What do you think about a marriage that is inseparable because of children?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-23
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The parents do not divorce, but the relationship is not harmonious: the child will still be hurt, and it will hurt in the heart, and even have extreme doubts about marriage and love. Children who grow up in such families are likely to distrust both parents at the same time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Parents divorce, children are hurt, and there will be emotional deficits when they grow up: this is because the one who stays cannot give full love. We can't get one person to give two completely different kinds of love, at least not with modern science.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Parents divorce, children grow up smoothly: unless your child has a resilient heart, and the indispensable luck, and someone else in life who can give him the love of the other half that she is missing, you will never see a happy ending. Even so, it is elusive for you to find out if there is a heart that cannot be touched under the happy exterior of him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Should divorce be chosen for the sake of a marriage where the children are together? Answer: There should be a divorce

    In the minds of the older generation, they think that marriage is two people living together, especially when you have children, until now, there are still many women whose ideas are very old, and feel that for the sake of their children, even if they are not satisfied with this marriage, they will not choose to divorce, but continue to maintain the marriage, in fact, this is the most unwise choice.

    First, this old concept is not right, and a marriage maintained by children will not go long

    I believe that this situation is often encountered in real life, there are too many couples who have no feelings between them for a long time, and they live together completely for the sake of their children, because they feel that as long as the two are together and do not divorce, even if the two do not love, they will not hurt the children. In fact, this traditional concept is wrong, first of all, we must know that relying on children to maintain their marriage is definitely not going far, even if you can persist in not divorce for a few years, but can you persist in not divorce for a lifetime?

    2. Two people who have no feelings will lose the fun living together

    A marriage without love will not be happy, the marriage maintained by children alone is destined to be a "short-lived ghost", in the long run, you will feel more and more upset, such a life will one day you will be bored, the so-called long pain is not as good as short pain, it is better to divorce early when the child is not familiar with the world, so that the blow to the child will be a little smaller, and you can still take care of the child after the divorce.

    3. If your relationship has been cracked and irreparable, then divorce

    The broken mirror cannot be reunited, and the marriage with cracks is irretrievable like a broken mirror, don't say things like thinking about the child, so dragging it out will not only delay your youth, but also cause more damage to the child.

    If you really can't get by, then divorce, and you can continue to be good to your children after the divorce, so don't have any psychological burden.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Divorce should be chosen, because a marriage for the sake of children is painful and there is no happiness at all.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Divorce should be an option. Because the two of you have no feelings, the marriage of two people can be said to be in name only, so divorce should be chosen.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's all said that it's for the children to be together, so why don't you think about the children now, it's irresponsible to yourself and irresponsible to the children, and you have to take care of the children if you want to divorce.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is no such thing as a perfect marriage in life, just about it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Right. The marriage of two people has a great impact on the children, and it is best not to divorce until the children are fully sensible.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think this is wrong, the child may be more uncomfortable if you don't divorce when you two of you fight every day, and it is better to be happy with the divorce.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think it's right to do this, it costs your own life, and it also makes your child live in an unhappy environment, which is not good for everyone.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    As husband and wife, we all want their marriage to be happier and more fulfilling, because we all know that husband and wife can be together because they both like each other.

    It is precisely because of the fact that husband and wife can like each other that they can be better together. And for couples, after they get married together, they both want their married life to be happy and fulfilling.

    Especially after they had children of their own, me. They want their marriage to be very happy, but we also see that not all couples have a very good life after marriage. There are also some couples who find that the other party is not suitable for them after marriage, and even the two people have a lot of conflicts, which eventually leads to a lot of problems in the relationship between them.

    Even they want to divorce each other. So some people just want to know if you will not divorce for the sake of your children?

    Perhaps for a small number of people, they think that the relationship between husband and wife is not good. Even if they don't divorce for the sake of their children, then they have no way to be with each other very well. And even that ends up making them even more unhappy, so we see some people who don't get divorced because of their children.

    But we see that it's actually for most couples. Once they have children, they will not easily divorce each other. Because they know that once they get divorced, it is not them who will be hurt the most, but the children.

    There are even some children in single-parent families, maybe. I can't get better growth. So we see for most couples.

    I know that once a couple divorces, it is actually the children who will be hurt the most, and even have a great impact on the children, so we see a lot of couples, they will not divorce easily. Because once you get divorced, your children will be greatly affected.

    Therefore, as a husband and wife, they are usually able to understand and support each other. In this way, they can face any problems and difficulties better in the end, so that the relationship between husband and wife can be better. It can also allow them to take better care of their children, so that they can eventually grow up happier and happier.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The tongue often contradicts the teeth. It's normal for couples to quarrel with each other. Quarrels indicate that there is a difference of opinion in terms of empathy, and that there is something to be said.

    The other party doesn't know either, and the words don't suppress the mood of both parties, and the mood is not heavy. Husbands and wives often let each other know you better and understand your inner world through quarrels. Only when these spices come in together, can the husband and wife love and care for each other more.

    The three views do not agree, there is no common language, I get bored after listening to each other's words, masculinity is serious, selfish, no responsibility for the family, can not give the other party a sense of security, does not consider everything about the other party, or everything about the other party In this case, whether it is a man or a woman, they are people without basic literacy, no children, in this case, there is no need to quarrel at all, simply divorce, and each manuscript Liang goes its own way. There is no need for such a marriage at all.

    Such a choice will not be the same. Whatever you do, you are all of one heart and one mind. Some people may not choose to divorce, and some people don't have children.

    If you quarrel often, the conclusion is a different story! Why do I say so resolutely, this key is not a long life, and I want to be with people who make me comfortable! However, it is limited to the case of not having children.

    If you have children, you should pay attention to them in everything! Children are the continuation of their own lives. We should try our best to give our children a complete home and a happy childhood.

    That's the first choice! Quarrels between husband and wife are inevitable and not uncommon. In the long life of a couple, there will always be quarrels!

    When it comes to divorce, it should be the most helpless choice. Due to traditional beliefs, most couples see the share of family and children and are still accustomed to the "grievance-grieving" approach.

    In an instant, it is indeed very undesirable for some young people to abandon their families and children because of impulse. It's too late to regret it afterwards, so always advise young people to be rational and sober. You must know that the life of "every family has a difficult scripture" is like this.

    Don't treat marriage as a child's play, be cautious. (William Shakespeare, Hamlet, Woman) When the children were away, we both had a good relationship. If you have children, you will often quarrel over trivial matters.

    In fact, divorce is unnecessary. There is no one who does not quarrel when two people are together. Men should forgive women more.

    It's not easy in this life. In fact, it is a good match. Divorce is not good for both parties.

    Especially bad for children. So I don't agree to divorce. It's a long time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm going to get divorced because it's not what I want at all, and it's pretty devastating.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Of course, I will not choose to divorce whether I have children or not, because my husband is really good to me and takes care of me, and the relationship between us is also very affectionate.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No, marriage is for yourself, so marriage needs to be managed by yourself, and you will not force yourself for the sake of your children.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Many people are unhappy in their marriages, but they don't divorce for the sake of their children, because the children are the people they care about the most, and the damage to the children is very great, so many people will choose to continue this marriage. In fact, a good marriage needs to be managed, and when your marriage is unhappy and you want to give up, you should think about moving on.

    We will have our own marriages as we grow up, but we will encounter many problems when it comes to managing marriages. Everyone wants their marriage to be happy and long-lasting, but if you don't do it well, it will make two people who love each other strangers. Especially a woman, even in an unhappy marriage, will not divorce, because what she is reluctant to give up is the child.

    Children are a piece of meat that falls from the body, and if they get divorced, it is a very harmful thing for children, and many people have been enduring each other for the sake of children.

    In fact, when we are unhappy in marriage, we must find the reason for ourselves. It is a special fate for two people to be together, and this fate needs to be cherished, and only in cherishing it will fate become long-lasting. If you always feel that you are unhappy, this idea is not right, we should summarize our faults in unhappiness, and strive to make this unhappiness become happiness, so that our life will become wonderful.

    You always think that this marriage is unhappy, and the next marriage will be even happier, your thinking is not advisable, and you will leave a lot of regrets after the divorce.

    In fact, in a marriage, if you are really unhappy, you don't need to divorce for the sake of your children, you can choose a happy marriage for the sake of your children. If you continue this unhappy marriage, your children will not be happy. If the husband and wife are not affectionate, the children will look at it, which will cause fear of marriage, and when the children grow up, they will not believe in marriage.

    Therefore, if we can't go on with a marriage, we don't need to divorce for the sake of our children.

    If the marriage is unhappy, we must summarize our own shortcomings, if two people really can't go on, there is no need not to divorce for the sake of the children, but should seek their own new marriage.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, if the marriage is unhappy and the divorce is not divorced, it will also make the child live in an unhappy environment all the time, which will have a very bad impact on the child's growth. So if you are not happy, you should divorce in time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No. If the marriage is not happy, I will feel very angry when I see my partner every day, and he will be irritable when he sees me, this kind of family environment is very depressing, and it is not conducive to the growth of the child, and even distorts the child's psychology, so it is better to divorce.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When encountering such a thing, of course, I will not choose not to divorce for the sake of my children, because people's lives are very short, and we must find our own life and happiness, and we must find someone who loves me to live the rest of my life without regrets.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I would have chosen not to divorce for the sake of my children. Because I still want to give my children a perfect family. So that he won't hurt too much.

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