I broke up with him because he was immature, and now I am reluctant to do anything

Updated on psychology 2024-04-18
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not that he's immature, he just doesn't want to imitate the way other boys treat you, he wants to treat you in his own unique way, he loves you very much, don't you already feel it? When you are in love, it is most taboo to compare your other half with the other half of others, and you will always feel that you are not good with colored glasses. There are many ways to be nice to you, and it's not hard to find a boy who has been around you all day long, but are you sure you can find someone who has been doing this to you for decades and all your life?

    You must know that being dull is the true meaning of life, and a good boyfriend is not necessarily a good husband.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Find another one, don't you like to be gentle and considerate and sweet-talked.

    Later you will understand that this kind of boy is really worth relying on!

    You can pay more attention to his habits, his preferences, and care more about him, and don't keep talking about how good other people's boyfriends are, in fact, they also have bad things, just like your boyfriend, although it's not so romantic, at least he loves you very much, and you love him.

    Apologize to him, send a message, meet and have a meal, and then take his arm and go home together Three years of relationship will not be easily said and scattered I wish you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If the things in him that make you reluctant are more important than thoughtfulness, then try to redeem them.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Friend, I didn't say it. Do you know how to think before you do something, and don't regret it once you do it? Regret can also be chased. Sincerity is fine. If you feel embarrassed. Start anew. Boring.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You should calm down, analyze whether you are asking too much, and then if you feel that you have always felt pity, then you can muster up the courage to apologize to him, and then see his reaction, I think his agreement or rejection is the best for your reluctance and pity at this time. Believe in your heart, if you still don't give up......

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  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Immaturity is immaturity, and if you are willing to be wronged as before, there is no way. But boys will always mature one day, it depends on whether you are willing to stay up or not.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If it's too perfect, you'll be tired Look at the advantages and be considerate of you, you don't have to be right, the two of you are tender and good, just hit a ** It's okay to give some shares.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I know he doesn't know how to do this, in his heart he thinks he's done well enough, but I really want to feel pampered, my friend's boyfriend is very considerate and gentle to my friend, which makes me very envious, so today I asked him to be gentle and considerate to me like my friend's boyfriend, and he said angrily"If they're good, go find them"I was very sad, I wanted him to be more considerate, he didn't understand what I meant, and he told me to go to someone else, I said he was very naïve, immature, and couldn't take care of people, and he said that I was dissatisfied with him in every way, and he said that he had done well enough. Why does he just not understand what I want, and now that I have broken up with him and am sad and willing, what should I do? I'm so tired I have a better answer.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think he loves you as much as you think.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You have a better man than him waiting for you to discover.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'm in a similar situation to you, and I don't know what to do, but I think you should love each other, if you really love each other, you can try to change yourself, make yourself better, make the other person like yourself more, let him love himself more, so that you can be together, you can be happy, you can try, no matter what, I think you should try, if you really can't be together, you can also try to accept, to change, If you can be together, you can also try to accept him and make him love you more, if you can be together, you can also try to accept his family, so that his family can also accept himself more, so that you can be happy, you can be together forever, you can try, no matter what, you should try to change, no matter what, you should try to accept, so that you can be together.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When encountering such a situation, I think you should adjust your mentality, and then you should also look forward, there is no need to immerse yourself in the pain of falling out of love, you must divert your attention, set a goal for yourself in life, keep fighting, and don't think about the past.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think you should reflect on yourself, and secondly, if you are really reluctant in your heart, you should propose reconciliation to the other party.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then you should redeem the other party, because only in this way can you make your relationship better, and you can also avoid regretting it later.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since you want to break up and are reluctant, it means that you still have feelings for each other, and it is recommended that the two of you talk seriously and strive to make the other party improve.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you are reluctant to share, then teach him to mature, let him experience some people and things, and he will slowly mature.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you can make him mature, motivate him. If you can't change him, and you can't accept it, then break up.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    4th Floor Classic! The fifth floor is more classic! These two buildings are the correct solution, I took a screenshot and collected it! On the third floor, you don't always try to change others, and a teenage boy who has been in love with a forty-year-old woman passes by!

    And I would also add that he said to take care of you, probably just talking and playing, in order to adjust the atmosphere of the chat, you know, he can't take care of you, he also knows, so it's a joke. Also, why do you feel so tired? Why can't you just take your boyfriend's immaturity as a kind of liveliness?

    The same thing, you can see it as a good thing or a bad thing. Why are you so negative? Are mature men that good?

    Don't you think your heart is old and you need an immature boy to complement you? The fifth floor says that everyone will show immaturity in front of his beloved, because you are the person he trusts the most, so in front of you he will show his most vulnerable side. In fact, there is also a saying that everyone will have an IQ of zero in front of his beloved!

    You see his immaturity, but you don't know that he has been stupid for you! It's rare for a boy to be so infatuated, and you're not satisfied!

    You add me to perfection, I said that I have given my girlfriend a lot of surprises, almost every day, she is not as tired as you, and finally cold to me. Some women never know how to be satisfied.

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