I m helpless, what should I do? How to deal with the helplessness in life

No matter what choice you make in the end, just follow one point, and two people must feel happy and happy together! This is the biggest premise, if you are with someone you don't like, that person can give you the whole world in time, but can't give you the happiness you want, that kind of sincere feeling, then will you be happy together? Will such a marriage be happy!

Sister, let me tell you, people must have faith in this life, and you can't say that you covet the other party's rich people. If it's too greedy. You're going to have a hard time in this life.

Because there are a lot of people, you may not be able to grasp the rich. You might as well find a man you like, and the other party will be angry because of you. I will be happy for the rest of my life.

Ask yourself, you must be thinking about it, then together wow! After all, the world is so big that it is not easy to meet a person who is good to yourself, you can work hard together for a good life, he lacks love, if you share it with him, he also loses the most important person in his life, he has integrated you into his life and his future, and it is also possible that you are the driving force for him to live, so think about it, you communicate with your parents and think about introducing a good job, don't give up easily, otherwise love is really not worth mentioning.

You don't think he's worthy of you anymore, what kind of love are you talking about? I think you're pitying him, self-righteous and pitying him, do you really think he needs you so much, you can't live without you?! When you find out that he is actually better without you, you will understand that you are a second fool.

I really think you're separated, I don't think you're love at all.

Since you like it, let's be together! The economic conditions can be improved, this is not a big problem, as long as the two of you work together, you can definitely realize the current conditions. But you also have to be clear that he grew up in a single-parent family, and he is also relatively cold, will he be more selfish!

Maybe your parents see it more thoroughly, pity the hearts of parents all over the world, parents always hope that their children will have a happy family.

As long as you love each other, you must carry out love to the end, even if the material conditions are not so good, the two will feel happy, so even if you have average conditions, you will live a good life after hard work, come on!

Your love is like chicken ribs, but I just want to talk about my feelings, real life is cruel and helpless. Especially in today's society.

Draw the knife and cut off the water, the water is more flowing, and the glass is more sorrowful. Girls like to study well when they are young, they like to be handsome in middle school, and they like to be rich when they grow up, why? Because money can avoid a lot of quarrels in life related to firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

Don't be reluctant to be with him because she feels that she needs love, I think marriage is a matter between two families, you have to think clearly, if you are with him today for all these reasons, then the days you will face in the future can be acceptable.

If you like it, stick with it.

Let your parents know how you're feeling.

Because he doesn't have a very stable job, and his income is average, my own.

There are too many helplessness in life, sometimes we are not allowed to choose, we can't choose, personal ability is always limited, maybe time is a good thing, it can change a lot of things, it will also dilute a lot of things, but I think: the most is still used to it, there is no way, helpless, life has to go on, isn't it? Time doesn't go back, so the hardest thing in the world to buy is regret.

Sadly, time can't be restarted, and the good news is that time can't be restarted, because there is no need to relive again. The accustomed life in life, the accustomed life, how can it be helpless. Is this sad?

No, it's a real reality, so I have to accept it. But my silence and silence are not sinking, the passing years have left a series of twisted footprints, the clouds drift over to add a beautiful scenery, the rain has given me the washing of growth, and the wind has given me a reason to smile. I think life has given me a lot of helplessness, but I still have to have the courage to continue...

There is always too much helplessness in life, work, family, love, friendship, too much. Always not satisfied with the status quo, want to work hard towards a higher ideal, but who can understand the hardships, bitterness, tiredness can be bearable, unbearable is the emptiness and helplessness of the heart and spirit, how many times want to talk to someone, but can not speak, in reality can not find a friend to confide in, some are just intrigues, deceit, helpless.

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I can only wait for the boat to reach the bridgehead and go straight naturally.

Depending on what kind of helplessness you encounter, different solutions have different solutions.

There will always be times when we feel helpless. This is a situation that does not want to accept and has to accept, which makes people depressed and overwhelmed, and negative emotions will arise spontaneously.

So how should we face helplessness? First of all, we must analyze the helplessness, and we can take different ways to deal with different **.

1.Someone else imposed it on you.

For example, at work, I obviously do not agree with a certain plan, but I am forced to obey and implement it due to the situation.

In this case, we should check our own beliefs, whether we have the need for others to do what we think, or whether the decisions made by others must be objective and correct. Obviously, such a belief is wrong. Others have their own thoughts and decisions, which may or may not be the same as us, may or may not be right.

We can't dictate what other people think and do. That's what you should be. With this understanding, we can accept this reality, and even if we are helpless, there will be no extreme negative emotions.

A more positive approach is to try to communicate, exchange, and reach a consensus, which is an opportunity for common growth.

2.Force majeure such as natural and man-made disasters.

The situation is even tougher. For example, if you suddenly become seriously ill, you will have a deep sense of helplessness and even despair.

Of course, this can also be used to examine the belief that there is a thought that I must not get seriously ill. And it's not a matter of thinking about it, and it's not a matter of thinking about it. Cruel, but that's the reality.

What we can do is to think about how to live each day well and make the rest of the days more meaningful.