What do men think when they contact their ex?

For the vast majority of men, they are actually very concerned about their girlfriend's ex, let alone their girlfriend's contact with their ex? So it's easy for them to be cranky.

1. Can't let go of the previous relationship

For some men, although they do things very aggressively, in fact, their minds are very delicate, and they are also very concerned about some of their girlfriends' behaviors, so in such a situation, if their girlfriend is in contact with their ex, they will mistakenly think that their girlfriend can't let go of the previous relationship, and even wants to get back together with their ex.

2. Don't love yourself

For my boyfriend, if he encounters such a situation, he will think that he doesn't love him anymore and even wants to break up with him. Because in the past, my ex and I contacted once after the breakup, and my boyfriend and I were just together at that time, so during that period of time, my boyfriend paid special attention to such a thing, and even often had some arguments with me because of such a thing, so since then, I have never been in contact with my ex, and I don't want to keep in touch with my ex. Because the original contact was to better break off such a relationship, I didn't want to have anything to do with my ex.

The above points are some of my personal opinions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I also hope that when men look at such a situation, it is normal to be cautious, which shows that they care about their girlfriends very much, but we must remember not to quarrel with their girlfriends because of this, otherwise it is easy to hurt each other's feelings.

Thinking about whether there is a chance to get back together, or simply just want to see if their ex is doing well, because their hearts are also complicated and they don't know what to do.

The man should be wondering if she will continue to contact me and have a chance to get back together? Does she have a new boyfriend now?

Men are wondering if it is possible for them to reconcile with their ex, whether it is possible to be together, how to chase her back, and feel that many girlfriends are not as good as her.

Either she really cares about her ex and wants to know how she is doing, or she has not cut off her love and wants to get back together.

I think when contacting their ex, most men will want to get back together with their ex, and if so, they will continue to talk deeply.

There are several reasons why men contact their ex-girlfriends:1. I feel that I am too good, the girl's conditions are not as good as my own in all aspects, and I am a little unworthy of myself, and I have the ability to find a girl with better conditions and more beautiful conditions. However, after looking around and looking around, I found that I was overestimating myself, and I didn't find a girl who was better and more suitable for me than her, tossing and turning, and suddenly understood that there was no way but to return to seek reunion.

2. The relationship between the two people is very good, but the family disagrees, there is no way, so they have to compromise for the sake of their parents, so they have to break up painfully. There is also a situation where two people have a big misunderstanding because of a joke or a trivial matter, and they can't explain it clearly, and the two people hate from love and break up in anger. Although they broke up, they still love each other in their hearts, they can't forget each other, and they are unwilling to break up with their former lovers so helplessly.

3. After the man broke up with her, the ex-girlfriend has reached a new height in appearance and career through her own efforts, and her own resources can also help the man to eliminate her career. I became too good and made my ex-boyfriend regret it and re-seek to get back together.

He'll think that even though you've broken up, you can still do it"Friends"。Although, many people hate this, for most people, after breaking up, they are no longer friends, and they don't get along with each other, because they have hurt each other and loved each other. Now friends are not lovers, so the best ending is to ignore them and end with this.

Or if you want to show off, get a promotion at work, get a new girlfriend, etc., when your own person is having a very good life, you don't feel that you will contact your ex-girlfriend because you want to show off. The boys who will do this are all because they want to give their ex-girlfriend who dumped him a good look, so don't be too desperate.

Because this man is not good at selling people and the current one, he feels that his ex knows him better, and under such emotional pressure, he will contact his ex.

Why did the man contact his ex Qin Qing.

Different arguments for the head of the man.

Reasons why an ex would be contacted.

There will also be some that do not carry the same.

So. Why do men contact their exes.

It depends on the actual situation of each man.

Summary. 1.I want to know how my predecessor is doing.

I haven't been in touch since the breakup, and I'm curious about how my ex is doing. Maybe I do care about how she is doing, but maybe half of it is asking with a gossip mentality!

Confirm if your ex has a new relationship.

Even if the ex no longer has anything to do with him, people are always full of curiosity, and gossip seems to be in nature, even if he really wants to care about whether his ex has a new partner, it is possible that he just wants to know if his ex's new partner is good for him.

What does it mean that the man and the ex are still connected.

Hello dear, I have seen your question, it takes a little time to type, I am sorting out the answer, please wait a moment oh dear

Maybe I really care about how she is doing, but maybe half of the dry tour is asking with a gossip mentality! 2.Confirm whether the ex has a new relationship, even if the ex no longer has anything to do with him, but people are always full of curiosity, and gossip seems to be nature, even if he really wants to care about whether his ex has a new partner, it is possible that he just wants to know if his ex's new partner is good for him.

Don't you love yourself?

No, it's possible that this is the case, pro 3He wants to show off, his current girlfriend is great, or his boyfriend just wants to show off to his ex-girlfriend, and he is doing very well now. Because he is now enjoying the happiness that he didn't have before, because his current girlfriend is very good to him, and his current girlfriend's conditions are also very good, and his current girlfriend is friendlier than his former girlfriend!

Although he didn't want to directly attack his ex, he would definitely let his ex-girlfriend know subtly!

Is it because he doesn't love his current daughter that he doesn't love the current one?

Why does he keep remembering his ex-girlfriend number.

Is it annoying that he contacted his ex-girlfriend to annoy the current incumbent.

How could it be, dear, if you really think that your ex-girlfriend is friendly, how can you break up and choose to be with you as your current girlfriend.

So why did he contact her?

It's hard to remember the number, and it doesn't matter if it's an ex-girlfriend, it's like it's hard for us to remember the ** number of our parents.

Contacting your ex-girlfriend may be the points I mentioned above.

Be confident, dear.

It's your boyfriend's fault for making you insecure, but even if it's easy to feel inferior in love, you have to be confident.

In fact, I look down on this kind of man in my heart, eat back grass, since he doesn't care about your feelings to find other women, instead of waiting for their old feelings to rekindle, why don't you end this relationship first, don't want this kind of man, he didn't take you to heart at all, and broke up decisively!

One is that he doesn't care about you so much, or he is not afraid of losing you, so he dares to ignore the opportunity you give him and still keep in touch with his ex-girlfriend.

The other is that you have a problem communicating with him, your needs are not clearly expressed, or you do not make him realize the seriousness of the problem, so that he feels that you don't really care so much about it, and he feels that contacting his ex-girlfriend is just to talk about some daily topics, do a favor and so on, and he doesn't do anything out of bounds, so it's okay to keep in touch.

He had to be cut off from his ex-girlfriend. Otherwise, sooner or later, you'll watch them get back together, and then they will say sorry to you, drag their hands and leave you alone. Either break up decisively by yourself, or let him know that such an approach has a price, so that he will not dare in the future.

If your boyfriend is just holding on to being friends with his ex, occasionally contacting, and has no other ideas, then this is still acceptable, if you really mind, you can talk to your boyfriend directly, and some unnecessary conflicts between the two of them are because everyone doesn't say anything and puts it in their hearts, and there will be more misunderstandings after a long time.

Normal contact (refers to the chat between real friends, no messy hints and ideas and the like) is okay, and it's okay to have nothing to talk about (the kind that has nothing to talk about). If your ex-girlfriend takes the initiative, your boyfriend shouldn't cooperate all the time, you should tell her that she has a girlfriend, and if you don't want to cause misunderstanding, don't make small talk.

If they are still in love, say goodbye to the sedan chair, if not, it is purely a friend, it is understandable, after all, two people have been separated for so long, and they will be separated all of a sudden, and they will not be realistic, they need time, give him some time to see, and the two of them will discuss it.

I think a better solution is for you to have a showdown with the other party, ask what the other party thinks, and solve any problems in a timely manner, if he still insists on doing so, I think you'd better choose to break up.

If it is once or twice a time to hit his ex-girlfriend **, you can forgive him. But if you do it often, you shouldn't. Then it is doubtful that there are other secret secrets.

When you found out that he was indeed secretly beating her **, you stabilized your emotions at that time, calmed down, asked openly and straightforwardly, asked clearly, and asked him why he did this! See how he treats you right. If he didn't step on two boats with one foot and wasn't half-hearted to you, for the sake of the past, you can forgive and not correct the past.

But it must be done not as an example, and the law must not be repeated. If he is still envious of his ex-girlfriend now, then you should make up your mind and let him go!

There is no need for such a man to be nostalgic for him for the first time, he is not worth having him, he is not worth loving him! If you are with him, you will live a good life, and you will not be happy! Thinking about myself, does it feel better for me to correct myself this way?

Always pay attention to yourself, he corrects the man's problems by himself, and you don't have to worry about the problems of your ex-girlfriend, take care of yourself, complete your cultivation through events, minimize the negative impact of defects, and accept the other results calmly. If your man doesn't have his heart gone and wants to live with you, he will find your goodness and naturally do his best.

If he insists on going his own way, there is no need to be angry, a man who does not know how to appreciate and trust you, it is time to consider whether he is worthy of your love. Resolutely talk clearly, and don't talk alone, call a friend to talk together. What is this called, why deceive and betrayal, for you and your ex, his behavior is immoral, it is double betrayal and deception, and I seriously condemn it.

Then they brushed their sleeves and went away, and each was fine. Give him an ultimatum. Since it is dispensable entertainment and perfunctory, then consciously stop, don't hurt an important person for an unimportant person, if you do it, you can forgive, if you can't do it, then you have to doubt his feelings for you, Xu Tu is decisive, don't be nostalgic.

You should talk to your boyfriend about his relationship with his ex, and if he wants to choose an ex, he should let it go.

After such a situation occurs, you can communicate with this man, and make the laughing other party realize that he is very disgusted with this kind of behavior, and he is very bored, so that the empty other party and the other party keep a safe distance.

If it were me, I wouldn't be in touch with my ex.

Once you break up, you will immediately delete QQ, WeChat and other ways that can be contacted. They all broke up, what are you still contacting, are you so lacking in good chain friends? Since they all broke up, the dolls, bracelets, cups, etc. that he had dismantled were all thrown away or given away.

As for the photos taken together, they were all deleted.

If you are determined to do something, you will stick to it. There is no meaning of nostalgia, life is always forward-looking, and the past is over. What are you doing when you still keep in touch? What should I do if I keep it? Is the lotus root broken?

As long as you can confirm this fact, don't think that you won't be sad if you break up. Since you are sad and sad, then you should shop, you should cry, you should cry, and you should do what you have to do. Life is too short, don't grieve yourself.

Just be brave and get through this stage. I'm a girl, but my answer is unbearable!

To me, it's either a lover or a stranger!

Once you and I were nong, but in the end they didn't get together, and then they were in contact, and it was impossible to be treated as friends emotionally, it must be a relationship closer than ordinary friends, that is, eating in the bowl Looking at the pot, the boyfriend must always be vigilant, or the friends and grandchildren will be green on their heads!

In the same way, boys can't contact their exes either! It's my girlfriend.,Can't bear it.,Principle issues.,What else is there to contact if it's already divided.,Unless you still have feelings for your ex.,In this case,You read it yourself.,Can you accept this feeling?,Anyway, it's yourself who is sad in the end.,I'm saying.,You're a man.,You should know what a man thinks in his heart.......I'm a woman, as far as I'm concerned, I won't have any contact with my ex, and if I break up, I will break it off, whether I find the next one or not, it's a kind of respect for myself and the other party.

Of course, in the same way, I can't and can't accept that my boyfriend has any connection with his ex, I'm a very possessive person, maybe people will say it's not good, but I just won't change.