I wish someone could help me, could anyone help me

Personality discord is just an excuse, it is an excuse for yourself to dislike each other, if you love each other, then you will also regard the other party's shortcomings as advantages.

I teach you one of the most effective ways, that is, to leave her for a month, no opportunity to create opportunities, this month you will often think about him, in the end there will be a difficult feeling, which shows that you love him very much, but you can't feel it every day together, if you don't have him this month, you are very happy, very relaxed, then it means that you have no feelings or you don't like her, then you leave her in pain, otherwise not only hurt him, but also hurt you, just say this, fate is in your own hands.

If you have time, you can talk about it carefully, add me.

Personalities are not compatible, if you have to be together now, you will be separated in the future. You don't want to change someone, and others won't change you easily, unless you change yourself for him, and he wants to change himself for you. Otherwise, it will be difficult for you to come together, if the two people's outlook on life, values and personalities are different, it is difficult to be together, you can give yourself a period of time to get along, see if the two of you can still tolerate each other after a long time, try it.

Personality discord, this is not necessarily an excuse, there is a saying that the personality complementary, then it depends on whether the two people will appreciate each other when they are together Two people are together, some time is dancing together, some time is an audience, one is a dancer Then you have to act with your heart, look at it with your heart, two people will not have something in common, even if it is a little bit, why not also take this point as the center of the circle, and slowly expand this circle? Start with those irrelevant things and slowly bring the other person into your circle, is this okay?!!

My boyfriend and I have a discordant personality, but I think I'm very comfortable with him, and then I found out that because he was putting up with me, which made me sad for a long time, if the two have discordant personalities, there is always someone to put up with, otherwise we will always quarrel together.

Later, in order to keep him from living so depressed, I tried to change my eldest lady's temper. The two of them have to think more about each other and compare their hearts with each other. As long as that's the case, we can still be together!

If you don't have a harmonious personality, you won't be happy together, and it won't last long, be rational, unless you can really endure this discord, tolerate and accept her character, otherwise the final result will not be good.

··· If you don't have a good personality, try to change your personality or the personality of your target. Assimilate yourself to her or contaminate her

PS: Do you only like her looks?

As long as you can tolerate it now, it will be slowly coordinated later.

In the past, they got married on the orders of their parents, and they all lived well, but today there are many loves, marriages and divorces.

As long as you don't want to be together.

Any excuse can be made.

This situation is due to two reasons.

1. He doesn't care about you at all.

2. He cares about you very much, and is afraid that being with you will delay you.

Now figure it out and then make the next plan.

I'm afraid it's just an excuse for her not to want to be with you.

Let's look at other reasons.

Only you know.

According to my experience, it was really difficult, both sides were deliberately avoiding something, and in the end, everyone felt tired and dispersed.

It's hard to say, there are many kinds of personalities to match

If she's talking to you, she's going to break up with you.

Learning to help others is not for the sake of profit, but a kind of calmness of mind and soundness of personality. Learning to help others is the gentleness of the spring breeze combing willows; It is the night rain that moistens the flowers and nourishes them; It is to help the people of the truck to bury a helping hand; It is to help the child pick up the badminton ball; It is a few words that show the way for others; It is also a timely rescue at a critical moment....

Learning to help others can start small, and you can help the world at the same time. When you see the suffering of others, a hot spring flows from the bottom of your heart, you understand helping others, when you take another step towards him, you can really help them, learning to help others is so simple, sowing love, gentle and bright flowers will grow in your heart, touching others at the same time, it is a joy, growth, happiness and comfort for yourself.

Learning to help others is also the character pursued by extraordinary people, and it is helping others that makes them truly extraordinary. is like Jiao Yulu and Niu Yuru, helping the people has become synonymous with them as officials. Qiao Liquid Bend is like Pu Cunxin and Jiang Wenli, helping AIDS patients is their inner rule outside of being actors.

Just like the creator of "Harry Potter", when he gained fame, he did not forget to share the money brought by this honor with poor and filial children. While we worship them, shouldn't we pay more attention to our inner spiritual qualities and help others?

As a sophomore, I had this situation in my junior year of high school.

In short, mentality is the most important thing.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, learning is a gradual process, you have to calm down your mentality, take your time, step by step to go steadily, I am not a student of a famous university, I am not qualified to say more about learning skills or anything, but I think at this time it is not about quantity but quality, calm down and look slowly, don't say how many questions you have to do in a day, but how many questions you have learned in a day, each question, especially the important question type, you must really see through, you have to remember that every time you do it, do understand a question, You will master one or even a few more knowledge points, and it is likely that you will get one more point through this question type during the exam, be optimistic, and see your progress, and your natural nerves will not be so tense. If you can't stand it for a while, it's okay to find something else to relax, listen to **, chat with good friends, but you can't waste too much time, and then go back to learning when you're almost done, and don't look at it and tie yourself to the bench, so the efficiency is basically zero.

Look at your problem, you really want to study hard, but if you want to learn something well, interest is very important, I was very poor in English when I was in high school, I was disgusted when I saw English books, and I didn't learn well in the end, but after college, I began to get in touch with a lot of English songs, and I also had a strong interest in English. In the same way, if you want to learn Chinese and mathematics well, you have to really like them, and this is especially true for literature and science. Sometimes you have to do things with a purpose, but you can't just do it for the result, it will be very tiring, and it is also very good to enjoy the process, in fact, after going to college, you will find that the life of studying day and night in the third year of high school is really very innocent and beautiful.

Read too much and your mind is already in a state of confusion. You start by relaxing and resting for a few days. The more urgent, the badr. The more anxious you are, the more you can't read the book, and the more pressure you have.

Learning is actually very simple, perseverance + good method.

I like to learn a certain course every day, and I like to change a subject when I am tired of watching this subject (constantly changing my brain, so that I am comfortable to read).

Think while reading the book, and then draw down important sentences. Study + review. Revision is a matter of taking a few minutes to go through the sentences you have drawn.

Liberal arts depend on thinking and understanding.

If you are a science student, you can buy reference books and engage in a sea of questions.

Find a few confidants, have fun with good friends, talk to them, it will be better!!