! You can also introduce each other to the school, and there are a lot of topics!

    Work hard, happiness is not far away!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Someone who has come here tells you a word: let it be. There is another saying: people's hearts must change.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are a lot of such phenomena, and it is best to find some hobbies together, so that everyone's topics will be more, and I personally recommend online games, and now fashion men and women like it very much, and sports are also good!

    If not, I think the boy is already wondering if he still likes you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What society. Learn to be a savage girlfriend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Introverted boys have no mood. By the mood of the boy may be by some bad. It's really hard to find the right match. Take your time to find it yourself. It's almost possible to tolerate each other and fall in love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Love is like this, as long as everyone doesn't give up, there will be a turnaround. If you stop at this time, you will miss out on a beautiful love.

    Or a little more initiative, in fact, love is so passive, love will always be closed.

    Hint at him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, which means that he himself may be an introvert and not good at words! If he is not an introvert and has nothing to say to you, it means that he really doesn't want to talk and communicate with you, and he doesn't like you, which is the rhythm before the breakup!

    If you are still willing to date your boyfriend, you can also take the initiative to communicate with him and ask him why he has nothing to say to you. May you be happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, it can only be explained in two aspects, the first aspect, it is possible that he really has no feelings for you, there is no emotional development, and the other aspect can show that his current focus is all on study and work, and it is also for your future life to achieve better happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, this situation shows that he is a little tired of you, and the two parties have reached a point where there is nothing to talk about, so you must communicate with your boyfriend well, understand each other's thoughts, and strive for both parties to get back on the right track.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, it largely means that there is a crisis and rift in the relationship between the two of you, and it is very necessary for the two of you to communicate and exchange well to eliminate each other's estrangement and contradictions, so that your relationship will last.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, it means that your boyfriend doesn't particularly love you anymore. If your boyfriend loves you, then he will have a lot to say about you. This means that he is a little tired of you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, which means that the two of you don't have any common language, and he finds it boring to be with you, then you should find some common topics or do something meaningful together.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It may be that he has no feelings for you, it may be that he is an introvert, or it may be other reasons, in short, you need to figure it out, otherwise it is not conducive to your future development.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, it means that your relationship is not as strong as before, so sweet, and it means that you usually lack effective communication. In fact, the relationship needs to be maintained for a long time, I hope you have time to communicate more with your boyfriend, do some things together, and have some common chat topics.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, it means that the relationship between you has faded, and there is no common language between you, and there is no affection for you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Boyfriend has nothing to say to you. One is that he can't speak and doesn't know what to say.

    Also, I don't feel anything about you anymore, it is possible that you talk too much and are too boring, and I usually feel that you are annoyed.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If your boyfriend and you don't have anything to say, it means that there is a lack of effective communication between you, so you can't find common topics, and you don't know each other well enough.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It may be that the two of you have been together for a long time, and your boyfriend will feel that he has nothing to say to you, you can observe whether he has a lot of words to others, if he is just with you and has nothing to say, then you have to consider whether your boyfriend is no longer interested in you, if he talks very little to other people, it means that he is such a person who talks less.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It may be that there is a crisis in the relationship between the two people, or the relationship between the two people has reached a flat temperature, and two people need to adjust it together.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It shows that there is no affection between the two of you, and if he really cares about you, he will be with you and have endless words. Now that you don't even have to say anything, you should break up too.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Your boyfriend didn't talk to you. Explain that your boyfriend is angry with you. It must be that you didn't do a good job in some way and made him unhappy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Prove that your relationship has reached a critical point and lost, a certain amount of freshness, and then just regain the original freshness.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It means that the two of you are not suitable for being together at all.

    Your boyfriend doesn't have anything to say to you, and then your relationship comes to an end. Only when two people can communicate effectively calmly can the conflict be truly resolved.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Explain that you can separate, don't talk together, how to survive in the future.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The first reason is that the two did not reach the point where the other person was satisfied.

    The second reason is that there is a crisis in the relationship between the two people.

    The third reason is that the relationship between two people has reached a dull period.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, probably because he doesn't like you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If he still doesn't want to say it, it means that his feelings for you are weak.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It means that there is no common topic between you, you can find more topics that your boyfriend is interested in and chat with him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Whoever it is? No matter who you've been spending time with? Of course, there is no common topic, which means that you have reached a bottleneck period, and when you reach that quiet period, you need to work hard to maintain this. Well, it's okay to add a surprise to this kind of life.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Boyfriend, you two don't have nothing to say right now? It shows that the two of you have finished chatting about many common topics, and I think it is better to find more common ground in love.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If your boyfriend has something to say to you, it just feels like the relationship between you has become relatively flat.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Seeing the description of the landlord, his eyes were a little hot, and he felt distressed in his heart. I feel sorry for the landlord's long-distance relationship, and I feel sorry for all the girls in the long-distance relationship. I am also a woman who has been in a long-distance relationship, it is not easy, and there is a good result in the end, but this process is really like a sudden tear, just because I saw a similar scene, and my body remembers the mood at that time.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    There are three reasons why your boyfriend doesn't talk much, one is that you are too familiar to talk about. The other is that he is more introverted and doesn't talk much. There is also a language that you don't have in common.

    There are many reasons why he doesn't talk much. It's not worth arguing with him about this. It's better to find something to talk about yourself.

    There's really nothing to talk about, so we just do our own thing. We'll talk about it when we have a topic.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Maybe your boyfriend doesn't usually like to talk, but a lot of boys don't talk much, as long as he cares about you, will take care of you, and loves you, I think it's not good for boys to talk too much, right?

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If your boyfriend has you in his heart and likes you, he won't talk less to you, he doesn't talk much to you, he can only say that he doesn't care about you so much.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    This kind of relationship should be seriously considered, maybe one day he will say that he will break up, and now his feelings for you are not so deep.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    People don't want to talk.,It means that he really wants to find a girlfriend by himself.,And he's a person who can think independently.。。

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I'm tired of it, but he doesn't want to take the initiative to be with you, or maybe the next one is still on the way and hasn't arrived.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Because he felt that it was not right to say too much, it was better not to say it, so he slowly didn't want to say anything else.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Maybe people don't talk much. You can talk to him more and drive him more.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Maybe it's just that I'm tired and don't want to talk! Everybody has it.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    There's only one possibility, he doesn't like you.

    1.First of all, are you always making trouble in front of him, if so, he is tired of it and wants to break up, what do you like!

    2.If you used to behave well, he also took the initiative and cared about you, but now it's like this, then he has a dog outside, and I wish you could do it yourself! He didn't have to take responsibility for the breakup.

    3.There is another kind, he may be a homosexual, originally intended to use you as a cover, so he has always been unactive, doesn't care, ignores you, and doesn't care about you in front of him, whether it's a man or flirting, he is indifferent! It's easy to judge that he rarely "touches" you during the love phase (if you have ever been).

    Section 2In the third case, it is recommended that you don't feel sad, pack your bags, pack your mood, and turn away! Find a man who loves himself and cares about himself!

    If it's the first case, you have to learn to be sensible, don't be too clingy to your boyfriend, change your stinky temper, you can't make a big fuss at every turn, thunder and anger, so that your boyfriend has no power to parry! Spend your focus and time on reading books and learning skills, you have your own circle of friends, work circles, and life sustenance, don't stare at him 24 hours a day, just give him appropriate freedom and appropriate care. Also, communicate well with him, and hope that he can take the initiative and care more about you.

    But if he runs out of patience and wants to leave you, let him go!

    The most helpless thing in the world is: the passing time and the departing heart.

    His heart is gone, and it's useless to keep his empty body, isn't it!

    If you don't care about you, you can basically judge that he doesn't love you, and he doesn't have you in his heart. Congratulations here, a woman who can't get it is always a treasure. On the contrary, the woman who can easily get it is tofu dregs.

    It's as simple as that, and if you see the essence of this man, he's worthless. It is advisable to ask him to give you a clear answer and not to lose the opportunity for others to pursue you because of him. Do you think such a statement is reliable?

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    1. When your boyfriend no longer takes the initiative to contact you.

    1. No longer entangled: For girls, it may be easy to fall in love a little bit too much, and they will always rush forward without hesitation when they encounter love, but girls, you know that if you are in love, even if you fall in love, and the other party suddenly no longer contacts you, you must not give up yourself for the sake of falling out of love, you have to think about it, others look like this, maybe they have no feelings for you themselves, or they may have no feelings for you at this moment, so if you meet such a man, Don't bother with it anymore, because if he really loves you, he'll come back to you.

    2. Focus on your own things: In fact, falling out of love is not painful, the real painful thing is that when you fall out of love, you will always be unable to think about it, if your man suddenly disappears and ignores you, then you don't need to be too sad, but should focus on doing your own things, which can not only distract you, but also make you have less time to think about him.

    Second, your boyfriend doesn't take the initiative to find you to deal with it.

    1. Find the reason from yourself: There is a reason for the discovery of anything, when the boyfriend ignores him, first find the reason from himself, whether he said something that should not be said or did something that should not be done.

    2. Ask him directly: If it is not your own reason or you can't figure out what you have offended your boyfriend, you can ask your boyfriend directly to see what he will say, or if there are other reasons.

    3. Take the initiative to contact him: If your boyfriend doesn't contact you, then you can take the initiative to go, love is two-sided, so you ask him to make yourself a little fairer at the same time, it doesn't matter if he doesn't take the initiative to contact, it's okay to take the initiative yourself, you are wrong, obediently admit your mistakes, and then make your boyfriend soft-hearted.

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