Feeling so humble 30, what is a humble person like?

A military man, his body can be straighter than anyone else. They are always ready to fight for the Motherland. If you want to be honored, don't be a soldier in the first place, don't tell me that life is compelling. I respect every soldier!

Becoming a soldier is not for money, but for exercising yourself! You proudly tell others that you were once a member of the Chinese People's Liberation Army, and I will salute you! No matter how the times change, the mission of the military must be important to everyone!

War is coming, who cares about money. When the war comes, who cares about honor.

Being a soldier is not an ornament, it is a spirit. Your personality is completely unsuitable to be a soldier.

Being a soldier is also good or bad, you can also be a good soldier, your specialty is to exercise well, get good grades, and strive to stay in the army to contribute to the country, don't your classmates fail, you are now on the edge of heaven and hell, if you don't train hard, get the first grades, do a good job, then you go home and are nothing, if you train hard, you will succeed if your grades are good, and your friends will also take you as an example, your opportunities are good, it depends on whether you work hard, you don't accept the good means that you don't admit defeat, But your grades are the first, if not, then you are not dissatisfied, but to die to lose face, I also want to be a soldier, but I don't want to be three years and five years back, then I won't go, I want to be even if I come back, I have to be in charge of one side, this is the ability, look at your performance is estimated to come back in three years, then you don't accept only tell yourself, you don't have a chance, but the opportunity is in front of you, and successful, more powerful than your friends.

In this life? How long did you start in this life? If you really don't accept it, you will be a regiment leader in the future and then go back to your hometown.

The road is self-detribution, don't set limits for yourself.

Blame anyone, you ......Don't chirp crook......edly like aIf you don't want to be a soldier, who wants you to be a soldier, why ......People like you can't get along in the army......People like you will only make people disgusted ......The soldier is respected because he guards the country, suffers hardships, and endures the ...... of sinAnd you don't feel like ......

It's nice to come to the question, why would a person like it be so humble? So I think why like someone to like to wonder about humility. First, they feel that they are not good enough, and they have low self-esteem, and they feel that they cannot satisfy the other party.

Second, they care too much about and rely on each other, feeling that the other party is their own world, their own air, not independent enough, and have no ideas of their own. Third, the gap between the two sides is too large, family background, job, income, etc., and they feel inferior in front of the object. These are the reasons why I am so humble.

When some people look at themselves, they don't say a few good things, and they can say a lot of bad things. Sometimes I hate myself and want to be someone else.

Feeling that they have no strengths, only weaknesses, and a very low self-esteem, why do they hate themselves?

That's because they made up their minds to "don't like yourself".

To achieve this, they look only at their own shortcomings and not at their strengths.

Just stare at your shortcomings, hate yourself, and try not to get involved in any relationships.

That's it. In this way, you can escape in relationships, even if people reject you, you will think in your heart: because I have such a flaw to be rejected, as long as I don't have this flaw, I will be liked.

Inferiority complex is actually a feeling, and friendship is not an objective thing, the reason why you have an inferiority complex is because you feel that you are worth more than the circle of friends.

The value of those people.

Be low. For others, you only see how good others are;

As for yourself, you only see how bad you are.

This is a kind of comparison with others, that is, a subjective "inferiority complex" that arises in interpersonal relationships. If there are no comparable people, then there are no advantages and disadvantages at all, so this is not an objective fact, but a subjective perception.

The sense of value is valuable only by comparison. Of course, if you look at it the other way, the value will change.

So, if you think you have low self-esteem, then from another point of view, you will not have low self-esteem.

Because it's all subjective.

Subjective has an advantage, and the good dust grip is that you can choose to look at things from a different perspective.

The only way to break this cycle.

Just don't compete and compare with others.

But it's not like you're in the world, you have to compare, you have to compare with yourself.

Everyone will be different, you may not be good at what others are good at, and in the same way, what you do well others may not do well.

So it's pointless to compare yourself to others, and doing so will only deepen your inferiority complex.

Everyone has an inferiority complex, but a sound inferiority complex does not come from comparing with others, but from comparing with the "ideal self".

The value of human beings lies in constantly surpassing themselves.

People can have an inferiority complex, but they don't necessarily have to live as a humble person.

When comparing yourself with others, especially when others are much superior to you, it is easy to feel inferior, but it does not mean that you are humble. Because we have feelings of inferiority, we can try to make ourselves better, work on our weaknesses and shortcomings, and let ourselves improve little by little, from weak to strong. But if you feel that you are a humble person, maybe you have to ask, do I myself look down on myself?

A humble person feels that he is very bad, bad, and dark in all aspects of life, and he wants to find a crack in the stone to hide. But it doesn't necessarily mean that you are really much worse than others in every way, but you will feel that your existence is ashamed, bad, and humble, which stems from what kind of person you are in your own heart? So a few questions you can ask yourself?

Do you feel important? Do you think you're worth it? What do you think is the meaning of life?

01 Think of yourself as worthless and have no self-confidence in doing things.

I saw a netizen on the Internet who said:

I feel that I am so worthless, I want money but no money, I want to look good, I want to have no figure, I want ability but not ability, I feel like I can't do anything.

I have a bad personality and a short temper, and I fantasize every day, I feel like I'm really a failure, and I don't know what to do in the future.

In fact, this kind of person is a typical person who lives in humility, and feels that nothing is going well, so he will always give up on himself and feel that he is inferior to others.

In fact, only when a person finds his own value will he slowly find his own self-confidence and establish his own positive cycle in life.

And a person who does not recognize his own value will often feel depressed for no reason and feel that he has little meaning.

People who think they are worthless and lack self-confidence will stay in their own empty world, becoming more and more humble, thus falling into a vicious circle.

In fact, everyone will have their own value, don't look down on yourself too much, no matter what happens, you can't be willing to fall.

Everyone's value is different, so we should think about our own life value from a different perspective, strive to play to our strengths, try to avoid our own shortcomings, and walk out of our own way.

Don't live so humblely, at least you're alive. As long as people have life, they have value, people should value themselves, believe in themselves, and don't let others define your value.

The value of life is equal, no matter what the situation is, we must affirm our own value and be responsible for our own life.

02 I'm embarrassed to refuse others and don't dare to express my position.

Someone on Zhihu asked a question like this:

I was always embarrassed to reject others, afraid to express my position, and always afraid of offending others.

As soon as I encounter these situations, my mind goes blank, I act very nervous, and I often do a lot of things that I don't want to do, and I feel really bad, but I don't know how to change myself.

In fact, a person who pays too much attention to other people's opinions, is always embarrassed to reject others, and does not dare to express his own thoughts will only live more and more humble.

This kind of people who dare not say "no" to others can actually be encountered often in life, and they generally have a relatively low opinion of themselves.

It is difficult for people to reject others, whether they refuse or accept it, they will make themselves uncomfortable.

03 Refusal to step out of your comfort zone and fear of accepting new things.

A person who lives more and more humblely always likes to stay in his comfort zone and is afraid to accept new things.

A person who always stays in his comfort zone is not unwilling to change, but afraid of change because he does not know what kind of change it will bring him.

But if we live in our comfort zone all the time, we can't change our vision, and we can only choose within our own limited scope.

Refusing to step out of your comfort zone is actually a refusal to grow, and you are afraid to accept new things, which actually reflects your extreme lack of self-confidence.

The state of humble people is that they think very low of themselves and think highly of others, and even when others say something that is not too serious, they feel that they are because they have done something wrong.

Humble is to describe the lowly and small, the status is low. A person, in his life, will inevitably encounter some setbacks and blows, under these setbacks and blows, some people, will use their strong psychological quality to resist the past, so as to achieve their own career. And some people, under some setbacks and blows, bear such and such grievances, thus making themselves timid and becoming speechless.

Therefore, these people who seem to be a little too humble must bear it in their hearts.

Humble people always feel that they are bad, bad in all aspects, and do not see any good in themselves.

But the humble sometimes become very conceited, and on other occasions they boast as if they have a lot of honors.

In fact, conceit and inferiority are linked together, and they can't control this degree, so sometimes you feel that they seem to be very conceited, in fact, conceit and inferiority are connected together, and they can't control this degree, so sometimes you feel that they seem to be very conceited, and sometimes they are very inferior.

The humble have a sincere and kind heart, not seeking comfort, but full of sorrows. They are never arrogant, self-righteous, humble and open-minded, kind to others, and helpful.

Humble people will not be looked down upon by others, such people have no confidence in themselves, and they will even speak submissively, and it is difficult to become friends with others.

Humble people always please others, always care about other people's opinions, always suppress themselves, dare not resist, never live out of themselves, such people will be very painful.

Humble people tend to have low self-esteem in real life and are not confident. They are all looking at other people's eyes in their work and life, and they have no ego.

A lowly person who is submissive in everything and has no opinion of his own. Sacrificing one's own interests for the sake of others. There are no principles and no bottom line. I'm tired of living on my own.

Humble people often show a depressed mood and depressed mood. Low self-esteem, depression, often walking with the head down, no friends around, very low sense of existence, generally accompanied by depression.

Under normal circumstances, humble people are psychologically larger, when they were young, they have suffered a relatively large trauma or a bad family background, or other reasons, so that they lack self-confidence, and always feel lower than others, so after a long time, he will form a humble psychology, see no one can be straight, can not raise his head, always feel that he is not as good as others.

Humble people are people who have low self-esteem, and they feel that their status is very low, so they can't hold their heads up in front of people.

A humble person is someone you like very much, you are nice to that person, but that person ignores your goodness.

I don't dare to express my thoughts, and I have no confidence or sense of existence when I speak.

What is a humble person like? A humble person is himself, he has no self-confidence, and modesty is also one thing, and some people are humble, because he has no ability, so he is humble.

Humble people always have low self-esteem, and they always help selflessly whenever their friends ask for anything, and they never think about whether they can do it! Always afraid of losing friends, lonely and alone!

In fact, in the world of feelings, humble people can often give up their principles, or blindly tolerate each other without a bottom line, even if the other party has done something unforgivable, they can also forgive each other.

In the world of feelings, humble people are often unprincipled, have no bottom line, indulge each other, and feel that as long as the other party can love themselves more, then everything can be tolerated.

What does a humble person look like? The first person is not confident, and well, he can't raise his head in front of people. Such a person is a lowly person.