What should I do if I can t untie a knot and am curious about my boyfriend s ex and his story?

It is the most important thing to confess your thoughts to your boyfriend first, after all, you are the one who is going on, and the two of you are a couple, you must believe that he loves you and understands your heart, don't hesitate to think about it, what ideas are open and honest, and let him know your true thoughts is the best. Guys sometimes have really big hearts, can't understand girls, and don't pay attention to details, so if you don't say it, he may really not realize that you have thoughts in your heart.

If a boy is willing to tell you after listening to your thoughts, at this time you must calm your mood, calm down and calm down, and tell yourself that this is in the past tense. Because the boyfriend and his ex were in love with each other and sweetened before parting ways, so when the boyfriend talks about the sweet past of the two of them, don't sulk, which will make the atmosphere very awkward and make the boy very strange, after all, you are making a fuss about listening to his past. If your boyfriend talks about the process of breaking up later, you must not speak ill of his ex, even if your boyfriend complains about your ex, you have to be polite, and make your boyfriend realize that it is wrong to speak ill of your ex, and no one can guarantee that you will not become the next ex.

All in all, since you love your boyfriend, you have to accept his past, everyone has a past, and it is commendable to dare to confess the past, don't be too your boyfriend <>

If your boyfriend is reluctant to say it, you might as well try to choose to believe him and understand him. Maybe it's because this relationship is difficult to talk about, if there are any sad memories, you can't force your boyfriend to tell you, expose your scars, and threaten the other party that if you can't talk about it, you can't let it go, which is also unfair to your friend. The bell must also be tied to the bell, your heart knot is more caused by your own thoughts, you might as well believe in your boyfriend, no longer pursue the past, and live in the present is the most important thing.

I'm also a girl, and I don't understand what you think. Why do you have to know about your boyfriend and his ex, and what's in it for you? I don't think it will do you any good other than making yourself jealous.

You are her current girlfriend, and you may not have time to participate in your boyfriend's past, and you will feel regret or curiosity; But you have to think about it, you don't know his past, but you can accompany him in his future. The past is gone, so why bother turning it up? I remember what I once saw on the Internet, and I forgot the original sentence, which probably said:

The past is like a piece of dusty paper, if you have to turn it up, the dust will lose your eyes, and you will cry when you see too much.

No matter how curious you are about your boyfriend and his ex, don't mention it or ask about it. If you don't mention it, maybe he has forgotten it, but if you mention it, isn't that telling him to recall? If he reminisces and reminisces, how to compare you with your ex, and still thinks that your ex is good, and runs back to find your ex, then you don't have to be curious about other people's ex, because you have also become an ex.

My boyfriend also has an ex, but I never ask, I think it's normal for him to find a girlfriend before he knows me, as long as it's not stepping on two boats or going to the ex, chatting with the ex, etc., I can accept it. Who doesn't have an ex yet, what's there to be curious about? You're completely idle, and if you're afraid that they might come back to life, then just keep an eye on your boyfriend!

Generally, men who have girlfriends rarely go back to find their ex, so relax!

I think there are many girls who will be curious about their boyfriend's ex, his past, and his story, and whether all girls have gossip and curiosity? I may not be so sure if other girls will be like this, but yes, I'm curious that my boyfriend's exes want to know that I didn't participate in his past story, and I think it's a knot in my heart, and the more I want to know, the more he doesn't say it, the bigger my knot becomes.

My boyfriend is my first love, but I am not his first love, he has had three girlfriends before he met me, although he confessed to me but this knot I still exist, I want to know his ex-girlfriend wants to know his past story. I've also asked my boyfriend and he's always impatient, he thinks there's nothing to say about the previous things, just let it pass. Later, I asked too much, and he got annoyed, and once I asked him curiously, and he got angry for the first time, and then I never asked again.

Although the knot in my heart has always been there, and I have tried hard to open it, it is not something that can be done all at once, but I think it is not good that I am so curious. I think who he's with now is the most important thing, everyone has a story, a past, some want to talk about it, some don't want to mention it, and my boyfriend is the one who doesn't want to mention it. I also know that the person he loves at this moment is me, and the person he loves with all his heart is me, not his predecessors, so why bother with it.

So from the moment he got angry, I decided to open this knot, learn to be generous, learn to be tolerant, learn not to care, and let myself believe that the person he loves at the moment is just you, and it is true that the person he loves is just hungry at the moment, he misses me too much, why should I bother with his story. Maybe let go of the knot in two people to go on better, only if they don't force each other to do what they don't want to do, then two people will get along happily and easily. Thinking like this, my heart is also a lot easier, it seems that the heart knot is also opening again little by little, more and more after the run-in of time, after the washing of the years, the heart knot has also been worn out and washed away.

If you're really curious, ask your boyfriend. By the way, you can also test him, if he is willing to tell you at 151 time, then it means that he no longer cares about this feeling.

You can talk to your boyfriend and ask him to talk to you about it, otherwise there will always be a pimple between you.

Then it would be nice for your boyfriend to tell you the story between him and his ex, this should be a simple thing.

It's over, don't take it personally.

It shows that you love him too much. I want to open a point. Don't get tangled. Or you'll be arguing a lot ... I really can't untie it, so I'm separated. Or it's an ordeal.

It's okay to think about happy things and forget about them.

1. I understand your mood very well, but it's not a bad thing.

2. Think about it, he was so unscrupulous about you at the beginning, thinking about that girl unscrupulously, but you didn't have any knots, and you insisted on being good with him, because at that time, your relationship was still unstable, and the only thing you were worried about was whether your relationship could last, right? Now, he has completely severed the relationship and loves you wholeheartedly, you are fine, but you have a knot, because your relationship has stabilized, so, you have begun to have the kung fu to settle old accounts, hehe!

3. Do you believe in fate? In your boyfriend's life, you met two women, one was begging for it, and the other was touching it. You can't erase his love for other women, and there's no way to change his past experiences, but in the end you're together, don't you feel like it's all God's arrangement?

If you believe in fate, you must know how to cherish fate and cherish all this. Otherwise, God wouldn't have agreed :)

4. Actually, you should thank that girl. It was her resoluteness, her ruthlessness made your boyfriend understand what true love is, know how to cherish his feelings, all the benefits are yours, what are you unhappy about?

5. Don't think that smooth sailing love is beautiful. How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? True love can only come to fruition when it goes through the test of life!

Your future is still very ambitious, you have to concentrate on loving well, how can you still have the time to be idle :)

That girl is just your boyfriend's past.

Now, her boyfriend has also made up his mind to cut it in two and change his ways.

Shouldn't you also give him a chance to start a new life? You run your own love together!

Everyone has a past, some people can come out firmly, and some people have been hesitant.

Your boyfriend is obviously an emotional person, and you should be glad to have such a loving man.

He loves you now and cares about you.

You should be happy.

Even if that woman comes back to your boyfriend, your boyfriend won't be with her.

You are the winner of this love contest, don't be upset by unnecessary people.

Dear, you should relax, it's not easy to have a man who loves you. Indeed, it is your own knot. Enjoy your love.

Don't let the small be the big one. It's not worth giving up your current love because of someone who hasn't set foot in your love.

Also, if you love your boyfriend, you should tolerate everything about him.

He loves you and is willing to change for you, so why can't you make a change?

Because he didn't get that girl, he thought she was wonderful. Because he got you, you don't feel that way in his heart, but who doesn't have it in his heart. Since the two of them have chosen to be together, they will bury the past together.

Perfectionist, no one is perfect, no one can make mistakes, his past is his alone, his future is with you, as long as those past are not beyond your bottom line, you don't have to be too entangled. Think about it, after all, there were more people who were worse than him in the past, and people didn't fall in love and get married, so their girlfriends didn't want to die.

Then break up! Because you are a substitute, have you ever heard that there are two best ways to forget a relationship, one is time and the other is a new love, so your boyfriend only chased you at that time, because he used you as a supplement.

What if you can't accept it, it's hard for netizens to say anything, if you really can't do it, you will break up.

Of course it will be, how can you say that you don't mind. After all, love is possessive.

But it doesn't matter, it's important not to overdo it, you know. It's hurting each other.

=。Frankly, I don't think your boyfriend needs to tell you so completely. )

As for the ratio. A woman's biggest hobby is to compare. It's undeniable.,Think more about the things that are unique to yourself and your boyfriend.,And then tell yourself that he and his ex-girlfriend can't do it.,Keep the seesaw in your heart balanced.,Neither humble nor arrogant (frankly, it's okay.。。

Wouldn't that be nice?

It's better to be jealous, and it's better to adjust your emotional life. Don't force yourself too hard and don't care, it's unrealistic and uncomfortable, follow your feelings, and adjust your balance occasionally.

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Actually, I don't think I need to worry too much. After all, it's already happening, and you can't change anything so that it will affect your relationship with your boyfriend.

You didn't know him before, and you didn't participate in his past, you want the present and the future, who can not have a past? You can't deny him because of his past.

I'm in the same situation, although my boyfriend was young and didn't do anything else, but I didn't feel very comfortable in my heart, which is normal, this is because we care too much about each other so we have this mentality, but as long as you are sure and sure that you will be happy together.

If you really love someone, just start from the day you start dating, let it pass before, why bother with yourself. After all, "no one is perfect". As long as your boyfriend is single-minded towards you, that's enough.

In fact, everything in the past is in the past.

And he doesn't reserve telling you that he actually wants to confess to you that everyone has his past.

So you need to open your heart.

If you love him, you have to believe in him.

I wish you all happiness.

The past is gone. One should learn not to take it to heart. In fact, I don't mind so much after a long time. After all, it's you who he loves now. He's yours now. Isn't it.

If only you find your second one right away.

You'll forget about her right away, and I've been thinking about a man every year.

Because I'm like you.

I thought I would have unrequited love in my life.

But since the time of qualifying for a real man.

And I realized that I was too emotional.

If it were me, I would ask him if he had been chatting with his ex recently, instead of coming up and questioning what he was talking about with his ex, and then see how he reacted before making a decision.

First of all, you can't directly question him, why are you still in contact with your ex, then he will definitely ask you, why do you know, how did you know, you peeked at my phone, you invaded my privacy, and then the person who made the mistake was transferred to you.

At this time, if he said no, I didn't talk to my ex, it means that he has a ghost in his heart, what kind of ghost is there, it may be that he hasn't let go of his ex, he is still trying to get back his ex but has not succeeded, so he still needs to continue to redeem, but he doesn't know what the future holds, so he hides it from you, afraid that you will break up with him because of this.

Either he didn't talk to his ex, but he was afraid that he would be cranky after you knew that he had chatted with his ex, and then broke up with him indiscriminately, and he didn't want to break up with you, so he directly hid it from you.

At this time, what you have to say is, you tell the truth, I'm not angry, I just want to know what you talked about, if he tells you what they talked about at this time, you really don't get angry, because people are willing to say that it's really nothing, but if you don't say it, you must have said something unseemly.

So for things like your boyfriend chatting with your ex, you score the situation reasonably, but in the end you tell him that you don't like him to contact your ex, so you want him to delete your ex's contact party.