Why is it that when you dig deeper into a thing, you will find that it is not as good as you imagine

It's like you think that your boyfriend is someone else's good, your husband is someone else's good, and your girlfriend is someone else's good, and your wife is someone else's good, because you don't understand, so you always feel that others are as good as they appear on the surface, and when you really understand it, after you really get closer, you will find that everyone is mortal, and no one is really as beautiful as it seems. It's only what the legend says, and when you get closer, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you imagined.

It's like when we walk down the road and see a beautiful woman who shines brightly, we will say wow, how beautiful, and then we will think that everything about this beauty is good. But when you understand it, you find that this beauty is a very sloppy person, her clothes are not washed for a few days, her socks can be worn for a week, and she speaks very vulgarly in private, so the beauty in your mind is shattered, and you find that she is such a person, and then when you see her again, you will automatically think of her sloppy appearance, and then you don't think she is beautiful.

In reality, there are really a lot of such things, without the whole picture, we like to evaluate others only according to the little bit we see, but in fact, people who have not seen the whole picture, how can the evaluation you make be correct, you just see what you think, you want to see, so in your heart it is a very beautiful thing, but when you get closer to see the whole picture, you find that you are wrong, it is not as you have seen.

This is also why life is only as first seen, the first time you see will beautify that person because you don't understand, and after knowing each other for a long time, you will concretize the beauty we think, so specific that you feel that the other party is not so beautiful, you will also have a little temper, and there will be times when you are unreasonable, which will also make you feel painful, and then you will no longer say that he is beautiful.

I think it's because distance produces beauty, and we usually encounter a lot of similar things when dealing with people, but we should still adjust our mentality, after all, nothing is perfect.

Because when you dig deeper into a thing, you will find that it has a lot of bad things, so you will find that it is not as good as you imagined.

Anything, once you dig deeper, you can find a lot of shortcomings and slots, and you will forget the beautiful side of the thing itself, so you will feel more and more bored.

Because when you dig deeper, you will be able to discover the ugly things hidden in this matter, which cannot be seen just by looking at the surface.

Because all things exist in society, it is impossible to be absolutely perfect, flaws are inevitable, and we must know how to understand and be tolerant.

Because often we are attracted to a person, we all look at its surface, but after in-depth understanding, it is not as glamorous as our surface.

Maybe we had too many expectations for this matter, so that we didn't expect it to find out what it really was.