I don t understand how people are like this, why everyone doesn t understand me

It's a bit too much to call her hypocritical just like that! Because you judge the person only by her association with you, not by taking an impartial position! To put it simply:

She treats you like this, it doesn't mean that she treats others like this, it only shows that she doesn't pay attention to you psychologically! If it is her relatives or boyfriend, I am afraid her attitude is much better! To put it bluntly, it's nothing more than that she's using you, and you're just a pawn to her!

Maybe this is her way of dealing with people! You know, everyone's personality and experience are different, you can't expect them to be good to you, this society is inherently unfair, so we have to work hard to realize our own value and make people pay attention! For this kind of person to stay away from her, open more eyes in the future!

Enyou people are like this, on the surface, they promise better, first make you think that he is a better person, but in fact, if there is something to ask him for help, he will definitely have all kinds of reasons to reject you.

You said that you left a message on Q or something, and he didn't reply.,Then you call him ** and ask him.,But maybe he will say something I didn't see your message or something.,This kind of person actually wants to maintain a good interpersonal relationship on the surface.,But really don't want to help others at all.,Well, I personally think so.。

This kind of person will not contact you in the future, and you will not pay attention to him when he asks you for help, and return his body in the way of others; Or you directly ask him for help in person, so that he will not be able to excuse himself

Hope you are satisfied.

I remember that there was an ancient saying in the past, I should repay the country with a countryman, and treat me with everyone when I meet her, and you will treat her as she treats you, otherwise your heart will be very unbalanced. Her enthusiasm is already very realistic, so you are also very enthusiastic about it: "I'm sorry, I'm also busy, I'll help you next time!" , so that she will not come to you several times.

If the benefits come too easily, it is a kind of indulgence. Getting something without giving will form a bad habit, so take it for granted, remember.

She is just pursuing the maximization of her own interests, for her help, she can be by the way, and if she needs time and energy, she can't say that she can't do it. If you have a problem, you don't have to look for her, you look for your true friend, you look for her, she does it for you, she will feel that you owe her, and she will let you pay it back

The earth rotates, and people change

Not to mention the society we live in.

There is no real friendship between people!

Only real benefits!

The relationship between people and people is the relationship between using and being used!

For some people, friends are meant to be betrayed.

You should learn to adapt to society.

To be a human being is to be hypocritical, and to treat others in their own way.

Don't look at the word "person", it's easy to write, but it's troublesome to actually do. Take your time, I don't know what kind of attention to give you about this, and I don't know the actual situation, be bold and find out, don't guess!

Whether a person is sincere or not depends on whether he helps you when you encounter difficulties. You're a friend

I can only say: after a long time & tired of it, the society is not ...... than the school

Sometimes decisions don't be too absolute.

Summary. Maybe you haven't met your real Bole, that is, a confidant, or you haven't met someone who likes you, they don't understand you, then what you can do is to do everything well and take everyone seriously, I believe that sooner or later.

Maybe you haven't met your real Bole, that is, a confidant, or you haven't met someone who likes you, they don't understand you, then what you can do is to do everything well and take everyone seriously, I believe that sooner or later.

Not really.

They just asked me to do whatever I wanted, and they didn't ask me what I wanted, and they didn't ask me if I liked it.

Then you can say why you don't want to do it, express your dissatisfaction, and let them think about you from your point of view.

But it's really hard.

If you don't want to study, it's really wrong.

It's hard for you to take that step.

Everybody has their own ideas, and you have to think about it.

Got it. Thank you.

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Summary. Generally speaking, suspicion of the other party's ambiguity with others is a sign of a lack of security!

Hello, I'm walking with you for a while! It's my honor to be with you on the road of life! Everyone doesn't understand you, it sounds like you're lonely, they don't understand why this is happening!

Can you tell us what happened? A platform is a platform for you to talk and a platform for you to understand!

Don't you want to say it? If you don't want to talk to me, find someone you trust to confide in.

I don't want to talk about <> anymore

It's so hard to fall in love, I know he loves me, but I just say that he doesn't love me anymore.

Hugging, the ideal of the heart is inconsistent with what is said. You don't want to, but you're not forced to do this.

He obviously loves me very much, but sometimes he just does things that make me suspicious.

I wanted to find a way to reconcile with him.

Did you break up? What has been done makes you doubt.

Didn't break up, he sometimes I fight with him, he's obviously doing something else, I ask him what he's doing, he says he's looking for something, I ask what he's looking for, he says he didn't look for anything, every time I misunderstand him and suspect him, he always tells me what he's doing after a fight, so I'm sad, and then now he says he's scared of me and doesn't pay attention to me anymore.

I want to find a way to get the two of us back to the beginning, and I can't help myself from wanting to ask him what he's doing, as if the more I talk, I'm worried that he's having an affair with someone else, and I don't know what's wrong with me, it's not like this before.

You're nervous about him! I also know that I will be uncontrollable to ask each other! It seems that the way to solve your relationship has encountered a dilemma, don't ask him, but you can't do it!

Generally speaking, suspicion of the other party's ambiguity with others is a sign of a lack of security!

I don't know how you're getting along? But you don't feel safe in this relationship!

Are you in other relationships where you are also insecure? Or is it just with him? If it's just with him, then there's something wrong with your relationship!

We can analyze and solve it step by step! If you're like this in all relationships, then maybe you're going to need a long-term consultation to solve the problem.

Have you thought about it? Which one do you belong to?

Thank you for the thumbs up! If you're ready to talk to me about security, click on my profile picture to find me!

Everyone has a deep understanding of the difficulty of communication and understanding between people. Putting aside other people's comprehension and their own problems aside, if you often do.

These reasons are not difficult to analyze. From shallow to deep, there are no more than the following four:

First of all, it's because you didn't tell anyone what you thought, or you told it but didn't make it clear.

Secondly, it is because your subconscious mind does not want others to understand you. The human subconscious mind is a strange thing, often contrary to what you can perceive.

The third reason why others don't understand you is that you don't understand yourself. Everyone will agree with the idea that no matter how much effort you make and how much you achieve in self-understanding, you can't fully understand yourself, and there is always something about yourself that you don't know.

You don't know, how can you let others know?

Finally, there is also the situation where others have understood you, and even in some ways understand you more comprehensively and deeply than yourself, but you don't know it, and you are still there to be sad that others do not understand you.