When we grow up, why do we know how to keep silent the more bitter we are?

When we grow up, we need to learn to take responsibility, and in this case, there are many times when we have to endure the pressure silently.

Because we know that even if we vent our complaints, it won't do much, it's better to calm down and then change the pain.

Because when I was a child, I cried because I was comforted by someone, and when I grew up, I realized that there are some things that I can only bear by myself, and there is no one to talk about.

Because all the hardships of life will choose to bear it by yourself, and you know in your heart that no one will pity yourself, and only when you are strong can you win respect.

Because we are more mature when we grow up, the more bitter things we will only bear silently, rather than venting at will.

Because when you grow up, you understand the importance of silence, when you encounter hardship, you complain to others, and others will not necessarily sympathize with you and will help you, so you can only remain silent.

Because the more bitter I feel in my heart, the more I know that it will not help to speak out, so it is better to be silent, silence can avoid a lot of trouble, and it can also make you recognize many people, there is nothing wrong with it.

When we grow up, we begin to mature in our hearts, and when we are more miserable, the more we will know how to remain silent, because even if you seek everywhere, you may get the same answer, it is better to remain silent, and it will make you stronger.

Because we already know that no matter how much we say, it is useless to do it, and only by doing it in a down-to-earth way can life be changed.

When we were children, we were always chattering, and we especially liked to share our hearts with others; When we grow up, we learn to be silent, and the more bitter life is, the more reluctant we are to confide in others, and we just want to bear all this silently alone.

We once wanted to change our lives by talking, but our lives didn't change. I have just entered the society for two periods, and my life is really hard, because of the instability of my work status, even eating is a problem. At that time, I stayed in a rented house with my classmates, and I habitually complained to my classmates every day, hoping that he would comfort me.

But the more I talked, the more bored I became, and my life remained the same. Later, my classmates chose to go elsewhere for work reasons, and my life was even worse.

So I slowly learned to be silent and no longer easily express my thoughts to others, because I knew that it was all useless. No one will help you because you say more, and no one is obligated to help you.

The more bitter life is, the more we must learn to smile and be silent, otherwise we don't know how to live life. Every bitterness in life teaches people something, and I have long learned that there is no point in complaining. But life still hasn't made much progress, and the bitterness in my heart is flooding like a river that bursts its banks.

But I will never talk to someone like I used to, I will only smile in silence and face it silently.

Maybe this is the process of human growth, and this process is a little bitter. We don't want to be silent, we don't learn to be silent, we just have to be silent in life.

Whether the road forward is bumpy or smooth, you can only continue to walk alone, and talk around like a resentful woman, not only will not help life, but will make everyone around you disgusted with you.

Adult life is not always smooth sailing, no matter what lies ahead, we must go step by step.

Because we know that it is useless to complain about being tired, only by staying silent can we let ourselves grow up slowly and grow up slowly.

Most people will grow up to be silent, and some will not. Because the world of adults and children is different, the world of children is simple and pure, and the world of adults is complex and cumbersome. Think about when you were young, basically every day was noisy, today down the river tomorrow and the old sleepy house, our house with a hole yard every day is the laughter of children, so lively, to the holiday night do not want to go home and want to stay with classmates and friends.

When I was a child, I quarreled and gave me something delicious, and I got along right away, and after a while, I forgot about the quarrel.

When you grow up, it seems difficult for you to keep it like this, because after talking too much, it will seem unstable, and sometimes it is easy to offend people if you talk too much, so the whole person seems to be silent and feel helpless. Sometimes I want to find a place where there is no one, and I shout and play unscrupulously just like when I was a child. Go back to the joy of childhood, be happy.

In addition, life is very stressful now, and most people have mortgages and car loans. After a long period of tiredness, it seems that it is difficult to be happy, and if you have more than enough heart and insufficient strength, you will become silent.

I feel that no matter how tired life is, I must have a good attitude. When the mentality is good, everything will slowly get better, don't be depressed and live in a trance. Nowadays, many people suffer from depression because they can't think about it, you must know why you are living?

What is the purpose of living? It's good to figure it out.

The question of whether or not you will become silent when you grow up may have a different answer for everyone. It depends on a variety of factors such as the individual's personality, experience, and environment. Here are some of the factors that can influence whether people become silent or not:

Life Experiences: The life events and circumstances that people experience can affect their personality and behavior. Some people may experience difficulties and setbacks, becoming silent and introverted. Others may have experienced positive experiences of life and have become more outgoing and cheerful.

2.Social environment: The social environment in which people live also affects their personality. In some cultures and societies, silence and introversion are seen as more in line with etiquette and traditional values. People who grow up in such an environment may be more likely to become silent.

3.Personal Character: Personal personality is also an important factor in deciding whether or not to become silent.

Some people are naturally more introverted and reticent and may become more introverted as they grow up. While others are naturally more outgoing and cheerful, they may remain outgoing even after experiencing difficulties.

4.Social skills: Social skills also have an impact on whether people become silent or not.

If a person lacks self-confidence and social skills, he may feel uncomfortable and difficult to express his thoughts, thus becoming silent. While the other person may be able to communicate with others easily because they have good social skills.

In short, whether or not to become silent when you grow up is a complex question that depends on a variety of factors. Some people may become silent due to factors such as life experiences, social circumstances, and personal personality, while others may remain outgoing and cheerful. Whatever an individual's choice, it is important to respect each individual's individuality and differences in order to build a positive and inclusive social environment.

Personality and behavioral habits are formed gradually during the process of growing up, and are also influenced by the surrounding environment and social experiences. For some people, they may become more introverted or silent as they age, for a variety of reasons.

Some people may have experienced unpleasant social experiences, such as being isolated, bullied, or misunderstood, which may cause them to feel uneasy or lack confidence in social activities. At the same time, as they get older, some people may become more rational, mature, and thoughtful, leaning more towards static thinking and observation rather than being as active and expressive as they were as they were as children.

In addition, the fast-paced and competitive nature of modern society can be stressful and anxious, and some people may choose to avoid social activities as a way to relieve their emotional stress. In conclusion, everyone has their own growth trajectory and experiences, and for some people, becoming silent or introverted may be an inevitable consequence of their life experiences and circumstances.

Because the older you get, the more you understand the truth, and the more you see the world, the easier it is for people to see through too many people and things. They are becoming more and more reluctant to express themselves. There are many things that others may not understand, and it will not help you, so it is better not to say them.

I didn't get a response when I said it.

As we grow older, our surroundings have an impact on us, and gradually we will find that talking too much seems to be offensive, so we gradually become silent.

Because when you grow up, you will take into account the mood of others, and you will also consider whether what you say is appropriate, and many times silence is better than speaking, so everyone is becoming more and more silent.

I remember a lyric that says that the more you grow up, the more lonely you become, and when you grow up, you understand more, and you know that many words are not to be said.

Because when I grow up, I think more about the things in my heart. There are some things that I just know in my heart and don't want to say them anymore, so I keep silent.

When I grow up and understand that actions are more convincing than words, I stop arguing about these meaningless topics.

At work, use silence to express their kindness. Around us, especially some people who have had life experiences, they know how to tolerate and be humble, so when we meet someone competing at work, when someone recommends themselves or takes the lead, those who have experience often use silence to express their kindness. In fact, their silence does not mean that they will not do these things, but that they do not want to compete with others to make their relationship awkward.

Such silence, in fact, is a very wise kindness.

Many people think that silence is a kind of incompetence, a kind of cowardice, and a kind of evasion, but in fact, this is just a family opinion. In fact, many times, silence is a kind of cultivation, a kind of realm, a kind of wisdom, and a kind of kindness. A truly kind person is not cowardly, not hypocritical, not cowardly, not incompetent, their kindness is just to make each other's world better and better, just to let the people who interact with them know how to respect each other.

So, many times, they use silence to express their kindness.

In their interactions with others, they use silence to express their kindness. This society is complex, interpersonal communication is also full of all kinds of people, etc., and the state of the circle of friends is also different and difficult to unify. Therefore, the interaction between people, sometimes, seems very complicated.

Some people get together, like to brag, like to make irresponsible remarks, like to artificially create a certain atmosphere, and even like to attack certain people.

The pressure on yourself is increasing, and it is best to stay silent if you don't want to talk, because you tell others that no one else can help you pay off your car loan. When I was in a bad mood when I was young, I would call three or five friends to sing and drink, and I slowly found that my body couldn't bear it anymore and couldn't stay up late, and it was very uncomfortable to drink too much, and I was afraid of being drunk! When I was young, I liked to fight for wine and body, but now I slowly find that my body is slowly going downhill, and my physical strength can't keep up!

The older I get, the more I don't like to make friends, it's better to be a friend of the past, and the best friends go to the best together in the end, and the rest are passers-by in life. So as I get older, old friends don't have anything to say, and I don't want to make new friends! Silence is normal.

If it weren't for their character, every silent person would have gone through a process of constant choice and compromise. Choosing to remain silent may be out of helplessness, but at least you can better protect yourself and not run into walls everywhere in the quagmire of reality. The silence may be because he has seen through the warmth and coldness of the world, tasted the embarrassment of being a donkey's liver and lungs, and hid in a small building and was at ease.

The silence may be because he saw the ceiling of career development and understood that no amount of effort was in vain, so he chose a philosophy that was not about himself.

Sometimes the silence is because I have experienced the heart of the bright moon but the bright moon shines on the ditch, full of enthusiasm to suffer the first drink, and even suffered a bloody lesson, and I can't get out of the shadow of disappointment for a while, so I choose silence. What exists is reasonable. Silent people seem to be indifferent, but they have not completely lost their self-motivation, and as long as they are used wisely, they can still stimulate infinite energy.

Because the heart is like stopping water, there is a clearer and more rational choice for life. ‍‍

The main reason is that when you grow up, you will face more and more pressure and take on more and more responsibilities.

Silence is golden, and I personally think it's a sign of maturity. Silence does not mean that there is no right to speak, silence does not mean that there is nothing to say, there is an attitude in life called retreat, which is a manifestation of wisdom, I remember a classmate, who used to be the captain of the school's debate team, familiar with ancient scriptures. At that time, we all called him Xiao Zhuge , and he was happy to enjoy such an honor, and finally developed into a "famous mouth".

Not only was his name debated at school, but he also liked to carry it to his family, and this continued until his first marriage. Everyone knows about him, if you think about a man competing with his own women every day, how many women are willing to accompany him to old age on such days. When I saw him again, I was blown away.

The image of Xiao Zhuge and famous mouth is gone, and what is shown to us is a middle-aged uncle who has become silent with a big head glasses.