How would you choose a woman?

I am a woman who has been married for a year, and if it were I would not give up my marriage. I don't like men who deliberately create romance to please women, he will be so romantic to me, and he will also give romance to others, I like men who are sincere and persistent and really single-minded, and my husband is such a man who can give me enough security.

Exchange each other's sincerity for happiness and then share. In the face of sincerity, any deliberate behavior is a mustard.

Romance is short-lived, plain is eternal, and a little romantic feeling occasionally in a dull life is the best.

Both love and marriage have a shelf life. After getting married, life will become very ordinary and ordinary, and bumps and bumps are actually happy.

Only when there are shortcomings in life can we know how to cherish the good. As long as I love him, no matter what material conditions he gives me, I will follow! "Neither rich nor poor, healthy or sick, will not break my vows", such vows are not just words....I think I can do it.

There is a warm family who is considerate and cares about his husband!

Before marriage is romantic and sweet, after marriage is plain and practical!

First of all, I will not give up the pursuit of my career easily, if something happens to my family and I need to do something, or take care of my family, then I have no choice but to give up.

My body had problems due to long-term overwork, and I had to stop what I was doing.

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Some women spend their lives seeking to be loved, and through being loved, they realize the meaning of life. And some women seek self-worth all their lives, which they gain through work. The former is dependent on others, and the latter is independent of society.

At one point, I was obsessed with the happiness of being loved, longing for the charity of this person's love for me, and even unconsciously wanting more. But everything in this world is a transaction, feelings are, and so is love. When I ask for love from others but don't reciprocate, my posture unexpectedly becomes pathetic and blind, making myself weak.

No one in this world deserves to be loved, and they should not squander love willfully. So don't turn yourself into a greedy woman in the name of love.

At the same time, how foolish it is to let one's life find meaning in the love that others give! In the past, women could only be bound to marriage, they could not go out to work, they could only be confined to the confines of the family, looking for the meaning of survival in the body of their lover and the heavy housework. And now, women are emancipated and can go out to work and realize their own value in their careers, but I am still obsessed with the love given by others, and how stupid is it to change the active search for survival value to passively obtain value?

When we realize our self-worth at work, we become an independent and confident woman. Maybe for love, you will get a more satisfying experience, after all, the spark of love from the collision of two independent people is more brilliant. In comparison, a woman who is attached to a man is like a silk flower attached to a tree, in fact, the two have become a whole.

For men who like to explore the new, community not only makes people lose the fun of exploration, but also makes vulnerable women become their own burden and pressure.

Of course, this is not a given. It is also possible if a man just likes silk flowers and does not like independent women. Therefore, the key to seeking feminine value in love lies in the needs of men, which women cannot control.

Therefore, in today's society, whether women pursue love or work value is the first choice question for women. If you pursue love, have a beautiful appearance, and know how to give back love, then you may get a husband who satisfies you, and the pursuit of work value can obtain money and realize your own needs, each with gains and losses.

But marriage is a gamble, and everyone is happy if you win, and it doesn't matter if you lose, you can try to put your work first. In that sense, I'm lucky that God gave me a good job.

Of course, in the current society, the first choice of traditional women is marriage. But I think that those with weak personalities can choose marriage directly, and those with strong personalities are better to choose work first, so that they don't have to succumb to others, so that their personalities can be released, so as to live a happy life.