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Nowadays, there are a lot of boys who are reluctant to pursue girls, which is a very uncommon phenomenon, because many times boys will be full of desire to win and lose for the girls they like, and they want to get what they want. But nowadays boys rarely take the initiative to boldly pursue a girl, not just because they are poor, in my opinion, there are mainly the following reasons.
First, the concept is changing, and there are more diverse choices. Because now with the development of society, concepts are becoming more and more diversified, and everyone does not think that a person must fall in love and enter the palace of marriage. Many times they choose to be single, and now there is a lot of singleness, and they never think that they want to fall in love, because they can live well alone and enjoy the state of being single.
If there is suddenly one more person in your life to disrupt your life, it will become more unaccustomed, and for such people, they do not want to have a partner. <>
Second, today's girls are too squeamish. Another important reason is that there are now a lot of money worshippers, as well as some pastoral women's rights. These girls have been affected by some chicken soup for the soul on the Internet, and the requirements for boys in life have become very high.
Even the conditions have become very harsh, the average boy is no longer able to enter their eyes, never know how to be considerate of each other in life, and blindly want boys to pay to get the favor of others. <>
3. Life is stressful. It is precisely because this is a fast-paced era of life that everyone has their own very big life pressure, and these life pressures will be overwhelming many times, and people will not be able to breathe, and have no more time to communicate with others, and invest energy in another person who may not produce returns. Nowadays, people are refined egoists, and they will subconsciously choose to avoid things that will not produce returns and things that do not have hope.
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It's not just because of poverty, but also because now, feelings are too cheap and not easy to chase.
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No, because today's girls are more arrogant and realistic, it is difficult to socialize, and secondly, boys are more stressed in work and life.
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It's definitely not because of poverty, it's that girls are too difficult to chase now, girls think that the ratio of men and women is unbalanced, and they always feel so proud, and it seems to be a girl's right to be chased.
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It's not just because they're poor, because today's boys feel that girls have a higher vision, and they will have a lot of conditions after being together.
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It's definitely not because of poverty, it's really hard to chase girls now, and the requirements of girls for boys are too high, and girls are getting better and better, which also discourages boys.
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Many boys are reluctant to chase girls, not because they are poor, but because there are many girls who are particularly hypocritical, not only asking boys to succeed in their careers, but also asking boys to take special care of themselves and accompany themselves.
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First of all, you have to be sure that you will chase her if you like her, and some boys believe that stalking can chase girls, and they do not deny that the success rate is relatively high. But it's not a common problem for all girls, and it can sometimes scare others. It should be that I love her very much and can't let it go, or it may be a matter of face, since others know that I am chasing her, wouldn't it be too faceless if I didn't chase her.
Girls have to tell for themselves....
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True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.
True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.
Because, letting go is the ...... having everything
When you cherish it, please love it well.
When you let go, bless ...... well
No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things! Even one person will not be alone!
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Since we have chosen love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him when he (she) is in difficulty, encourage him (her) when he (she) is happy, and comfort him (her) when he (she) is sad. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm. Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.
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Many people do not fall in love even if they are good in all aspects, and there are many reasons that may cause this.
First of all, this type of person may be afraid of getting hurt, they think that being in a relationship may hurt them, they don't want to face the pain that it may bring, and their friends are foolish that they don't want to be involved in a relationship.
Secondly, this type of person may not have time to fall in love, they may be busy with work, study, and life, and do not have much time to pursue their love, so they are reluctant to participate in romantic relationships.
In addition, such people may feel that they are not attractive enough, they are afraid that they will not attract the opposite sex, they are afraid of rejection, they are afraid that they will not be loved by the other person, so they are reluctant to fall in love.
In addition, such people may not have any experience in a relationship, they may not know how to get along with the opposite sex, they may not know how to interact with the opposite sex, they may be afraid that they will do something wrong, so they are reluctant to participate in a relationship.
Finally, this type of person may not have found their true love, they may have been looking for it but have not found it, they may think that they are not qualified to be in love, so they are reluctant to participate in a relationship.
In short, although many people are good in all aspects, they still don't fall in love for many reasons, such as fear of getting hurt, lack of time, lack of charm, no experience in love, no finding true love, etc. For such people, we should understand them, not blame them, and provide them with help and support so that they can be more confident and able to let go of themselves and find their true love.
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Maybe it's because of the power of today's girls, vanity, and boys feel that they can't afford it, so they don't chase it.
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Now many boys are reluctant to pursue girls, perhaps the view of love has changed greatly, two-way love is meaningful, sometimes not active, may be disappointed in love, not love has become cheap. In our daily life, everyone's view of love may be different, some people have experienced the vicissitudes of love, feel that love is the worst emotion in the world, let themselves live in a painful environment every day, and some people feel that love is very sweet, love can make you feel the subtle and happy changes from the ruler to life.
One. is unwilling to take the initiative to pursue girls, perhaps because of disappointment in love.
As we grow older, in fact, many people can feel that love has undergone earth-shaking changes, in our youth, our thoughts about love are very simple, and we only hope to be with the person we like. When we grow up, we feel that as long as we can find a suitable life for ourselves, we can accept it, many boys no longer take the initiative to pursue love after experiencing the pain of love, and only hope that happiness can come to them, and do not want to experience too many emotional changes, perhaps this is a manifestation of disappointment in love.
Two. If you don't take the initiative to pursue love, it doesn't mean that love has become cheap.
Everyone's view of love is different, some people think that love is beautiful and noble, and some people feel that love is the source of pain in life. If you don't take the initiative to pursue love, maybe you don't have too many ideas in love, put your thoughts and efforts on your work and studies, everyone's pursuit of life is not the same, and you go in the direction of your own life, maybe there is no love, but it doesn't mean that love becomes cheap.
Love is the most inscrutable emotion in the world, which makes us sometimes happy, sometimes sad, sometimes the process of love is more important than the result of love, at least we have had our own young and frivolous love.
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