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If a friend puts forward the difficulties, you two share them, but if you want to have good things but swallow them alone, then you will still be friends with him?Therefore, we must share blessings and hardships, and friends who share difficulties are true friends!When a friend is blessed, don't worry too much about whether he wants to share it with you.
The most important thing is whether he will be with you when you are also in trouble. I think you're still a little unbalanced, after all, people helped you, and now you're happy, but I forgot, it's normal to be unbalanced. I've been there, and I've felt the same way.
But if you want to open up a little, from another point of view, it is not always smooth sailing, and there are always times when you encounter difficulties, and this is when you really see who your friend is. Unfortunately, this society is usually not as good as we think. So my thoughts are just the opposite of yours.
It's just that there are only friends among them"There are blessings to share, but there are difficulties to be different. "
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His difficulty is to give himself a chance, a chance to learn!This society is so realistic, let's put a balance in mentality.
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Oh, if you are blessed, you should share it.
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I think we need to go through something to make a friend a share, it can be any common goal or task, and if two people can work together, support each other, trust each other, and build a deeper relationship. This is to make friends become a share, and many conditions need to be met, specifically including only friends who have experienced ups and downs together can become a share, only friends who are kind-hearted can become a share, and friends need to go through many tests to become a share. The first point is that it takes a lot of tests to make friends become a share, and friends who have withstood the tests can become a share.
A shared relationship requires selfless mutual assistance between two people, which requires a lot of effort in the interaction with each other. In the process of supporting and helping friends, I also need to face a lot of problems and difficulties, and I have to go through a lot of tests. Therefore, if friends want to become a common burden, it is by no means a relationship that can be reversed, but the poor orange group needs both parties to go through many experiences together and successfully overcome difficulties, so that they can truly change from friends to share responsibilities, and the relationship between them can reach a new level.
The second point is that only friends who have experienced the ups and downs together can become the same burden. If two people want to become friends, it is indeed not very difficult, as long as they have a common language in a certain aspect. However, it is much more difficult for friends to become a common burden, and to be specific, only friends who have experienced storms together and have developed deep feelings for each other can become a common burden.
This is the premise and basis for friends to become sharers. Only when these conditions are met can friends become co-bearers. The third point is that friends should take care of each other, so that the relationship can become a share.
The relationship of shared responsibility is the state of mutual support, mutual dependence, and selfless mutual assistance between two people. This is an extremely intimate state of relationship, and it is only possible to develop such a relationship if we treat each other with all sincerity. In order for friends to become a shared burden, they need to continuously develop their relationship with each other and deepen their feelings with each other in order to have the conditions to become a shared burden.
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Someone asked me what the fundamental meaning of being a friend was, and I was speechless about it......Some people say that friends are born and accompanied by life; Some people say that friends are like sunshine and spring breeze; Some people say that friends are pressure and motivation; Some people say that the chain is imitated, and friends are a burden and helpless ......And I think that friends are sometimes a gift from God to me, and sometimes they are a painful ......
I have a lot of friends, but very few of them can speak to ...... of my heartI met them by chance, and I parted by accident
What I want to say most is that friends are hard to be ......
It's hard to be a friend [What is failure?] Nothing, just one step closer to success; What is success? It is that all the roads leading to failure have been passed, and there is only one road left, and that is the road to success. 】
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