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Mr. Lu Xun taught, Ah Q spirit, we are more than the upper than the bottom, think about those children who have parents but are abused by their parents every day, even more pitiful.
Being bullied by classmates, I won't comfort or scare you, it's just a matter of facts, if you were asked to choose the object of bullying, who would you choose? Bad popularity? Bad grades?
Too good-tempered? What the teacher doesn't like? If you are bullied, you won't fight back?
Weak? Cowardly character? Good grades but poor personality and low EQ are not liked?
Too inferior? Of course, there may be other reasons.
To deal with those abusers (mentally or physically), the first thing to do is to arm yourself, and there are several ways, such as talking to teachers to win sympathy, seeking authoritative support, building good relationships with classmates (especially those who are equal to the strength and opposition of the abuser), seeking support from the masses, and learning a little self-defense. Secondly, resist and don't let the other party think that you are easy to bully, even if you fail to resist, it is better than not resisting. Third, if the other party is a group of people bullying you, such as fighting, then stare at one of them and beat them up, in short, drag a cushion back.
Fourth, things like living without parents and grandma, maybe the economy at home is not very good, etc., you should look at it calmly, don't mistakenly think that this is different from other children, there are more families like this.
Finally, advice: read more books on how to get along with people and communicate with people to train your emotional intelligence.
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If it's looking down on you, then hit back, if it's bullying and laughing at you, then it's best to build a good interpersonal relationship, to learn to be flexible, I was also bullied in the first year of junior high school, I was beaten back, the most serious one was to break a person's hand, and a few were also beaten by me A few times of course, I was also beaten for a few days. I wasn't bullied in the second and third years of junior high because I was a little more fickle than before. If you don't resist, they will think you're a bully, and it's better to resist and fail than to coax you.
It is still recommended to build a good interpersonal relationship, which will be much better.
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This one! Are you that kid? Go directly to the teacher.
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It's better to have a sustenance. Then learn to face yourself and others. Read more positive books.
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People will always be sentimental, forgetting is not the way, you have to face it! Accept! Only people can be strong!
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Then try to live a better life than those who have bullied you, at least when you encounter them, you can face them well.
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The person who can't afford to joke is also a person who is full of bottom lines, you don't know what to say and suddenly step on his bottom line, speak carefully, accidentally he gets angry again, and one word is tired. Suddenly remembered so-and-so, he often joked with us, it doesn't matter, play, everyone is happy; As a result, once we also joked with him with a smile mentality, and he exploded instantly, wanting to scare people.
There are happy times and unhappy times, then what do you think, what do you think, since he loves you so happy or unhappy is up to you, if you have someone you like, then the unhappy is the two of you, if you don't have a favorite person, it depends on whether his love can change you, happiness is in your own hands.
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