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I don't want my daughter to marry a foreigner in the future for a number of reasons.
First: It's too far.
Don't say that if my daughter marries in a foreign country, I don't want my daughter to marry in another province. Foreigners generally come to China for a short time, and when he turns back, he will go back, and my daughter will definitely go back after marrying him! It's so far away that I can't see my own child, and I don't know if she has been wronged or bullied in someone else's home.
I can't see or hear what she usually does, whether she is full or cold, and I can't even think of her and want to see it, but I can't go because I don't know the way.
And they may not come back to see us once a year, as a mother, I don't want to experience the pain of missing my child but not seeing it.
Second: language barriers.
I don't know any language other than my mother tongue, I don't want to learn, and I don't want my children to marry a foreigner in the future, because we don't understand the language, as a mother-in-law, I can't understand my future son-in-law, how can I trust my children to him?
Third: the customs are different.
The customs of foreigners are different from ours in China, they don't have to honor their parents or anything, and they don't have to go home to accompany their parents during the New Year's holidays, so I don't want my own children to marry foreigners.
Anyway, I wouldn't want my daughter to marry a foreigner, and I don't agree with it in any way. If my daughter wants to marry a foreigner in the future, I will not agree, I raise such a big child, I can be unproductive, but I must accompany my parents.
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<>I don't want to, although I like to have a foreigner's mixed-race baby, how beautiful and handsome the mixed-race baby is, but I still don't want my daughter to marry a foreigner in the future, because I have always grown up alone with my daughter, so I hope that my daughter will not be too far away from me in the future, although this is a bit selfish, but I think this is everyone will have a selfish side, but everyone thinks differently, the selfish side will be different, I hope my daughter is by my side, with me, Because I'm really lonely, I don't know if I can adapt to her not being by my side when my daughter is older, marrying far away alone, of course I'm not an unreasonable mother, I will respect her choice, but from the bottom of my heart I definitely don't want her to stay away from me, the closer to me, the better, so marrying a foreigner, then I'm not far away from my daughter, I definitely don't want to, but if they can take me with me, I think I'll be happy, and I can also take the mixed-race baby, hahaha, It's pretty happy like this.,I don't have any antipathy to foreigners.,Anyway, there are good people and bad people in every country.,Can't say that foreigners are not good, right, no.,So I think as long as it's good for my daughter.,Treat her wholeheartedly.,I won't object.,Parents don't just want their children to be happy.,I have nothing to stop.,I don't think it's necessary.,They have their thoughts.,Have their lives.,I think as long as it's a good thing.,We should all support it.,Instead of suppressing them as elders., We were also young and had our own dreams, so we should also understand what children think!
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As long as the daughter is the true love of the right and the two are happy, the foreigner will support her if her mother's character is reliable.
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Of course, foreign girls are willing to marry Chinese, on the one hand, China's economic development is now among the best in the world, compared to some backward countries, to marry a Chinese man, life worry-free how fascinating! On the other hand, Chinese men are also very competitive in the world in filial piety to their parents and love their wives, so now some excellent women in the world are also willing to find some outstanding Chinese men.
Are girls abroad willing to marry Chinese?
Of course, foreign girls are willing to marry Chinese, on the one hand, China's economic development is now among the best in the world, compared to some backward countries, to marry a Chinese man, life worry-free how fascinating! On the other hand, Chinese men are also very competitive in the world in filial piety to their parents and love their wives, so now some excellent women in the world are also willing to find some outstanding Chinese men.
Our place is the border between China and Russia, we have a transnational matchmaking, the introduction of Russian girls, I have seen the qualification certificates, no problem, I consulted him and he said that the introduction of Russian girls costs 70,000 yuan, I now think whether to let him introduce or I learn Russian by myself and then go to Russia to find, what should I do.
Dear, judging from the current situation, if you want to get twice the result with half the effort, it is best to spend money to let them introduce, which can save a lot of trouble. If the money is very stressful for you, then you can learn Russian on your own and then find it yourself, but it will take some detours and the time cost is very high.
That is to say, I can't find it for 10 days by myself, dear, the time is short, of course, the difficulty is relatively greater, of course, it does not rule out love at first sight and beautiful encounters.
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The main reason why many parents are reluctant to let their children marry foreigners is because parents feel that foreigners are very cruel. Many parents want their children to be with them, so they don't want their children to marry abroad. Parents and children are two separate individuals, and parents should respect their children's ideas.
In real life, many parents are reluctant to let their children marry foreigners. Why is this all about? Here's what I think:
1. Many parents feel that foreigners are very cruel and untrustworthy.
Because some parents are older, they have no contact with foreign people and foreign things, so they think that foreign people are very cruel and untrustworthy. It is precisely because parents have this idea that they do not want their children to marry foreigners, and they do not want to see their children marry abroad and suffer.
Second, many parents want their children to be by their side forever.
Many parents in China very much hope that their children can always be by their side, so that when they are old, they will have someone around them who can take care of themselves. We all know that if a girl marries a foreigner, the girl may live abroad away from her parents. It is precisely because parents want their children to be by their side that they do not want their children to marry abroad.
3. Parents should respect their children's ideas.
In fact, parents and children are two independent individuals, and there are some generational problems between parents and children. Sometimes parents are not able to understand their children, and children are not able to understand their parents. In the face of this uncommunicative intergenerational problem, parents and children should respect each other's ideas and interfere too much in each other's lives, otherwise the parent-child relationship will become very bad.
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Because many parents feel that their children, if they marry foreigners, then they will leave them, and their parents are reluctant.
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The main reason is that parents don't want to part with their children, after all, the distance between foreign and domestic countries is too far.
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Because my parents felt that foreigners were not very reliable, and it was not convenient to communicate.
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Nowadays, there are more and more foreign-related marriages. Due to the great differences in customs, culture, and economy, foreign-related marriages are more uncertain and combative, and various disputes have been reported repeatedly, which has aroused anxiety and anxiety among Chinese parents. Chinese girls, in particular, often live in anxiety and pain after marrying in a foreign country.
As a result, many Chinese girls who marry foreigners end up in divorce. In foreign-related marriages, the Islamic state and the black African state may be more difficult for Chinese girls to conform to. This is not religious prejudice or racial discrimination, but indeed because the differences between cultural beliefs and food and living are really too great compared with those in China.
Islam's cumbersome dress etiquette and strict standards for behavior are basically impossible for Chinese women who have grown up to be carefree and casual without super will and stamina.
Now, let's focus on the situation of black Africans. Because of its history and ideals, Africa was relatively late to development, and it is not an exaggeration to describe most sub-Saharan African countries as extremely poor. Many blacks are still in the stage of primitive tribes, with no food and clothing, and some even live by eating tree roots.
Due to the low overall cultural quality of black people, laziness, lying, and the use of violence are not uncommon among black men, and Chinese girls will soon feel deceived after marrying them. And if you go to live in the African countryside with your black husband, the poor living rooms and poor living conditions in the hall will probably make your intestines remorse.
Black people also have a big characteristic, the genetics are strong enough, whether it is white people or us yellow people, and the children born after marriage to them, they are all black characteristics are very prominent without exception. If you live in our country with a black husband and children, your children's education, employment, and life, whether you bear it or not, will definitely be greatly affected.
Parents all over the world want their children to have a happy marriage and a happy life. If one day, as a Chinese girl, you really fall in love with a black man, your parents come out to oppose it, and you act arbitrarily, I also advise you here: think twice and then act, be cautious and cautious!
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I agree with this point of view, because I think that if I marry a foreigner, there will be differences between Chinese and Western cultures, and it will also open up the distance between relatives, and the feeling of missing He Ji is getting stronger and stronger, so I can't accept the transnational rock love.
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It is understandable, after all, the way of life of foreigners is very different from ours, sometimes the ideas are different, the values will be very different, and the very material service may lead to the breakdown of the marriage.
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Parents are reluctant to let their children marry foreigners because of their language barriers, or because of different eating habits.
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I think it's normal and doesn't matter, love knows no borders, as long as you love someone, you have to follow each other without regrets, and you have to live for yourself.
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Because many people are more mindful of such an identity, let alone a second marriage? But there are also people who don't mind.
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Because these girls are very sexually open, it is very difficult to remarry.
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This is because there are many people who think that if they marry a foreigner, their mind will be as open as a foreigner, and the way and pattern of life will also change, so it is difficult to get married.
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If you meet your true love, of course you can, because love never knows borders.
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I don't think about it, because Chinese and foreign educational concepts and living environments are different, so there will be many contradictions in life that cannot be resolved.
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This is not considered, everyone comes from different countries, and there will be great differences in living habits, and it is inevitable that there will be friction and annoyance together.
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I think I will consider marrying a foreigner, love has no borders, and when love comes, no matter which nationality it is, no matter which country it is, it can't be stopped.
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I'll think about it. Because my marriage must be for love, if I fall in love with a foreigner, then I will definitely marry him.
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I'll think about it. As long as the other party likes China, Chinese culture, and likes me, and I like each other, then there is no problem in being together.
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No, because I know that even if I love each other again, it is just feelings, and the culture and living environment of myself and foreigners are very different, and I can't accept the lifestyle of foreigners.
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No, there are cultural differences, communication is not smooth, customs and habits are different, it is easy to have conflicts, I will not marry a foreigner, and my parents will not agree.
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will consider, two people can really love each other, true love knows no country, and now the transportation is developed, it is also very convenient to visit relatives.
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Will consider. If you meet someone you like, you will consider marrying a foreigner, and true love does not distinguish between nationality and region.
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<> = Poorer than we are! How easy to understand this, you haven't seen many girls in our country marry into foreign countries! They are all married to countries that are more developed than us, but they rarely marry poor countries, right?
= This phenomenon illustrates that it is a true saying that water goes low, and people go to the good side; Once again, it shows that raising a child is married and raising a daughter climbs the high door.
= Have you noticed that even if a rich woman is, she will not find a man who is poorer than her to marry, but often find a man who is richer than her to marry?
= In the past, I joked about the afterlife, but now I am in front of me. The garments have been exhausted, and the needle and thread are still unopened.
= I still want to pity the servant of the old love, and I also gave money because of my dreams. I sincerely know that everyone has this hatred, and poor couples mourn everything.
= It's better to be realistic, no need for love kidnapping! It is very important to be a door-to-door pair, and the disparity is too big to eliminate it!
= The marriage door should be right, how many immortals are matched? Firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea, love is free for you?
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