Emotions How a 31 year old woman can find her significant other

Even at the age of 30, you can't bury your self-confidence. Be sure it's nothing. Of course, you have to analyze your own reasons, why is it useless to get married, and why is it useless to meet the right person?

Or I'm too busy to have time to fall in love. Put more effort into dressing up. ，。

Truth be told, a man's goodwill is based on a woman's good looks. Wear light makeup every day and dress appropriately. Be sure to take good care of **, it's important not to let people look very old.

31 years old is not a small age, and it can also be said to be an older leftover girl. But don't worry. Maybe it's because my fate hasn't arrived, and experience shows that people who talk about friends in their 30s have a high marriage rate.

As long as you do a good job, live and work happily every day, and spend more time to groom yourself, including the inside. At the same time, participate in the reunions of friends, colleagues, and classmates, firstly, to expand their life circle, increase the fun of life, and secondly, to increase the opportunity to meet and understand friends of the opposite sex. Keep a casual mindset, and you should be able to find your partner in no time.

Put your vision flat, relax the conditions for choosing a mate, and lower your posture, and you'll be fine. Of course, I don't want you to change too much, just a little change.

In the face of reality, keep your eyes lower, you can participate in blind dates, analyze the reasons why you are still single, or do a psychological consultation.

Don't give up, the misfortunes you have suffered before are all paving the way for the next happiness, and you must believe that you can't always meet unlucky and unsuitable objects. Although thirty years old is not young, but there is still time, as long as you work hard to find, you will definitely find it, and you don't have to affect your mood because of this, in addition to finding a partner, we also live a good life at the moment

In fact, if you can't find a suitable partner, in addition to the fate we believe in, there are other factors, such as: whether you are too perfect and ideal, whether you are too closed and don't have enough socialization, so the object of your blind date is not suitable for you, etc., but according to my personal experience, the most important reason is that I don't put the matter of finding a partner in the first place! I don't have confidence in finding a partner!

I understand that you have gone through many blind dates that have led to a loss of confidence in finding a partner now.

I suggest that you can try to use the dating platform on a blind date, on the one hand, save time, on the other hand, through the platform first, after the two parties understand and feel that it is suitable and then offline base, very suitable for otaku, reduce the number of blind date failures, but you must choose a formal and reliable one, it is best to have real-name authentication as the basis, such as a companion marriage, only marriage. These are all professional marriage and love software with a relatively high threshold. Many single men and women from all over the country are looking for a partner, and looking for a partner in such a large group will have a better chance of meeting a person with the same three views, and the probability of a successful blind date will be greatly improved.

Don't be anxious, just love life. I believe that the right person will always meet you at the right time, just take care of yourself before that.

What should I do?

Eating, shitting, farting, walking, as always.

Looking for a partner is not winning the lottery, but finding one that will be fine from then on and walk to the pinnacle of life.

An object is just the beginning, there are still 81 episodes before the ending, and how many people who have an object are not going to change the channel halfway through.

Take it easy, don't be bitter and hateful, as if you will be eaten if you don't have an object.

You have to believe that there must be a real right person waiting for you from a certain angle of the world.

You must know that there are good boys left, and there are no remaining girls. As long as a girl wants to marry, she will never be unable to marry. Your relatives and friends can help you introduce, maybe there is also a fate you are looking for here.

Don't worry, you are the best age at what age, you don't have to live the days of wealth, rice, oil and salt, and meet slowly.

The woman is thirty years old and has not yet been found.

The right half, that's your own.

The other half is too demanding!

If that's the case, it's pretty much the same.

That's it, just keep procrastinating.

It's harder to come across the right one.

What are the requirements? Not to mention asking for it, people have to ask you again.

1. Meet girls through formal channels. You can play the real-name software of a companion marriage and love online, and the user is not only a real person with all-round data authentication; Moreover, the willingness to marry and love is high, and it is easy to make an appointment; The most important thing is that there are rich ways to play, dynamic sharing, personal information at the top, WeChat mutual addition, three ** books, and there are many opportunities to get off the list. Offline can mobilize the power of the masses, ask the people around you to help introduce marriageable girls, try to ask relatives or friends, on the one hand, understand your preferences; On the other hand, it will be genuinely good for you.

2. Clarify the purpose of dating. If you have the purpose of getting married, you will focus on the personality and three views, and whether the two people can run in; If you want to be in love, focus on creating romantic scenes; If it's just for fun, focus on showing your personality.

3. Provide emotional value. It is to make the other person feel that it is very happy and comfortable to date you, and look forward to the next date with you.

4. Know how to find chat topics. There are two levels of topics, firstly, at the level of interest, to shorten the distance between each other; Then guide to the emotional level, talk about the views of love, and open the other party's heart; In the end, how can you win well.

5. Appropriate physical contact. Crossing the street and holding your shoulders, holding hands when shopping, and appropriate physical contact will make girls feel for you. Don't be pompous or aggressive, such as kissing for the first time, which can easily cause disgust.

6. Multiple transitions. If you go on a long date, you have to change the scene more often, otherwise the sense of boredom will easily rise to the point where people are very bored. On the contrary, when you eat, movies, or play games for a while, the other party will feel that you have a sense of freshness, and you will also feel that you have to understand life and will arrange it, and look forward to the next time.

This success rate is greatly improved.

After a woman is 30 years old, it is difficult to find a partner, because good men are already married, and the remaining older men have their own shortcomings and are not easy to get along with.

What about older leftover women? You don't have to worry at all, God will not treat everyone badly, we have to believe that the better we are, the better we will meet the better other half, so we can wait quietly for our own fate.

So how do older leftover women find their other half? I will also summarize the following aspects for you.

The people around me slowly develop.

At least I understand this, and everyone is more at ease in the later stage.

Blind date, although it is more old-fashioned, but it is also a good way, at least the object introduced by others is also knowing, so it is not easy to meet**.

There may not be a big surprise, but at least it won't be very risky.

Blind date**. This kind of will also be used, but this kind of ** generally has to pay a high fee, and in a good case, you can achieve your own happy marriage, after all, there are a lot of resources to control on the blind date**.

But no matter which way, it is recommended here that you don't just find someone to marry because of someone else's urging to marry, because marriage is not child's play, once you get married, then it is no longer a matter of two people, but a matter of two families.

And if two people can't get along in the later stage of marriage, when they divorce, if they don't have children, it will be relatively better, but if they have children, it will also cause great harm to the child.

Therefore, I advise all the older leftover women, even if others urge you to get married, you must understand what kind of person you want, and the person who gets married must be someone who can go on with you, otherwise you are also getting married for the sake of getting married.

If a 32-year-old woman can do the following: 1. Review yourself. Review what you did on the road of marriage and love between the ages of 20 and 29, especially what you did between the ages of 20 and 26, whether it was because you were too advantageous, the surrounding environment was too bad, or the surrounding environment was too superior, you were too bad, or other reasons; 2. Change your concept, get out of romance, enter reality, and learn to fall in love with your brain, not just with your ears and eyes; 3. Know yourself and your opponent, understand your own strengths and weaknesses, appreciate each other's strengths, treat each other's shortcomings, make trade-offs, be good at grasping the key points and mainstream of marriage and love, don't be a flashlight that will only shine on others, and do not pursue perfection; 4. Adjust your mentality, restrain your temper, treat marriage and love with a mature attitude, treat others, don't play petty, expand the pattern, improve the realm, learn to appreciate the advantages and strengths of men who like to love all types of men, especially men who extend an olive branch to you, and objectively analyze and tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings; 5. Pay attention to dress, speech and behavior, give people a gentle and rational impression, care about men, and don't let good fate slip away; 6. Learn skills related to future family life.

7. Accurate positioning. The main direction of marriage and love is placed in the circle of male friends over the age of 40, although this circle is dominated by divorced men and widowed men, but it does not prevent them from having high-quality men. Of course, if you have enough charm and guts, you might as well try an unreliable sibling relationship.

Because marriage is originally only about individuals, regardless of group things, there is no absolute standard. I believe that there is still a slight chance for older women to get off the list as soon as possible.

I think the safest way to find the other half is to talk about a relationship seriously by yourself. For older leftover women, whether it is introduced by friends, arranged by parents on a blind date, or found out the people around them. You have to seriously invest in managing a relationship, and then decide whether you want to continue with this person.

Our society seems to have a lot of prejudice against older leftover girls, and if girls don't get married after the age of 30, the most anxious should be their parents. Maybe the parents will arrange some blind dates. Let you meet their friend's child or the boy they think is reliable and can go with you.

At this time, I don't think you should have too many repulsive thoughts about such things, after all, your parents are also for your good, and they know you better, maybe the person you choose is very suitable for you, so I think you should be happy to accept such a thing, and then consider this person in the process of blind date. Maybe he's your real destiny.

Now with the development of TV networks, many people choose to show themselves generously through a stage like "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", or "One in a Hundred", such a girl is definitely very courageous. There are also many boys who are attracted to such girls, and then go to TV stations or TV programs to find such girls, and there are many cases of successful hand-holding, and I think this is also a good method. His stage is for older leftover women who can't find a boyfriend, and then participating in that kind of show will feel very embarrassing to be seen by relatives and friends around them, I think this is a good way to go up and show yourself bravely.

How nice it is to let others feel the charm of your personality, and maybe you can find your other half.

In fact, another way is to pay more attention to the boys around you. Some people say that people who are destined are far away in the sky and close at hand. Maybe in your ordinary life and work, there will be boys who silently pay attention to you and accompany you, but you don't have a good impression of him and don't notice them.

But the most affectionate confession. If you find out that there is such a guy around you, and you don't hate him very much, and even have a good impression of him, I think you can start a relationship with them and give it a try.

No matter what kind of way it is, I think that for older leftover women, it is better to fall in love than to be indiscriminate. Don't say that you are very old, just find someone to marry casually, this is a blasphemy of feelings, and it is also irresponsible to yourself, you must be careful.

Just don't take yourself too seriously, there is no attraction for women after 23,

Same as 32, come without any high requirements!

Inadvertently at this age, there are not so many problems!

My mother often said that it is an emotional thing, and you can't force it, because my brother has been crazy about blind dates recently, but every time, there is no way to succeed together, and my father is very anxious, and then my mother said such a sentence.

I think this sentence is particularly reasonable, I still need to go with the flow more often than not, if the relationship is not there, no matter how hard you struggle, it will not come.

However, when love comes, you can't stop it if you want to, don't think that thirty-two years old is very old, I think it's okay, when love hasn't come yet, I think you should go and improve yourself.

Instead of blindly complaining, why hasn't the other half arrived? When you are good enough, if he comes one day, you can stand in front of him with enough confidence and smile and say that you are a little late.

So now go and work hard to improve yourself, only when you elevate yourself to a high level, you can have enough confidence to find your other half.

If you say that in life, you meet a person you like, then go to the brave pursuit, anyway, you only know the result if you try, don't wait until you are really old to regret it, don't wait until you marry someone you don't love, and then think about wanting to return to the present.

In my opinion, getting married is actually not as good as before marriage, so when you haven't met the person you are, you should enjoy your single life, instead of worrying about it here, it will come after all.

These are all fateful arrangements.