Will you believe in love at first sight, or will it be a love affair over time?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There's no denying that love at first sight exists! It was a momentary fermentation of feelings! The two of them had a strong love when they first met!

    However, such two people do not have deep contact and understanding, the living habits of both parties and everything is unfamiliar, if they live together like this, they will find more and more shortcomings of each other in their future lives, and places that are not suitable for themselves, but at this time there are already many interference factors to separate.

    I still support the long-term relationship, because when the two of them get along for a long time and find out that there is a relationship, it means that both parties are more suitable for themselves and closer to their life partners! And such feelings are also stronger and more reliable!

    So, I think, it's more likely to last over time!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love over time, so that in the days of being together in the future, there will be a lot less friction, and love will not be so tired.

    But if you like vigorous romance and only care about what you once had, and don't care about how long it lasts, then choose love at first sight

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think love at first sight is more reliable.

    My husband and I fell in love at first sight, and my former boyfriend and I were both love at first sight.

    It's true that there is love over time, but I don't think there are many in reality. Even if there is, most of them are in love with each other first, and they have always been good to him, so that the other party has gradually become in love with him over time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I believe in love at first sight, but I don't believe it will happen to me, I still prefer the latter, because I always find out the good in the other person in the future, and I get deeper and deeper.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love at first sight is nothing more than a matter of feeling, a very good feeling. It's very happy. However, love at first sight is often just a one-sided feeling.

    If you have this feeling of love at first sight on both sides, then it's wonderful!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I believe it, but I will definitely fall in love with it over time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I yearn for the romance of love at first sight, but life has made me choose a smart attitude towards life--- that is, to combine square and round, cherish the people who love me, and not daydream about anyone who is out of reach. People should draw the power of reality from their dreams so that they can continue to mature.

    Love at first sight was my dream of girlhood, although the girlhood has not passed, but it is already the last years of this era, I feel that the dream still exists, so I feel that I have never failed.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's more real to live in love over time!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I had love at first sight, but I couldn't help but stop her.

    I found that we cared about every detail of each other, but we didn't know each other at all. If "care" is greater than "understanding", there will be a lot of trouble. Personally, I think it's better to be realistic...

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Over time, love comes a little more realistically.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I believe in both, but the latter has a better chance.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I believe both. But I still like to be in love over time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Feelings have to accumulate slowly, love at first sight is unreliable!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's all right, as long as you truly love each other

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The latter is more reliable, because there is understanding as the foundation! ~

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm not too convinced. Because love at first sight. The time for two people to meet is too short. It may be easy to be subjective. In fact, this feeling is somewhat hazy. Or is the good impression of this person, more or less added to his own imagination.

    People who have been together for a long time may not necessarily have feelings. Sometimes I think I get a lot of trouble and disgust. The development of feelings seems to have his own rules to follow. Sometimes it seems like there's no pattern to follow. That's why there is fate, and it is wonderful to say.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Both are possible. Falling in love at first sight is a special feeling, and this feeling is really good, but it may not be possible to maintain this good feeling after a long time. And over time, two people have been together for a long time and know each other very well, so this kind of relationship is still relatively insured!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    To believe that love arises over time, rather than love at first sight, the most direct sense for two people to know is the first impression, which generally comes from the external image.

    It takes a certain amount of time for two people to understand each other's personality, temperament, values and other aspects from recognition to contact.

    Liking a person is liking all aspects of a person, including personality, temperament, values, etc., if a person says love at first sight to another person, this is not credible, the most intuitive speaking, this is the sense of appearance, not liking you as a person, but just your appearance, such words are not credible.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    "Love at first sight" in real life is actually real like, because it is the love brought by the real physiological reaction, and "love over time" is not necessarily a real like.

    Yes, you read that right, "love over time" is not necessarily true like.

    Because most of the so-called long-term love is because A is pursued by B, and A, after a long time of choice and observation, finds that this B is the best person he can choose.

    So A convinces himself to like B and accept B, which is the so-called "will".

    This kind of persuasion to like a person you don't like, and in the end, two people have been together for a long time, and the likes that arise cannot be regarded as real likes. (**Network).

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is love at first sight, and it is possible to fall in love over time, but the key is to look at the fate of two people, you fall in love with someone at first sight, and people don't necessarily pay attention to you, and some people have lived together for half a lifetime, and they will not fall in love for a long time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Love over time. may know each other better, understand each other, and then they may love you more.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    After all, it is said that the road knows the horsepower and sees the hearts of the people for a long time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There are both of these situations, and I think it's still a lot of love over time.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Love at first sight is the beginning, and love over time is companionship.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Personally, love at first sight and love for a long time, I will believe more in love at first sight, I will feel that love at first sight, and then there will be love for a long time, if you can't fall in love at first sight, then it is difficult to have the probability of falling in love for a long time. I am a person who belongs to love at first sight, I always feel that love at first sight is the right eye, very in line with your wishes, deep in your heart, at this time you will have a deer bumping, heart pounding feeling, can be called heartbeat, can also be called love at first sight, just like you want to understand a person you don't know, if the other party is very good-looking, temperament is also very good, you will be fascinated by the other party's appearance, the other party's appearance attracted to you, you will want to understand each other more deeply, Understanding the inner beauty of the other person only makes you attractive to the outside, and love at first sight is just that. When I see a very eye-catching person at first sight, I will be fascinated by the other party, the other party's appearance has attracted me, I will want to understand each other more deeply, if there is no basis for love at first sight, it is difficult to have the probability of falling in love for a long time, some people will feel that the feeling of the bridge is slowly cultivated, if the other party is not sensitive at first sight, you will be amazed, but after being together for a long time, the relationship will warm, and the emotional intimacy will rise

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