Why are you torn up with others?

Maybe the average girl has a lower tolerance and is more jealous. Being beautiful, having a good family background, top-notch grades, and good interpersonal relationships are all factors that can easily trigger jealousy.

Because my best friend and the roommate in the dormitory were a little conflicted, (I am a dormitory student) and then there was a class, she came to our class to be angry, and loudly quit our class (I am not in the same class as her), of course I was really angry, and no matter that it was class time, I ran to the door of their class and tore her apart, and finally was torn apart by the teacher.

All the quarrels and tears probably come from the disagreement of the three views and the conflict of thoughts. Either it's because it violates my bottom line, such as slandering my reputation and insulting my relatives, which is really unbearable.

I remember once I went shopping for clothes with a girlfriend of mine, and now I bought a blouse in a store, and then I saw the same style in another store, and then my girlfriend asked the boss how to sell this blouse here, and the boss's attitude was very bad, and what he said would definitely be more expensive than yours, and I couldn't stand the worst girlfriend being wronged, so I immediately got up with the boss, and slowly developed to the final tear.

It must have encountered something that is still unbearable, and everyone's patience is limited! For example, hurting parents and insulting family members! These are intolerable.

I'm an impatient person, I only care about the momentary pleasure and don't think about the consequences, but every time I regret what I did when I was impulsive. If someone maliciously slanders me, I will definitely not let the other party go, and I will fight first. Sometimes, though, if someone around me asks me to calm down, I can still calm down.

Sometimes I really can't help it, and I can't bear it anymore, so I can only break out.

Several female colleagues in the unit like to speak ill of others behind their backs, but one day when I said bad things about me, I heard them, so I got angry and quarreled with them.

Because it violated my bottom line, such as slandering my reputation and insulting my relatives, this is really unbearable.

Yesterday I got off work late, and said that I would let him cook the meal before I went home, but when I came home, I found that he was playing a game, so I bought a steamed sheep scorpion and said let me eat first, the key is that I am in **, and I don't eat staple food at night. Hungry and tired, I was. There was a quarrel, and now it's still in the Cold War.

Sometimes I really can't help it, and I can't bear it anymore, so I can only break out.

Internet hot words, originally meant to refer to the struggle between women and women. Now it can also be used to describe the phenomenon of two sides attacking each other, exposing shortcomings, shaking bridges, and scolding each other.

Tearing refers to exposing and insulting without a lower limit. Forced is the meaning of persecution, Duan accompanied by fierce coercion.

Generally refers to coercing the other party into submission through stalking and abuse. Of course, sometimes it also involves revealing the privacy of the other party.

In fact, I feel that most people are reluctant to tear up, because after all, it is a civilized society, and we, as a member of the fact, are willing to live a civilized life ourselves. But in some cases, you have to tear up, that is, there is a situation where you have to endure and endure others and have to make inches, and others have ridden on your head, do you still plan to endure it? Of course not, you have to defend your rights and dignity, isn't it just tearing, who won't, so naturally you will pinch it.

And tearing is really relieving, and when I endure enough in my heart, I will burst out, and I feel refreshed.

In fact, this kind of thing cannot be generalized, and it is believed that only people with low quality at the bottom of society do this, and people in high positions will do the same. After all, everyone is human, why can't you spread if you are angry? For example, you see how intense the tearing between celebrities and Internet celebrities is.

The most typical example is Wang Sicong, you see how many people he has torn up. may be because of an inconspicuous thing, and then as the two people continue to quarrel and ferment, it slowly becomes a thorn in the hearts of two people, so that you don't like me, I don't like you, and then it gradually rises to the stage of personal attack, and it becomes a tear between two people.

We also can't deny that there is another situation, which is that the person is looking for trouble. Some people just like to brush their own sense of existence, and the outlet is those foul language, thinking that they are so bullish, and there is always a feeling of superiority. This kind of person likes to tear up on the Internet, likes to be a keyboard warrior, and uses those big truths every day to kidnap others morally.

This kind of person is scolded, and it is a cancer in reality and the network society, or they just want to hype themselves up in this way, so that tens of thousands of netizens will scold themselves, to put it simply, they want to be crazy. We don't have to pay attention to this kind of person, the dog bites you, you can't bite him anyway.

In fact, most of them are for their own interests, and most of them happen because they can't bear it for a while. And I feel that this situation is more common among girls, because girls' minds are more delicate and sensitive, and if you don't say a word to her, you think you have an opinion on her, so with the war of words, the two of them have developed to the point of having to tear up. In fact, it's just because of an inconspicuous little thing, it's just that two people lack communication and their personalities are too irritable.

Or this kind of person is not psychologically good, does not have that sense of patience, and can't stand a little stinginess, so he naturally likes to vent his emotions in this way. And most of the people in society are this kind of people, so naturally it seems that there are more people who like to tear up.

I don't think it's because of two or three points. The first point is that I can't get used to others; The second point is that you are competitive; The third point is that I am dissatisfied because I failed to pretend to be pressurized.

First, I can't get used to others. In fact, it seems that everyone has such a point of view, whether there is a reason or no reason, that is, I can't get used to the person I hate in my eyes, that person is not necessarily better than you, not necessarily more beautiful than you, but this is the case, I can't get used to you. Do you remember when I was in high school, a girl asked me, "Who do you hate again?"

I said yes. She went on to add that it wasn't that she hated him for anything, but that she hated the kind of person she hated when she saw him. I said no.

Then she said to me, "I have." She was even disgusting, and she scolded that person a lot, and I think that should be a little bit of a reason.

Second, be competitive. I think it's people, it's all about being strong, and no one is far behind, but everyone is not the same degree of strength. You may start to fight with others for some reasons, after all, it is competition, then you must strive to win, but at this time, you are likely to become irritable for some small reasons, and if you say something wrong, you will start to anger your opponent, in fact, we can understand it.

Third, it is caused by the failure of pretending to be forced. In life, no matter what stage you are in, there are always people who love to be the first bird. That is, pretending to be forced.

Once the pretending is successful, it is very brilliant. But once it fails, it is inevitable to condemn. I remember when I was in high school, a boy didn't know anything, so he pretended to know everything in class, but as a result, when the teacher answered the questions by name, he pretended to fail, which attracted ridicule and condemnation from his classmates, and soon, he began to tear apart with many people alone, I think this should be a reason.

The original meaning of the Internet is a hot word, which refers to the struggle between the woman and the woman. Now it can also be used to describe the phenomenon of two sides attacking each other, exposing each other's shortcomings, and scolding and fighting.

Tearing refers to exposing and insulting without a lower limit. Coercion means to persecute and coerce.

Generally refers to coercing the other party into submission through stalking and abuse. Of course, sometimes it also has the meaning of revealing the privacy of the other party.

Tear: Expose (expose).

Forced: Shortcomings or.

<> this is the first day of the opening of the grocery store.

When I was a student, it was rare to have a fate under the same roof. I have met friends who have made friends, I have encountered strange people who do not pay attention to hygiene, and I have encountered cold people who do not fit in.

Some people and their roommates are torn apart because of some things, and they feel at a loss afterwards, and they don't see what they look up for, so how do you plan to get along with this relationship?

1.Originally, the two had a very good relationship, but they tore up because of a little thing, and in a fit of anger, QQ and WeChat were deleted, and they usually ignored each other, treating each other as strangers, but they were more distant than strangers.

The world is so big, it's not easy to meet. There are few dormitories in a person's life, and there are times when you can't go back. If there is a lack of communication, and in the end, no one can wipe out the face to take the initiative to speak, you might as well try to make occasional eye contact yourself, and not avoiding each other's eyes can also help you determine each other's hearts.

2.After tearing up, you take the initiative to show favor to the other party, hoping to have a chance to communicate. But she doesn't care about your friendship at all, and keeps throwing you in the cold face.

If at this time you feel that she has decided to give up your friendship, then don't whisper and beg for forgiveness, it is better to please yourself more when you have time.

3.Only a small number of people can still reconcile after tearing up, because "reconciliation" is related to people and things. You have to understand that if you have quarreled with some people, you really can't go back to the past.

4.Originally, you are people from two worlds, you can't communicate, you can't get along. But you have to know that everyone has her own reasons for doing things, and you don't have to force others to think and walk in step with yourself. Keep your own kindness and learn to respect the differences of others.

5.If we can't accommodate each other, why bother? If you decide to break up, then don't dwell on it anymore. But remember to be polite to others, and don't slander behind your back and belittle your own quality.

6.If it is because of a problem that violates the principles of a friend, such as digging into your corner or framing you because of interests, etc., this kind of person can ignore it, do you expect to stay with her for a long time?

Know that when your shoes are dirty, sometimes it's because you're walking on a dirty path.

7.Don't set the line of "best friend" and "best friend" too low, not everyone can occupy a special place in your life.

You will find that sometimes a momentary crisis can change the relationship between two people. So a lot of things, it's really not something you can plan or predict. Someone who has a good conversation with you today may be a stranger tomorrow.

Therefore, love does not follow people's wishes, only keep true people.

To be honest, I'm a good-tempered person, I don't like to say bad things about people, and I don't get angry when others make jokes about me, but no matter how good-tempered people are, they don't have a bottom line, if it was before going to college, a group of our brothers solved it directly, but when they went to college, everyone was a "civilized person", plus the brothers were all on their own side, and more often than not, they could only fight now, which was the "tearing" in the problem.

The most profound "tearing" since I went to college is with our squad leader, I am not complaining, I sometimes have a really easy mentality**, our squad leader is still good in general, but how to say it, the character is a little stubborn, but I can't see others say a bad word about him, even if I know it's just a joke.

Now we don't talk when we meet, except for something necessary. It's not a good thing to "tear" with others, but once some people touch your bottom line, they can't bear it anymore, they don't need to bear it, they have to tear it up.