Why do you hate it when people delay your time?

In life, it is inevitable to meet people who delay their time. But a person who often delays other people's time may not have a very good attitude and way of dealing with others. Let me give you an example of my own.

When I was a child, I had a very good friend, and we used to go to school together and come home together, but she was very slow and often asked me to wait for her. <>

Sometimes I go to her house early, but because she is very busy going to school, I have to wait for her for a long time, and sometimes I am very likely to be late. My mom also used to tell me to stay away from this kind of person who delayed other people's time, but because I couldn't put it off, I swallowed it for three years. Later, because I moved, we didn't go to school together.

Later, when I went to college, I had a roommate who was also a person who liked to take up other people's time. But if someone else delays her time, she will say. We are on Saturdays and Sundays.

When everyone got up late, they didn't want to go downstairs to the cafeteria, but because it was more expensive for the student party to order takeout, I went to the cafeteria to buy food, but my roommate didn't go to the cafeteria to buy food even if she was swiping Weibo. <>

We are both design students, and our roommate often takes private work outside, and if we can't finish it, we will help her complete it, I think everyone has their own things, try to do it by themselves, don't bother others. It is a duty to help you, and it is not your duty not to help you. If a person is always delaying our time, we should stay away from such a person and dare to say no to her unreasonable demands.

In this way, we will live more freely, without having to live for others, and our own time will be at our disposal.

I hate that people delay my time because I feel that time is very precious and that I can do a lot of things in those hours that delay me.

Because your words are more precious, that is, if you let someone delay my time, then it will make people think that he is wasting my money.

The reason why I hate it is that I don't think I need to waste my time on him, but he doesn't know how to cherish it.

Because there is a famous saying that wasting other people's time is tantamount to killing people for money, which will disrupt their own plans.

Because I feel that I have a special plan for what I want to do, and if others delay my time, I can use other time to complete it.

Because my time is so precious, if I transfer 100 yuan a minute, I won't mind that.

Because I feel that others are delaying my own time, and they are delaying my time, which is very annoying.

Because of this, he did a lot of things that didn't make sense to me, and he delayed me from doing things that were really valuable.

Because I feel that my time is very valuable, and I don't want others to waste my time.

Because I felt that it was a particularly unnecessary thing to delay both him and me.

This is what he asks you for, and he is afraid of being rejected by you, so it is a strategy to say so. If you want to refuse, just say I'm busy and don't have time, and he can't pester you anymore!

Some people are like that. It was as if the world revolved around him, and everything had to be centered around him. This kind of person is very selfish, and he is a troublesome mother.

Spit it out, dissipate your anger, and don't worry so much.

I don't even know what you're talking about.

I think you can talk to him and ask him to stop harassing you, but I think teaching others is also a kind of exercise for yourself.

Guests have your family to summon, if you are annoyed, say hello to other rooms, do other things, learn to adapt, it is difficult to see people who you hate and think of the way to drive people away. It's a kind of interpersonal communication, a necessity for life.

You can tell him that I want to rest, or you can tell him that I want to go outside and a friend is looking for me, and you can go out first and go home while he is not looking.

Satisfied, celebrate.

"I'm a little unwell and want to get some sleep," he says.

I just like you, do you like me or not, say it quickly, whether you like me or not, anyway, I'm already in love with you, you just follow me.

Hehe, although your bounty score is very low, I still read your story very carefully! How can I say it, you can see that you have paid a lot for him. .

If you want to say that the most precious thing about a girl is this, but then he always hides from you, don't you think so? He always says he wants to spend more time with you, but he always forgets, do you think this is really forgetting? When I was with my boyfriend, he was always there for me, and after a long time, I felt sorry, so I asked him to play, but he said, "My own girlfriend is here, and I'm running out to play?"

How big is my heart? So little sister, I want to tell you that maybe it's not that he doesn't have time, maybe I'm too arbitrary, I don't know him, I can't say that, but I think you know him better than you, isn't it? Think about all of you...

Think about it ...Think about what you put. Give him before and after.

In fact, some girls want to use this to prove the truth of love. I want to use this to tie up each other's hearts...But silly sister, think about it.

You're not more than 24 years old, right? How much of your life have you finished? Tell me for yourself.

So, what you need to do now is not to study, you have to adjust your mindset first. Cheer yourself up as for what you have given him. Don't think about it anymore, tomorrow's sun will still rise in the east, right?

Stop trying to change the facts that can't be changed.

Remember that the changed heart will not come back.

Oh, saying so much I don't know if it helps you. I just hope you don't stop being stupid. Silly boy.

You'll have at least 50 years to go on in the future. Don't just ruin yourself. You are excellent.

It's that he doesn't know how to cherish.

Good similar experience, but I am now working, and I should marry another woman this year, but the groom is not my first love, I believe in your true feelings, and I can also understand your current feelings, but all the consequences have a cause, if you want to have a good future (including life and feelings), the top priority is to calm your mind, it doesn't matter if you break up or not, do your best now (including studying and your friends), believe me.

Don't talk about love lightly, you're still young, do you know what love is? Love is a responsibility, mutual dependence and common growth. In a relationship, what you have to learn is self-independence and growth.

There is not love between you and him, because you have not experienced strong winds and waves, have not faced each other hand in hand, and have not had the support of your parents, can you still plan for each other? Love is giving and forgiving. You're still young, and it's useless to talk too much, and when you're hurt, you don't know how to grow up on your own.

I read your words very carefully, or the words of my sister on the first floor, silly girl, do you think you can tie his heart if you give it to him? Do you now understand that you can't develop true feelings during school? Even if it exists, it can't be developed.

You don't have the time condition. Focus your energy on your studies. Don't overthink it.

Hey, seeing that you are a sister, I will also confess to you! I'm also a poor person with a lot of worries, I think everyone is sympathetic, but I know how to keep things simple, why think so complicated, we are all girls! Let the boys want to go to the complicated things!

Don't be too obsessed with it!!

I understand your situation.

Even though I'm a man, I feel like he doesn't love you much anymore.

Once a man gets it easily, he won't cherish it.

Keep that in mind.

Study hard, there's still a long way to go.

Go with the flow.

Why bother yourself as a woman! The path is your own, and so are your choices. Yes, yes, it's up to you to see your own view of things. Is it really worth sacrificing everything for a man?

I'll be fine when you love me next time.

So stingy, don't give a bounty point??

I think so too, this kind of person is too annoying.

Don't agree Do you want to shop around when you buy things Not only you are the only one to talk to him No matter who he chooses, this will happen So you can't blame others for this After all, you can only choose one If you ask a question, don't you know how to ask? You can't just ask a few people, and if you have three people, you're going to have two disappointed.

I always get things like this! Finally someone is like me! Meow meow, I talked to the questioner for a long time, the point was poked, what should have been said was also said, and the final reply was confused.

It's normal, the more you talk, the less speculative you are, and even the more you talk, the more disgusted you are.

I don't think, at least people don't think that you helped him, so this kind of mentality is not good, this is an idea of giving and hoping to return, since you are afraid that people will not give you you you can not answer and not participate.

Oh, yes! After chatting with her for a long time, she only accepted others, that person only answered one sentence, I answered seven or eight sentences, that person's answer was not as good as mine, probably because I ignored her, so I didn't adopt it! Not even thanks

Yes, I agree very much, and I will thank you after chatting for a long time! I hate this kind of person the most.

It's true, everyone has such distress.

That's right, I hate people like this, it's so cheap, I adopt them every time, but no one adopts me, sad

In fact, you can be calm and certain, just chat with someone, sometimes you chat with the mood of helping others, in fact, it is not just for adoption, you can help him (her) solve the problem, this may also be a happiness, there is no need to be angry about this.

Maybe you didn't speak to his heart, don't care, as long as it's right, you will accept it.

Tai Te agreed, this metaphor is too bullish.

I don't think it's a big deal! Let's just talk about it! Hear different stories and talk about your own thoughts!

It's good to get used to it. That's how it is in today's society. Take your time to get used to it.

To put it simply, I just want others to adopt it.

Not every effort will pay off.

As long as you can help others, give people roses and have a lingering fragrance.

Pay a little sincerity, and you won't lose your big fortune.

,, this kind of person just ignore him.

Don't always think, don't get angry.

Heck, you don't have to think about it, you don't have to guess, just confess to him. After confessing, accept it, and if you don't accept it, continue to be friends, and be generous. The most taboo thing like this is guessing, everyone guesses and guesses each other, in fact, a confession can make the situation clear.

Guess what he thinks like this, and think that his head is hot. If you like him, tell him, it's your right, you know?

No, no! Liking is a matter of two people, if you don't like it, tell him quickly, don't delay others!

Not everyone keeps their word. So not all people talk and do what they say. Some people say yes, but you won't do it.

For this kind of person, it is also good to know his characteristics, so as not to believe his words in the future and delay big things. Others are such people, what is the use of hating. You think it's a big deal to promise someone.

Some people think it's a casual thing to promise you.